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<p>In this episode of the <em>Work at Home Rockstar Podcast</em>, Tim Melanson chats with <strong>Scott Maderer</strong>, coach and founder of <a href="https://inspiredstewardship.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Inspired Stewardship</a>, about mastering your time, your talent, and your treasures so you can live out your calling. Scott shares a coaching win where a money conversation turned into a communication breakthrough, and explains why you can&#8217;t read the label on the bottle you&#8217;re sitting in.</p>
<p>Scott also opens up about relocating after 26 years and how it disrupted his business and personal life for over a year. From there, Tim and Scott dig into creating a dedicated workspace when you work from home, the difference between coaching and consulting, why revenue isn&#8217;t profit, and why keeping business and personal money separate matters from day one.</p>
<h2>Who is Scott Maderer?</h2>
<p><strong>Scott Maderer</strong> is a coach and the founder of <a href="https://inspiredstewardship.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Inspired Stewardship</a>, which he started with his wife Carrie to serve Christian men and couples who are struggling to live out their calling. After almost 30 years in education, Scott began coaching in 2011 and has run the business full time from home since 2017. He and Carrie are certified Human Behavior Consultants and members of the John Maxwell Team, and Scott is certified in DISC.</p>
<p>Scott has worked with over 1,000 clients in 20 countries and hosts the Inspired Stewardship podcast. His book, Inspired Living: Assemble the Puzzle of Your Calling by Mastering Your Time, Your Talent, and Your Treasures, was published by Morgan James on July 2, 2024. Along with one-on-one coaching, he leads speaking engagements, workshops, and employee wellness trainings for small businesses.</p></div>
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<p>The problem is rarely the problem. Scott&#8217;s coaching story started as a money issue, but the real breakthrough was a couple realizing they were talking past each other. When something keeps going wrong in your business, it&#8217;s worth asking what&#8217;s really underneath it.</p>
<p>Your home office doesn&#8217;t need to be fancy, but it does need to be yours. Scott&#8217;s tip about a dedicated seat at the kitchen table is a simple way to give your brain the same &#8220;I&#8217;m at work&#8221; signal you&#8217;d get driving into an office. Over time, you learn which work needs full focus and which can happen on the back porch.</p>
<p>That first $1,000 check isn&#8217;t $1,000. Revenue has to cover expenses and taxes before anything comes home, and Scott recommends paying yourself like any other line item. Even two separate credit cards, one for business and one for personal, is a solid start.</p>
<p>Small decisions compound. Scott compares behavior to compound interest. It can work for you or against you, and the changes you make today won&#8217;t show up tomorrow. Keep making them anyway.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro<br />00:22 Coaching Win Story<br />02:15 Beliefs and Blind Spots<br />04:34 Setbacks and Relocation<br />08:30 Work From Home Routines<br />13:22 Masterminds and Support<br />15:13 Coaching vs Consulting<br />19:43 Business Cash Flow Basics<br />23:39 Separate Business and Personal<br />31:18 Designing an Intentional Business<br />35:19 Whats New at Inspired Stewardship<br />37:54 Compounding Habits Mindset<br />41:18 Resources and How to Connect<br />42:19 Favorite Bands and Wrap Up</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work at Home Rockstar podcast. I&#8217;m very excited for today&#8217;s episode. We&#8217;re talking to a coach and fou- and founder of Inspired Stewardship, and what he does is he helps people to master their time, their talent, and their treasures so they can live out their calling.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m really excited to be rocking out today with Scott Maderer. Hey, Scott, are you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Absolutely. Let&#8217;s go</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. So we always start off here on a good note. So tell me a story of success that we can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> You know, I&#8217;ve been working from home since 2017. I&#8217;ve run my own business full time since 2017. And for me, the biggest successes that I&#8217;ve had across all of those years, and, and we can get more into the history and how I got there later, but is when I have those moments that I&#8217;m working with a client, I&#8217;m working with, uh, uh, somebody, and their life clicks in a way that makes the light <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> bulbs go on, and you can see it.</p>
<p>It- it&#8217;s those moments &#8230; I&#8217;ve looked at &#8230; Actually, last night, I had a, a client last night, a client couple, that they&#8217;re- they&#8217;re dealing with some money situations, you know, ch- job change recently, this, that, and the other thing. They&#8217;ve got a lot going on in their life. But what we talked about and what ended up clicking was on, you know, communication, and how do you make sure that you&#8217;re on the same page?</p>
<p>And, and it&#8217;s one of those things where he had done one thing and, and she was kind of mad about it, but the percep- It wasn&#8217;t really the reality. In other words, you know, the reason why he did it was a good reason, and the reason why she was worried was a good reason, but neither one of them was really hearing the other.</p>
<p>And so even though we&#8217;re talking about money, and it was a money-related coaching moment, it was like, &quot;Oh, wait, we were just talking past each other,&quot; you know? And- and what actually helped is it helped the marriage, it helped the communication, it helped all of that stuff. So for me, all of my <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> good moments revolve around when I get to see things go past the tactical into the things that really change people&#8217;s lives i- in a, in a good way.</p>
<p>And so last night was a great example of one of those moments.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Isn&#8217;t that interesting that it, it, often the problem is not the problem, right? There&#8217;s</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Almost never is the problem the problem.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, we have this sort of, like, masking ability of, like, going, &quot;I don&#8217;t really wanna talk about the actual problem, so I&#8217;m gonna talk about this one instead,&quot; right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Well, and it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s not even&#8230; It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s that, that&#8217;s absolutely part of it, but it&#8217;s also a lot of times we&#8217;re very unaware of our underlying choices that then reflect in results. You know? I- people talk about behavior y- and belief versus action, and, you know, which comes first, right? Belief or action?</p>
<p>And my answer to that question is always yes, because it&#8217;s a feedback loop. You know, what <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> happens is you begin to see the world a certain way, so therefore you act in a certain way, which then causes that to come back at you. You know? It, and it, it reinforces it. And that could be a positive experience, that could be a negative experience.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not, this isn&#8217;t a value judgment. This isn&#8217;t a, that makes you a good person or a bad person or anything. It&#8217;s just literally how we see the world. It&#8217;s how our brain works. And when you realize that, you can&#8217;t ever see the label to the bottle that you&#8217;re in because you&#8217;re in the bottle, and the label&#8217;s on the outside.</p>
<p>You know? And, and this is where working with coaches and working with other people can be so valuable because, you know, I&#8217;m outside of the bottle. And so I&#8217;m out here going, &quot;Well, the label says this,&quot; you know? And, and you&#8217;re in the bottle going, &quot;I can&#8217;t read it.&quot; And it&#8217;s like, well yeah, of course not, &#8217;cause you&#8217;re in there.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re, you&#8217;re inside your own limiting beliefs, your own biases, your own worldview, your own <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> history, your own whatever that&#8217;s created the situation that you&#8217;re in. It sometimes does take talking to somebody. It could be a good friend, it could be, you know, a spouse, it could be a coach, it could be a mentor or mastermind group, whatever.</p>
<p>Talking to those people that are kind of outside of the bottle, outside of the situation that can look at it and go, &quot;Well, I can read it. This is what it says.&quot; You know? &quot;It&#8217;s really obvious to me.&quot; You know, and you&#8217;re in the middle going, &quot;It&#8217;s not obvious at all.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah, totally. Well, and, uh, I mean, that&#8217;s why you need a wingman, right? That&#8217;s the whole</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah, you need somebody</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> So now sometimes things don&#8217;t go as planned though, right? And I know that it&#8217;s&#8230; I mean, the fear of failure is what keeps so many people from doing what it is that they really wanna be doing, right?</p>
<p>And so I like to talk about it on this show and get it out there and go, &quot;Hey, listen. Look, we&#8217;ve made some mistakes, and here, we&#8217;re still here. Things are still going,&quot; right? So I&#8217;m wondering, can you share with me something, like a bad don- something that didn&#8217;t go as planned, and how you recovered from that?<span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Uh, sure. Um, i- it&#8217;s kind of one of those I&#8217;ve got a list of those, right? Um, so I, I could go back in time to where I first started the business, but I&#8217;ll let, let me, let me give you something a little bit more recent just so it&#8217;s relevant to&#8230; &#8216;Cause people sometimes think, &quot;Oh, you&#8217;ve been doing this for a long time.</p>
<p>You must not have any problems now.&quot; And it&#8217;s like, what are you talking about? I woke up yesterday. Of course I&#8217;ve got problems. Um, so one of our, one of the things that&#8217;s changed for my wife and I recently is we relocated. So we used to live kind of outside of San To- San Antonio, out in the middle of nowhere, and now we&#8217;ve located up to, uh, Bryan-College Station, Texas area, and we&#8217;re kind of more in a big community and, you know, kind of now more in the center of things than we used to be.</p>
<p>We used to be, like, two hours from the closest Walmart, Starbucks or McDonald&#8217;s, and now we&#8217;re, like, 15 minutes from four of those, you know, that kind of thing. So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s really been a big change for us personally and, and it&#8217;s created some, you know, financial change, it&#8217;s created relational <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> change. We&#8217;ve moved to a different area of the country.</p>
<p>You know, we left people that we knew and friends, and we&#8217;d lived there for 26 years. So even though my business is portable and I can do it anywhere I have the internet, and I&#8217;ve done it anywhere I have the internet, it still affected my business. My, my personal life and having to uproot things and change things and repack things and rebuild networks.</p>
<p>So for instance, you&#8217;re working from home, finding ways to socialize and connect with people outside of my home, not just through a screen, you know, is important. Well, I left some of those connections, and so I&#8217;m having to create new ones and, and rebuild it. And so it doesn&#8217;t sound like a business problem at first.</p>
<p>People are like, &quot;Well, isn&#8217;t that your personal life?&quot; It&#8217;s like, yeah, but your personal life and your business life are intimately connected. And I would say that&#8217;s true, truer when you work from home too because, you know, literally we had to&#8230; When we were looking for a house, we had to take into consideration, well, Scott works from home.</p>
<p>Can he work from <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> home at this house? You know? It, it, it affects all of those decisions. And so for us it was really challenging. Um, it was really hard. Uh, it- we&#8217;ve been here a little over a year, and I would say we&#8217;re just now kind of getting things rebuilt and reconnected. So for over a year it disrupted everything I was doing, not just in my business but in my, my personal life.</p>
<p>And, and, and again, it&#8217;s not because it was a bad thing per se, but it was definitely a bad note in that it, it, it changed the way&#8230; You know, we had a tune that was playing all in harmony, and then it&#8217;s like, oh, you gotta change the time and the tempo and, uh, whatever, right? You know, the signature of the notes, and completely uprooted, completely changed it and now we&#8217;re kind of getting back into tune, I would say finally.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s taken, it&#8217;s taken a long time, and it&#8217;s taken really deliberate action and planning by my wife and I of what are we gonna do to make <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> sure that we, you know, we make new connections? What are we gonna do to make sure that the business is still stable? What are we gonna do to make sure that we can continue to do the things that we want to do and feel called to do, but also maintain, you know, throughout, throughout all of that disruption.</p>
<p>Uh, you know, just as simple as scheduling client calls and things can be a challenge through that kind of, through that kind of change and uproot- uprooting.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, I think that this, uh, this topic is, is pretty relevant to someone who might be even considering to just start working from home, like right now, because that whole disruption, I mean, that&#8217;s a big challenge going from working a job and being pretty much told what to do to now being on your own at home with all those distractions.</p>
<p>And like you just said, I mean, s- you know, taking into account, you know, if you&#8217;re relocating, where your home office is gonna be. Well, m- m- some people <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> might not have the ability to even deal with that right now. They live where they live. So, you know, if they don&#8217;t have a dedicated office or something like that, what are they gonna do, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Mm-hmm. </p>
<p>A- and a lot of times, uh, you know, I do talk about, especially if you&#8217;re working from home, it, it, it&#8217;s creating a dedicated space. That doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to be a home office. It&#8217;s beautiful if you can get that, and, you know, I would say I&#8217;ve been blessed with that and it really helps. But you still need to create a dedicated space.</p>
<p>So even if it&#8217;s literally there&#8217;s a seat at your kitchen table that you never sit in except when you&#8217;re working, you know what I mean? That&#8217;s my work seat , you know? It, it can be as simple as that to create it. But what you&#8217;re trying to do is you&#8217;re trying to create triggers for your brain that when I&#8217;m in this place with this environment, I&#8217;m working, you know?</p>
<p>Because you get that naturally when you go to the office. You drive into the office and it&#8217;s like, &quot;Oh, I&#8217;m at work.&quot; You <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> don&#8217;t get that naturally when you&#8217;re working from home. And so I actually think it&#8217;s a mistake to &#8230; You know, yeah, it&#8217;s beautiful, and yes, sometimes you can work from the couch or whatever and do things, you know, in other places, and that&#8217;s fine, and I do that too.</p>
<p>But I still have a dedicated time and place and schedule, and I show up to work, you know, and I put on &#8230; I even literally will wear a different shirt or &#8230; Now, you know, we&#8217;re on a Zoom call. You below, I&#8217;m wearing shorts and you know, and, and, and comfy shoes. But, but, you know, I&#8217;m gonna put on a nice shirt and, uh, because I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m at work, you know?</p>
<p>And so it&#8217;s creating those mental triggers, uh, with space or with environment or with behavior that, that lets your brain go, &quot;Oh, yeah, I&#8217;m at work now. This is, this is work time. This is work space. I need to be focused on that.&quot; I, I found that to be really helpful for myself, and I&#8217;ve worked with several clients making that transition over the years, and it really helps them as <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> well.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I agree. And when I started work from home, I didn&#8217;t have a whole lot of examples around me , right? It&#8217;s been quite a while now. Uh, however, if I were to look back, that would, that would&#8217;ve been something that I would definitely learn from because, I mean, I think, you know, 20 years in, okay, it&#8217;s not gonna really ruin my day if I work from the couch today</p>
<p>But when, when you&#8217;re, when you&#8217;re transitioning from a, from a job to a, to a business work from home, I, I think the more you can create this routine and, and this, uh, this new, you know, triggers for your brain, the easier that transition&#8217;s gonna be, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah. It, it makes, it makes that transition easier. And, and again, it&#8217;s not a, like I said, it&#8217;s not about being, um, rigid about it where it&#8217;s like, oh, I can never work from the couch or whatever. But when I work from the couch, it&#8217;s more like, okay, I&#8217;m&#8230; It&#8217;s kinda like, uh, w- back when I worked corporate, you know, there would be days I got to work from home, <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> and they were always a little different than the days I got to work in the office.</p>
<p>You know, in terms of what I, my expectations were, my output was, my, you know, what, what meetings did I or not have, and that kind of thing. I kinda do the same thing. It&#8217;s like there, there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s kinds of work I can do on the back porch in the sunlight, you know, watching the chickens kinda thing, and then there&#8217;s other kinds of work that it&#8217;s like, no, that, that needs to be at the computer focused, intense, you know, at the right spot with, with the intention and the energy that it, it deserves.</p>
<p>So, but you don&#8217;t learn that until you do it, uh, if that makes sense. And that&#8217;s where I think the routines and the structure can help is then you kinda start to learn, oh yeah, this is work that I can, I can do in the afternoon or in the evening or do from the couch or, or whatever. That kind of, uh, less intense work for lack of a better, better word</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, you know, you know that it&#8217;s work that you&#8217;re doing just on the side, right? I mean, you&#8217;re watching <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> TV, it&#8217;s a little bit distracted, but, you know, you&#8217;ve&#8230; There&#8217;s a couple things that you can just throw, like, you know, i- into whatever it is that you&#8217;re doing.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> I can plow through some emails and just figure out whether I need to follow up on them tomorrow, and maybe I&#8217;m not even following up. I&#8217;m just flagging them and saying, &quot;Yeah, I need to follow up on that one,&quot; or something. Yeah, I can do that while other stuff is going on. It&#8217;s not that big of a deal</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Now speaking about other influences, um, I&#8217;m wondering, like for you, do you hire coaches in your business, or do you have masterminds, or like w- where is it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> A- all of the above.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, you do?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Um, I, I&#8217;ve been part of several masterminds over the years for different things. Uh, a- and always got benefit from &#8217;em. E- uh, especially as a small business owner, being able to plug into groups where there&#8217;s other small business owners, especially if they&#8217;re in the same industry, but even if they&#8217;re not.</p>
<p>Um, if you&#8217;re working from home, same thing. Pe- there&#8217;s at least some people there that work from home, so you&#8217;ve <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> got that&#8230; I- it&#8217;s no longer, &quot;I&#8217;m the only one doing this. I&#8217;m the weird one.&quot; You know, it&#8217;s kind of a, &quot;Oh yeah, there&#8217;s other people that do this too. This isn&#8217;t as weird as everyone makes it out to be.&quot;</p>
<p>And I, you know, after COVID, I think working from home became a little less weird, but it&#8217;s still not that common, you know? And even running your own business and being an entrepreneur, you know, i- it&#8217;s sexy, and everyone likes to talk about it, but at the same time, there&#8217;s really not that many people doing it.</p>
<p>And so I&#8217;m part of a group called Coach Connections. We&#8217;re all financial coaches. We all work together. Uh, through that I&#8217;ve got masterminds, I&#8217;ve got, um, uh, i- individual coaches. I&#8217;ve hired individual coaches over the years. Uh, when I got started podcasting, as an example, I hired a podcast coach &#8217;cause I&#8217;m going, &quot;You know, I kinda know what a podcast is and how to do it, but why should I go beat my head against the wall for a year and a half not doing it well when I can hire somebody that&#8217;s great at it who can get me up to speed in a couple of months?&quot;</p>
<p>You know, that kind of thing. So I&#8217;ve hired both for <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> specific situations like that, and then I&#8217;ve plugged into, you know, just general masterminds and coaches that help with business or particular challenges that I&#8217;m having, uh, over the years as well.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. So now, I&#8230; And now, when we spoke a little bit about this before the show even started, uh, but there&#8217;s a sort of a, a weird situation where I think some people when they&#8217;re thinking about a, a coach or when they&#8217;re thinking about somebody in that position, it&#8217;s like they&#8217;ve got their stuff all together and they&#8217;re perfect at what they do, and that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m hiring them, &#8217;cause they&#8217;re the expert.</p>
<p>But in reality, everybody&#8217;s just people, and everybody has their strengths and their weaknesses. And like y- I like what you&#8217;d mentioned earlier, when you hire a coach, you&#8217;re like, &quot;Okay, well, I&#8217;m hiring them for this specific thing because that&#8217;s their gift.&quot; But you wouldn&#8217;t necessarily go get other advice that they&#8230;</p>
<p>Like, i- it&#8217;s impossible for them to know everything, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Right, no. A- and, and really when you hire a coach, the goal, in <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> my opinion at least, a- and I&#8217;ll talk a little bit about the difference between coaching and consulting. You know, coaching has kind of become sexy where everyone wants to call themselves a coach even if they&#8217;re not actually coaching.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> &#8216;Cause to me coaching, pure coaching in its purest form, and, and again, don&#8217;t hear this as a value statement.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying this is better or worse. Everything has its value. But it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s when I&#8217;m coming in from outside of the situation and my job is to probe and to challenge and to ask questions to help raise the awareness of you, okay? In, in other words, I&#8217;m not there to provide a solution. I&#8217;m there to ask the right questions.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m there to challenge your thinking. I&#8217;m there &#8230; Now, all the way at the other end of this kind of continuum is consulting. Also very valuable in certain situations. This is when I have a specific problem and you have a <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> specific solution, and if I implement your specific solution, it will solve my specific problem Give you an example.</p>
<p>H- hiring someone to help me with Facebook ads, right? If I need somebody to help me with Facebook ads, I don&#8217;t want a coach. I don&#8217;t want someone to come in and go, &quot;Well, Tim, what do you think about Fa-&#8230;&quot; I want someone to tell me how to run the stupid ad , you know? It&#8217;s like&#8230; A- and again, that&#8217;s not because coaching&#8217;s bad or consulting&#8217;s bad or coach- coaching&#8217;s good and consulting&#8217;s good.</p>
<p>You know, it&#8217;s not the good or bad. It&#8217;s w- what am I trying to solve? But when it&#8217;s talking about things like when I was talking about whether I wanted to go into business for myself, when it&#8217;s talking about my career, when it&#8217;s talking about my family, when it&#8217;s talking about decisions I make around finances or my spiritual walk or those sorts of&#8230;</p>
<p>Those are very personal. I really don&#8217;t want Tim coming in and saying, &quot;Well, Scott, here&#8217;s what you should do.&quot; You know? I, I, that&#8217;s not gonna be helpful to me. It doesn&#8217;t solve my problem. I need someone that can stand <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> beside me and go, &quot;Okay, let&#8217;s, let&#8217;s think this through. What&#8217;s going on?&quot; Now, truth is, usually, and this is definitely true for me, when I&#8217;m working with people with time or finances, there&#8217;s a little, there&#8217;s times that I&#8217;m consulting, and then there&#8217;s times that I&#8217;m taking that hat off and I&#8217;m putting on a coach hat, you know?</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause usually I gotta put the coach hat on to actually get into diagnosis and figuring out what&#8217;s going on. But then I may get to a point where it&#8217;s like, &quot;Ah, now I understand. You know what, Tim? I&#8217;ve got a tool that you can use and a simple&#8230; You know, this will help solve that problem. Now let&#8217;s implement that tool or that habit or that behavior or that way of thinking or that whatever it is.&quot;</p>
<p>But I&#8217;ve gotta wear the coaching hat long enough to find the right tool. If I come in as a coach and go, &quot;I&#8217;ve got the one system that works for everybody,&quot; run, okay? That don&#8217;t, that doesn&#8217;t work , you know? And again, that doesn&#8217;t mean the coach is bad. It just means that&#8217;s really consulting. That&#8217;s no longer coaching.</p>
<p>And, and it could be valuable as long as you have the right <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> problem and that&#8217;s the right solution. But if, if not, it, it&#8217;s gonna frustrate you more than it&#8217;s gonna help you. A- and unfortunately, I&#8217;ve seen a lot of coaches&#8230; I, like I said, I think since coaching&#8217;s kind of become sexy, a lot of people call themselves a coach, and what they&#8217;re really doing is consulting or advising or i- mentoring or, you know.</p>
<p>And again, all of these are good, all of these are valuable, but they&#8217;re different things , you know? And don&#8217;t hire an advisor if you want a coach. By the same token, don&#8217;t hire a coach if you want an advisor. You know, that, that&#8217;s two different behaviors.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah. And I think it&#8217;s, uh, maybe just the way to, to figure this out is figure out what you want and then, and then you can decide whether it&#8217;s a, yeah, whether it&#8217;s a consultant or a coach they want. Uh, but you mentioned finances a few minutes ago, and I&#8217;d like to get into that a little bit because running a business, especially in the very beginning, and I, I mean, all businesses are different.</p>
<p>Some have inventory, some don&#8217;t have inventory, some are service, some&#8230; You know, but, but in the, in the end, I mean, they all have to make money, right? <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> And I find that, that, you know, making sure that the, the cash flow is positive tends to be a, a really difficult thing that we&#8217;re not necessarily taught in our, in our, you know, high school classes or whatever it happens to be.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m wondering, you know, do you have any, any insight on that, on how we can make sure that, that we&#8217;re, we&#8217;re always in the, in the positive?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> You know, a lot of it is setting up the, again, we&#8217;re back to habits and systems, um, you know, the habits into the systems. So what I see happen a lot that burns people is two things. One is they treat revenue the same as profit, and I&#8217;ll define that in a second. And two is when they treat business and personable, personal as kind of&#8230;</p>
<p>They, they don&#8217;t separate them. And, and I don&#8217;t just mean a physical separation, I mean a mental separation, you know? That, that my business is my business and my home life is my home life And I don&#8217;t treat the business like a piggy bank, uh, but I <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> also don&#8217;t treat it like it&#8217;s just part of my normal routine.</p>
<p>You know, it, you separate them. Um, so with profit and revenue, what I&#8217;ve seen happen a lot of times, especially when we first start out, you get that first check, you know, from somebody. They, they paid you, I don&#8217;t know, $1,000, right, for whatever you did. You know, you&#8217;re a freelancer, you&#8217;re doing X, Y, Z, I don&#8217;t care.</p>
<p>You get that $1,000 check and you&#8217;re like, &quot;I made $1,000.&quot; No you didn&#8217;t, you know? Because your business has expenses, and there&#8217;s stuff that your business has to pay for before that money can come home. I mean, odds are really good there&#8217;s something, you know? If nothing else, there&#8217;s this little thing called taxes, you know?</p>
<p>And, and guess what? You know, if you work in the US, Uncle Sam wants their cut, you know? And you&#8230; But they&#8217;re not gonna come for it for months, so it&#8217;s real easy to be like, &quot;Oh, I can just, I&#8217;ll deal with that later.&quot; And, or, &quot;The, the electric bill&#8217;s not due till later. I&#8217;ll deal with that later.&quot; And so you <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> treat revenue, which is that $1,000, the same as profit, which is what&#8217;s left after expenses, right?</p>
<p>That&#8217;s kind of the definition of profit. And so when you do that, you&#8217;re setting yourself up for failure from the very beginning.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> And usually it leads to the second problem, which is you start treating your personal, and you may even have it all in one account, and sometimes your business pays a bill that maybe was really a personal bill, or sometimes you pay a bill for the business out of your personal account, and you just start, everything starts blending together until it&#8217;s like there&#8217;s no separation mentally, emotionally, financially between the two.</p>
<p>And that, again, always leads you towards problems, because you need to treat the business as its own business and, you know, I put on my business hat and I&#8217;m looking at my business finances. And guess what? That, that line item there that&#8217;s money going home to me, <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> that&#8217;s, I&#8217;m paying somebody, you know? I&#8217;m paying a 1099 or I&#8217;m paying an employee or I&#8217;m paying whatever, depending on how it&#8217;s set up, but I&#8217;m paying somebody.</p>
<p>And yes, it happens to be you, but as the business owner, you have to look at it just like that&#8217;s an employee or just a- another expense, and it just happens to be the money going home to your, your personal account. And then when you get on the personal side, you have to be able to look at that and go, &quot;Okay, this is the money coming in and this is what I&#8217;ve got to spend, and what am I gonna do,&quot; you know, on my personal side, and not just immediately go, &quot;Oh, the business can pay for it.&quot;</p>
<p>Uh, and I&#8217;ve seen so many people do that, and it always ends up in a bad place.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. I&#8217;ve, uh, so I- I&#8217;ve gotten into tax trouble actually, really serious problems. And it- it&#8217;s- it&#8217;s pretty much exactly what you just said. Like, it&#8217;s like you get this big paycheck, and you&#8217;re like, it- it feels like a paycheck like when you were working, like, for a job. Only the difference is that you probably already know that the company takes money <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> off of that for you to put into taxes.</p>
<p>Y- they don&#8217;t do that when you get a check from a client.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> you still end up having to write a check, you know? That&#8217;s the other thing, you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. So, so it&#8217;s just, it&#8217;s just one of those things. But then the other thing that I, I have found, and, you know, m- maybe you&#8217;ve had a similar experience. So I&#8217;ve been self-employed for almost the entire time. It&#8217;s only since the beginning of 2025 that I actually incorporated my business and, and actually created an actual business business, and it&#8217;s so much cleaner, so much cleaner.</p>
<p>This whole separation between business and, and personal. Uh, but when you&#8217;re self-employed, everything&#8217;s all intermingling all the time, and including your taxes,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> deliberate to separate it. Yeah. It, it&#8217;s&#8230; So if you&#8217;re a sole proprietorship, so there&#8217;s two&#8211; there&#8217;s business organization from a tax perspective, and then there&#8217;s business organization from a business licensing or structure perspective, <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> you know? And, and what&#8217;s interesting is we use exactly the same names, but they&#8217;re not the same.</p>
<p>So, you know, it, which is even more confusing for those of us that are s- coming into it. If you&#8217;re not a CPA, you don&#8217;t know all of this stuff. And again, I&#8217;m back to this is one of those times where a lot of times it&#8217;s good to hire somebody or, or work with somebody that knows. Or again, like my job sometimes as a coach is to be the quarterback and go, &quot;Okay, I can&#8217;t solve that because I&#8217;m not a tax expert, but we need a tax expert for that.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s go find one. Here&#8217;s the questions we need to ask. Here&#8217;s what you need to look for,&quot; that kind of thing. Because guess what? Not every CPA knows how to deal with home- work from home and small businesses. Um, and when you talk about incorporation&#8230; Uh, so are you a subchapter S?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Uh, I&#8217;m in Canada, so so we have all</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> okay.</p>
<p>Never mind. Different name. Uh, you know, same concept, but different name, yeah. Um, but yeah, in, in the US, um, we have LLCs, we have sole proprietorships LLCs, partnership LLCs, and then we have subchapter <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> Ses, which are technically still LLCs, and then we have C corps, right? But what it boils down to, that&#8217;s all just gobbledygook and, and it doesn&#8217;t matter.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need to know what all of that stuff is. The point is there comes a time where both organizational structure-wise, you may need to look at a different structure, and tax-wise, you may need a different structure. What I will say is I have&#8211; if you don&#8217;t have a good CPA, I have seen CPAs who encourage people to do it when it actually ends up being more expensive for them to do it that way, &#8217;cause they can easily make the mistake that, oh, it, you know, we just need to&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause it makes their job easier. You know what I mean? And, and, and it&#8217;s like, so from their point of view, it&#8217;s like, &quot;Hey, this&#8217;ll make my job easier. Let&#8217;s do it.&quot; And yet then it costs the, the, the person. So I will say it is one of those things where you do have to really understand and ask questions and work with people that know what&#8217;s going on and are good at what they <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> do and that you can trust.</p>
<p>And, you know, that again gets back to that, um, one of those times where I think it&#8217;s good if you have other business owners around you and other support staff or support people who can go, &quot;Hey, let&#8217;s&#8230;&quot; Don&#8217;t just make that as a knee-jerk decision. Let&#8217;s just put it that way. Spend some time and some energy on it.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> No, yeah, exactly. But, but I mean, the, the bottom line I think is your initial point, which is do your best, like even if it&#8217;s in different spreadsheets or email accounts to, to have your, your personal</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> you have to create some separation. Yeah, absolutely. Um, mentally if nothing else</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. So it doesn&#8217;t necessarily ne- mean that you have to go incorporate, &#8217;cause as you mentioned, there, there are some nuances with that, both in Canada and in, in the States, where you really should talk to somebody about that.</p>
<p>I know I did, right? And, and it, it took me&#8230; I mean, w- when I was even thinking about incorporating, it was, oh, it&#8217;s gotta be at least <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> six or seven or eight years between the time when I start, first started learning about it to when I actually did it. So I, I mean, it, it, it was just my business needed to be into a certain po- portion, or, um, I mean, um, uh, to get to a certain place before I was ready to move that.</p>
<p>And we were not gonna get</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah, sometimes there&#8217;s certain income y- limits before it makes sense. There&#8217;s all sorts of particulars, so that&#8217;s why, yeah, like you, I&#8217;m like, I&#8217;m not an expert of that. I&#8217;m not an expert. I&#8217;ve worked with clients in over 20 countries. There is no way I know this in 20 countries, you know? It&#8217;s like, I can&#8217;t,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> But in all 20 countries, having a good clean separation between the two is always a good</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> in all 20 countries, the separation is the key. Absolutely</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> when you get to the point where it is time to, uh, to incorporate it, if, if you ever do, I mean, you might, might not, well, then having that separation&#8217;s gonna make it so much easier too.</p>
<p>Like, all of a sudden, you know, it&#8217;s a, it&#8217;s a, it&#8217;s a simple <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> transition. At this point, you&#8217;ve already got your personal on your personal and your business on your business, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Not to mention, it, you know, it, it, just to be 100% transparent, it helps you as the business owner 100%, but what I will also say, not to be&#8230; It, it helps everyone around you. Um, whether that&#8217;s either, you know, in an estate situation, whether that&#8217;s, uh, helping your CPA, you know, or somebody like that, whether it&#8217;s helping&#8230;</p>
<p>You know, what happens if you get sick? You know, and that kind of th- It&#8217;s all of those things that we don&#8217;t like to think about, but especially, again, when you work for yourself, you need to think about all of that stuff, you know? Because it could happen. Um, you know, and, and it&#8217;s, yeah, it makes everything cleaner for, for you and for everybody around you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, and I, I, I know it &#8217;cause I, I thought about that at one point, like what happens&#8230; Oh, let&#8217;s just say that you, like you say, you get sick or you, you get hurt or something like that, and now all of a sudden someone <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> m- running your business for you or helping you with your business is now going to be all in, up in your personal stuff because it&#8217;s all together, right?</p>
<p>Now they&#8217;re seeing your credit card statement, which has literally everything that you&#8217;ve bought personally, when if you just had two different credit cards, I mean, it doesn&#8217;t have to be a, a business credit card. It can be two different personal credit cards. One&#8217;s used for business, one&#8217;s used for personal.</p>
<p>That would create that separation so that if someone was helping you, they wouldn&#8217;t necessarily need to see what you bought personally anymore, right? Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah. It, it, it could just be as &#8230; Yeah, so there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s, it, there&#8217;s so much &#8230; And again, to your point, there&#8217;s a lot of particulars, but the concept of &#8230; It really goes back to what I was saying at the beginning about you need a separate space that, you know, when I sit down at this space, this is my business.</p>
<p>It, it really comes back to that mental outlook of this is my business and I&#8217;m treating it like a business, and then when I go over here, this is my personal life and I&#8217;m treating it like my <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> personal life. You know? It&#8217;s that mental separation, that financial separation, separation in time, separation in, in what you do.</p>
<p>And again, the beauty is you can have a lot of flexibility and it can look very different than everybody else</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> because you&#8217;re creating it and you&#8217;re designing it. And that&#8217;s &#8230; Uh, the other piece I would put is be very intentional about how you design that and create that because I&#8217;ve seen people create a business that they hate because they just weren&#8217;t intentional about it and, and didn&#8217;t set it up.</p>
<p>You know, like I said, from day one I set my business up with the intent of I can do this from anywhere because that was important for me. That is a value for me. I want to be able to pick my business up &#8230; Because I knew even back then I may need to move up there one day and be a little closer to my mom to help take care of her as she&#8217;s getting older.</p>
<p>Uh, so I want a business that I could just pick up and go up there and be close to mom if I need to, you know, that kind of thing. That, those were values of mine and my wife, so we s- <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> we designed it from the very beginning.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. I, I love that. Like, that, that&#8217;s the kind of thing that I, I think is really, uh, the big advantage of running your own business, of being your own boss and, and doing this, is that you have&#8230; It&#8217;s not that you&#8217;re not&#8230; I mean, you&#8217;re probably working more, right? I mean, we joke about that all the time, about you&#8217;re probably working more than you would as a, as a, an employee.</p>
<p>But having that flexibility and that ability to just design what it is you want, you&#8217;re more proactive in the way that you build your life rather than reactive based on what somebody else says they need from you. Right now, it&#8217;s more or less, you know, if, if you don&#8217;t do what you want, then someone else is gonna try to get you to do what they want, right?</p>
<p>Because you&#8217;re not intentional about your life, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. Um, and it, it, it&#8217;s this idea of, you know, and yes, actually, when you&#8217;re a W-2 employee, you have some things that you can do to help control your life and your input <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> and all of that. But to a very large extent, I like to tell people that when you&#8217;re a W-2 employee, you&#8217;re self-employed with one client,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yes. Yep.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> the company you work for,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Which is a good way to think about it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> And if you think about it that way, it really does change the way you look at it because it&#8217;s kind of like, &quot;Oh, wait a minute,&quot; you know? Because at the end of the day, you want a promotion, there&#8217;s things you need to do. You know, you want to get a raise, there&#8217;s things you need to do. You, you need to be a self-starter at some level, even in a company situation, if you want to change the situation,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> okay?</p>
<p>And where now I&#8217;m self-employed with multiple clients, and in some ways that&#8217;s safer than being self-employed with one client. In other ways, it&#8217;s more challenging, you know? So it&#8217;s not really one is easy or one is good or one is bad, but for some of us, being self-employed gives us the ability to design a life and work from home and, <span style="color:#808080">[00:34:00]</span> you know, spend time with our family or not&#8230;</p>
<p>You know, travel when we want to or do all sorts of things that would be much more difficult to do in a W-2 kind of work for somebody else kind of employee-employer situation. That being said, again, the key in both of those is creating a life you want is the intentionality piece. Because I, I think if you&#8217;re a passive WT employee, it stinks if, if&#8230;</p>
<p>You know, I&#8217;m using W-2 &#8217;cause that&#8217;s the US term, but you, you get my point. You know, if you&#8217;re, if you&#8217;re working for somebody else and you&#8217;re passive about it, that&#8217;s much worse than when you&#8217;re working for someone else and you&#8217;re actively involved in your own career and growth. And then I think the same thing&#8217;s true for us as, as work from home folks or business owners, um, &#8217;cause yeah, so often I&#8217;ve seen folks basically create a job instead of a business.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s like, well, uh, that&#8217;s easy. I mean, I can create a job for <span style="color:#808080">[00:35:00]</span> myself pretty easy, uh, and if I, if, if I don&#8217;t, my wife will, right? That&#8217;s the honey-do list, you know? But it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s much more difficult to intentionally create something that actually gives you more of the things that you want in life.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Wow. So let&#8217;s get into your guest solo a little bit. Tell me what&#8217;s exciting in your business</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Oh, boy. Um, I&#8217;ve started a lot of kind of new things. So I work as a one-on-one coach with a lot of folks. Like I mentioned earlier, I worked with over 1,000 clients in 20 countries. I do work international. I, and I love that work, but I&#8217;ve started doing more speaking and more actual kind of personal appearance sort of things.</p>
<p>I had a book published a couple of years ago called Inspired Living. I&#8217;ve been talking on that topic, uh, as well as disc and, and time and money. Uh, those are kind of the big buckets that I tend to talk on. So I&#8217;ve been doing a lot more speaking and a lot more training and kind of <span style="color:#808080">[00:36:00]</span> workshops, going in and doing, um, employee wellness, uh, where I go into a small business that maybe has five, seven, 10 employees and do work with all of the employees.</p>
<p>And the business owner, you know, wants that because it&#8217;s an employee benefit. Plus, honestly, if your employees are better with money, they work better, um, because, you know, they&#8217;re not worried about Visa calling them. They&#8217;re, they&#8217;re actually focused on the job. So I, I&#8217;ve been going in and doing a lot more of that.</p>
<p>Um, so those are all things that are kind of exciting for me right now. Obviously, I always&#8230; My, my bread and butter and the thing I love more than anything else is the one-on-one coaching, working with folks to, to&#8230; When they basically find themselves saying, &quot;I make too much money to feel this broke,&quot; or,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> &quot;I&#8217;ve got all this time, but I&#8217;m busy.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not actually doing the things that matter to me. I&#8217;m just busy doing the stuff that I have to do,&quot; those are the language triggers that usually tell me somebody could work with me as a coach, and we can get <span style="color:#808080">[00:37:00]</span> that straightened out and, and get you feeling&#8230; It&#8217;s not necessarily that you&#8217;re making more money, but you&#8217;ll feel richer.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s not necessarily that you have more time, but you&#8217;ll feel like you have the time to spend on the, the things that actually matter because you&#8217;re making different decisions. That, that&#8217;s always the, the most exciting thing for me.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And isn&#8217;t that so impactful? Uh, &#8217;cause bec- I, I think a lot of people sort of think that the answer is something else. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s like, uh, it&#8217;s somebody else&#8217;s problem, or it&#8217;s, I, if I just get a, this different job, everything would be good. Or if I had&#8230; Right? When,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Or if I could just download the right app, it would solve all my problems.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> oftentimes, yeah, it&#8217;s just an accumulation of really small little decisions that you&#8217;re making in your own life that are accumulating up to big things that now you feel stuck, right?</p>
<p>And, and I, I love that you&#8217;re able to kinda like dig into that a little bit, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah, yeah. Either way, um, y- where you&#8217;re at today is based on thousands and thousands and <span style="color:#808080">[00:38:00]</span> thousands of decisions you&#8217;ve made over however long you&#8217;re alive, you know? Um, if, if you&#8217;re 40, 40 years. You know, if you&#8217;re, if you&#8217;re 90, 90 years. Whatever it is. And that also, though, the beauty of that is that means it&#8217;s also something that can change.</p>
<p>At any time you can begin to make different decisions. And will it fix everything overnight? Nope. Um, I ordered a magic wand. Unfortunately, it was from Temu, and it didn&#8217;t work, you know? It, it, it&#8217;s&#8230; It, I don&#8217;t have a magic wand, neither does anyone else, so it&#8217;s not gonna fix it overnight, but that&#8217;s not the point.</p>
<p>It will end up in a different place if you start making those different decisions and different actions and different behaviors and different habits and different&#8230; All of those things compound, and so it either compounds positively or it compounds negatively. It, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s really like compound interest, right?</p>
<p>Compound interest as payments on a credit card, you know, interest payments, works against you. Compound interest when you&#8217;ve got an investment and it&#8217;s compounding in that way, it works for you. They&#8217;re <span style="color:#808080">[00:39:00]</span> both compound interest, you know? It&#8217;s just which one is for you and which one&#8217;s against you. And, and, and against there meaning, you know, it&#8217;s gonna go backwards for you.</p>
<p>You, you owe more money with interest, or you earn more money with interest. So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s the same kind of thing with behavior. It&#8217;s compound behavior. Behavior that&#8217;s intentional and goes in the right direction compounds over time. Behavior that&#8217;s unintentional or goes in the wrong direction compounds over time.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s all, that&#8217;s all we work on. So I talk about time, talent, and treasures, but my joke is people usually come to me &#8217;cause they have, they think they have a time problem or they have a money problem. All we ever really work on is talent. Because you don&#8217;t manage time, you don&#8217;t manage money. What you manage is yourself, and how you manage yourself shows up in your time and money, and that&#8217;s the result, not the cause.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Wow. That&#8217;s, that&#8217;s really good. Yeah. And I mean, uh, I love that whole residual portion because I think a lot of people sort of think that, okay, today&#8217;s gonna be different, and they wake <span style="color:#808080">[00:40:00]</span> up and they go, &quot;I&#8217;m gonna make all these different decisions.&quot; And then things keep happening, but the things that are happening are not the result of today you making the change.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re a result of what you did yesterday, and it&#8217;s gonna sa- take some time before&#8230; Today&#8217;s change is only gonna have an impact in a few days now, only if you keep doing it, right? And, uh, people get discouraged &#8217;cause they&#8217;re like, &quot;Oh, this just doesn&#8217;t work. You know? Might as well not even</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> it&#8217;s, you know, health, the health realm is always an easy one for people to understand, you know? It&#8217;s like, it&#8217;s like dieting, right? You know, if you, if you want a beach body in June, you don&#8217;t change the way you&#8217;re eating on June 1st, you know? It, it&#8217;s not gonna work, um, because you&#8217;ve gotta&#8230; It, it&#8217;s gotta compound over time.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve gotta change things about your exercise or your, your eat, your nutrition, or both, um, you know, those sorts of things to change what it looks like in June, and you, you don&#8217;t start in June. You start way before. <span style="color:#808080">[00:41:00]</span> The same thing happens in our, our business life, our, our relationships, our, our spiritual walk.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t care what part of your life you want to put it in, your career. Whatever it is, it&#8217;s the same formula. It, it&#8217;s just, it&#8217;s just kind of a different lens through which to look at it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. So how do we find out more about you then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> So I actually put together a page, uh, just for your podcast listeners. If you go over to my website, which is inspiredstewardship.com, and then just put in /workfromhomerockstar. No spaces or anything, just make it all one word. I know that&#8217;ll look weird, but it&#8217;s easier, uh, on the internet machine. So if you go to, uh, inspiredstewardship.com/workfromhomerockstar, what you&#8217;ll find there is I put together some free resources and free exercises around time and money.</p>
<p>So if that&#8217;s just an area you&#8217;ve been struggling with and you wanna check something out, uh, it, it is geared kind of towards both personal and business. And then as well, there&#8217;s information about my book I mentioned, <span style="color:#808080">[00:42:00]</span> Inspired Living, and I have a podcast myself called Inspired Stewardship that&#8217;s linked on there as well.</p>
<p>And if you&#8217;d like to jump on a quick call, that link is there as well. So all of the resources in one place, so it&#8217;d be easy to find at inspiredstewardship.com/workfromhomerockstar</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> All right, love it. That&#8217;s awesome. Thank you so much. Okay, one more question. This one might be the hardest one though. So we&#8217;re gonna talk about music. Who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Favorite band is probably Queen. Um, uh, that&#8217;s, uh, that, that&#8217;s definitely one that I could listen to. Aerosmith&#8217;s probably a close second, um, in part because my wife and I, that was like, I took her to an Aerosmith concert in, uh, Austin as our, it, it was our very first date. It, it technically wasn&#8217;t even a date, right?</p>
<p>You know, we were just going as friends, one of those things. Um, and obviously it, apparently it worked out. By the way, she had no idea who Aerosmith was I <span style="color:#808080">[00:43:00]</span> think at the time, uh, &#8217;cause she grew up on a different kind of music. So it was interesting. But, uh, yeah, so Queen and, and Aerosmith are probably my first and my second</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, bring a girl to a concert. You know, classic, classic. Always works, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Yeah, well, we kept moving up the hill &#8217;cause, uh, let- let&#8217;s just say there was a, it was an outdoor venue and th- there were rather large clouds of smoke, let&#8217;s just put it that way. So we just kept moving up the hill. Uh, and then when it was time to leave at the night, you know, we, we basically were like, &quot;We&#8217;re just gonna hang out on the truck for a while and, uh, let everybody else leave &#8217;cause I, I have a feeling there might be some traffic accidents.&quot;</p>
<p>So,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> it&#8217;s funny. It-</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> but it was &#8230; So we ended up spending a, a good amount of time together, so it was, it was, it was pleasant all around</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> I love that. Right on. Well, thank you so much, Scott, for rocking out with me today. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Scott Maderer:</strong> Absolutely. Thank you for having me</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. And to the listeners, make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information. We&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar podcast Navigating Success: Mastering Time, Talent, and Treasures</p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the <em>Work at Home Rockstar Podcast</em>, Tim Melanson sits down with <strong>Patrick van der Burght</strong>, owner of <a href="https://ethicalpersuasion.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ethical Persuasion Training and Consulting</a> and a certified Cialdini Institute trainer. Patrick helps professionals become more persuasive in their communication using the science of human decision-making taught by his business partner, Dr. Robert Cialdini — without tipping into manipulation.</p>
<p>Patrick opens up about his early struggles as a scuba diving equipment sales rep in Australia, where a product failure that wasn&#8217;t his fault got him laughed out of retailers&#8217; stores. Rather than giving up, he applied Cialdini&#8217;s principles and became a market leader within 18 months. From there, he and Tim discuss why owning mistakes builds more trust than deflecting blame, how Patrick delegates using virtual assistants and subcontractors, and why businesses should be upfront when a customer is talking to an AI bot instead of a real person.</p>
<p>The conversation then covers Patrick&#8217;s seven principles of persuasion — reciprocity, liking, unity, social proof, authority, consistency, and scarcity — plus practical tips like choosing better communication channels than email and fixing your video call background to build instant credibility. Whether you&#8217;re starting out or sharpening how you talk to clients, this episode is packed with usable, ethical strategies.</p>
<h2>Who is Patrick van der Burght?</h2>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght</strong> is the owner of <a href="https://ethicalpersuasion.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Ethical Persuasion Training and Consulting</a> and a certified coach and licensed trainer with the Cialdini Institute. Before 2000, he was a sales rep covering a large part of Australia selling scuba diving equipment to retailers. Frustrated with how much time and effort selling was taking without wanting to lie or cheat to get results, he discovered the work of Dr. Robert Cialdini and has been passionate about teaching it ever since. With Dr. Cialdini&#8217;s permission, Patrick has been teaching this science to professionals since 2000. In 2023, he was invited to become a Founding Member of the Cialdini Institute and was the first Cialdini Certified Professional and Coach accepted into the Cialdini Institute Licensed Trainer program.</p>
<p>Patrick is based in Melbourne, Australia, and runs his business with the help of about five virtual assistants, including a personal assistant, a podcast editor, social media help, and web developers. He teaches an eight-week Ethical Persuasion course and hosts his own podcast, Ethical Persuasion Unlocked. He&#8217;s also the author of the book How to Hear YES More Often. Outside of business, Patrick is a motorcycle rider who enjoys Bon Jovi and 1940s-era music like The Andrews Sisters.</p></div>
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<p>One of the clearest threads running through this conversation is that owning your mistakes builds more trust than explaining them away. Patrick&#8217;s willingness to say &#8220;that didn&#8217;t work&#8221; instead of blaming outside forces isn&#8217;t just good character — it&#8217;s a business strategy, and it&#8217;s one any entrepreneur can start using immediately, whether that&#8217;s with a client, a customer, or a business partner.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s also real reassurance here for anyone who feels awkward about sales. Patrick&#8217;s whole framework rests on the idea that you don&#8217;t have to lie, trick, or pressure anyone to be effective — you just have to bring the right information to the surface so people can make a decision that already makes sense for them. That reframe alone can unstick a lot of new entrepreneurs who avoid selling because they don&#8217;t want to feel pushy.</p>
<p>The conversation is also a good reminder that small, deliberate choices compound. Which communication channel you default to, what&#8217;s visible behind you on a video call, how detailed a testimonial you ask for — none of these feel like big decisions in the moment, but Patrick makes the case that they quietly shape how much people trust and say yes to you.</p>
<p>Finally, Patrick&#8217;s approach to delegation is a practical model for anyone running a business from home: start small with subcontractors and virtual assistants, hand off what doesn&#8217;t need your specific attention, and grow into more support as the business can carry it — without the pressure and risk that come with hiring employees too early.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Meet Patrick Van Der Burght<br />01:13 Sales Without Swindling<br />02:01 Scuba Sales Breakthrough<br />06:49 Owning Mistakes Builds Trust<br />08:33 Delegating With Contractors<br />12:57 Ethical AI Assistants<br />18:34 Persuasion Science Basics<br />22:20 Ethics Versus Manipulation<br />26:59 Bad Sales Tactics Exposed<br />30:12 Most Persuasive Channels<br />32:28 Email Versus Video<br />34:03 Video Background Credibility<br />36:15 Virtual Background Debate<br />38:15 Networking And Courses<br />39:59 Why Persuasion Matters<br />42:21 Seven Principles Overview<br />42:49 Reciprocity And Liking<br />46:22 Unity And Social Proof<br />49:17 Authority And Consistency<br />54:23 Scarcity And Loss Framing<br />58:31 Resources And Farewell</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> [00:00:00] Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work at Home Rockstar podcast. I&#8217;m excited for today&#8217;s episode. We are talking to the owner of Ethical Persuasion and Training and Consulting, and he&#8217;s a certified coach and licensed trainer with the Cialdini Institute. I&#8217;m really excited, &#8217;cause what he does is he helps professionals to be more ethically persuasive with their communication using the science of persuasion and human decision-making as taught by his business partner, Dr. Robert Cialdini. Man, I&#8217;m so excited for this episode. It&#8217;s gonna be so cool. We&#8217;re talking to Patrick Van Der Burght. Hey, Patrick, you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> I&#8217;m, uh, I&#8217;m ready to rock, and thank you for, uh, putting me in front of your audience. I remember when I was discovering this material, I was, you know&#8230; I wanted to be more successful with my business, and I didn&#8217;t wanna lie or cheat either. And, um, yeah, I discovered this and I was, &quot;Oh, my goodness, is this how it works? Is it this simple?&quot; And I remember the excitement, and I see that same excitement when I do a keynote or teach a [00:01:00] workshop. Uh, I see that same look in my audience. And so today I&#8217;m imagining that your audience will have a similar sort of experience, and, uh, yeah, so I, uh, I&#8217;m grateful for you putting me in front of them</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, no problem. A- and I totally agree. Like, when I first got into sales myself years ago, you know, there&#8217;s so much, uh, misconception actually in, in the first place about what people think sales is. People do think that sales is swindling people for some reason, right? And, uh, and, and it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s really awkward getting into trying to sell yourself. I, I know even as a musician, like, isn&#8217;t it weird that you, like, you, you know, you, you&#8217;re doing well, you think you&#8217;re a pretty good musician, but it&#8217;s really difficult to tell people that, right? It&#8217;s like, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s like it&#8217;s so much easier to have a manager or to sell your buddy who&#8217;s a really good musician than it is for you to sell yourself. So, uh, I&#8217;m very interested in hearing about more what you have to say, so this could be really cool. So we always start off on a good note, so tell me a story of success in your business that we can be inspired by.[00:02:00]</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, maybe it&#8217;s interesting to cover how I actually got started with this, with this whole thing. I was a, a sales rep selling scuba diving equipment. I was on the road. I had my business, you know, from home, but I, I was on the road most of the time. And, um, I was looking out&#8230; I&#8217;m based in, in Australia, in Melbourne, and so I was looking after the states of Victoria, South Australia, and Tasmania, and that&#8230; I mean, Australia is big. That&#8217;s, you know, three of our states, and that&#8217;s a, a decent stretch of land, and so lots of time in the car and lots of time listening, listening to cassette tapes for those who can still remember what those are. And, um, I was putting a lot of effort and time genuinely trying to look after my retailers and, and helping them as best I could, and I was hoping to grow how much product they&#8217;d buy from me versus my competitors, and I wasn&#8217;t really I wasn&#8217;t&#8230; I was a bit frustrated with the progress I was making. I think I was putting a lot of time in, and I was not really getting the returns. And, um, [00:03:00] my boss had hired a business coach to help him grow his business, which is, of course, always a good idea to get some outside perspective and input from a business coach or trainer. And, um, this trainer realized that scuba diving retailers are, uh, um, very enthusiastic, lovely people, but not necessarily great at running a business. So he started training us sales reps to be sort of business coaches so we could sit down with our retailers and help them grow their business. And the idea was if we can help them double their business, we would double with them. And, um, at the same time, I was confronted with a, a, a challenge. Um, and I, I should say that the business coach was local to Melbourne, and, uh, I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ve ever met a Dutch person, &#8217;cause that&#8217;s my, uh, my heritage. That&#8217;s where the last name comes from. If you ever meet a Dutch person on holiday, and you said, &quot;Ah, if you&#8217;re ever coming to our side of the world and you need a place to stay, give us a call,&quot; don&#8217;t do that with Dutch people. [00:04:00] They turn up, right? Free nights accommodation, they turn up. And, um, he was, uh, he was based in Melbourne, and he said, &quot;Oh, if you ever wanna discuss these, uh, strategies, right, come by our office in Vermont.&quot; And so I turned up, right? And he started lending me educational cassette tape series, right? And they used to be expensive. Now you can buy them so cheaply. Um, but I can remember paying, like, $1,200 for a set of Brian Tracy CDs. And, um, part of that was Dr. Cialdini&#8217;s work that he, uh, he borrowed me. And, um, the challenge was, that I bumped into, that I&#8217;d taken on a, an additional brand, and it was a, a type of dry diving suit. And, uh, they&#8217;re supposed to seal on your neck and your wrist, keeps you dry, and it was an Australian-made suit, very qualitative, best suit of that type I&#8217;d ever used myself. Wonderful product, but what I didn&#8217;t know is that the year before, they had, uh, um, a change in material, and stuff delaminated, and all suits sold that year had leaked.[00:05:00]</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Well</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> all had to be replaced. And so I&#8217;m coming into my retailers&#8217; stores, and they knew me quite well by then, and I said, &quot;Oh, you know, I&#8217;ve picked up representation of Hot and Dry.&quot; It&#8217;s still around now. And, um, they laughed at me and said, &quot;Oh, you&#8217;re a nice fellow, Patrick, but we&#8217;re not touching that again after last year d- last year&#8217;s debacle.&quot; I said, &quot;Well, what do you mean?&quot; Right? And now I&#8217;m finding out that, you know, um, this, this problem. So I was bas- s- s- you know, literally being laughed at, and they didn&#8217;t wanna touch it. And I thought, &quot;How am I gonna turn this around?&quot; So I dived onto Dr. Cialdini&#8217;s principles, used what science I could at that time- to turn that situation around, and long story short, within 18 months we were market leader. So ever since, I&#8217;ve been, um, converted in the fact that you don&#8217;t have to lie or cheat, you just have to r- bring the right pieces of information that make it easier for someone to make a decision. You bring that to the surface, and the impact can be dramatic. And that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m also so excited to share that here [00:06:00] today because, you know, especially if you&#8217;re starting out with a home business, you don&#8217;t get an avalanche of opportunities coming your way already. You gotta work really hard to start getting some opportunities, and you cannot waste the chances that people will say yes to you, right? If you, if you ask something one way, you have a, you get a small amount of yeses. But when you ask for something a different way, you get a lot more yeses. Well, you cannot afford to to not ask it in a way that you get a lot more chance of getting those yeses. And so hopefully we&#8217;ll, uh, we&#8217;ll share some strategies today people can use immediately.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, it&#8217;s true. And when you tell the truth, you tend to get referrals, and that&#8217;s really the lifeblood of most of these small businesses, right, is through referrals. Yeah</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> do a great job for people and build strong relationships</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay. So now over the time, uh, of your business, I mean, it&#8217;s been a long time, th- there- not everything goes as planned, and I like to talk about these bad notes and these things that, uh, mistakes, I guess, or whatever you wanna call them, [00:07:00] because it is what holds people back from getting started in the first place. And I&#8217;m wondering, can you share with me something that didn&#8217;t go as planned, then how you recovered from that?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, well, that example I just gave I think is a good, uh, is a good situation where things didn&#8217;t work out so</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s true</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> So it&#8217;s important when things don&#8217;t go so well, especially when we make mistakes, that we own up to it. Um, there&#8217;s some research on that, that if we ignore our problems and try to plow through it, we&#8217;re actually, we come out stronger by admitting that something went wrong, and we then raise how we&#8217;re going to address that. Uh, that can increase our credibility and believability and which helps us go forward. The fact that we recognize something didn&#8217;t go right on our end, but we&#8217;ve identified what the problem is and we&#8217;re gonna deal with that from, you know, in this way going forward, um, that&#8217;s a strong approach to making mistakes and dealing with those</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> And so why do you think people don&#8217;t f- fess up to those mistakes?[00:08:00]</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Probably a bit, bit embarrassed or, &quot;Oh, it wasn&#8217;t our fault.&quot; As in if we, if we blame external forces, um, then our audience feels, okay, well, there&#8217;s things in your business that you seem to have no control over</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> too, &#8217;cause, uh, that is probably what they&#8217;re thinking, even though you might think that, &quot;Well, it&#8217;s not my fault,&quot; you know? Uh, at least if you own up to your mistake, then you can say, &quot;I, I know I did wrong, and I&#8217;ll do better next time,&quot; and that feels more in control, right?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, absolutely</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. Cool. So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about the band. Now, uh, when it comes to, uh, delegating, subcontracting, is that something that you do in your business?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Uh, yes. I, um, I mean, not so much in the beginning, but certainly now try and delegate as much as I can. So I make good use of, uh, virtual assistants, even though I hate that word and I&#8217;d never call them that. And they&#8217;re just other people. Um, so yeah, there&#8217;s websites you- where you [00:09:00] can go to where you can, um, you know, either ask somebody to find you, uh, a virtual assistant, somebody who works from home. Um, you can get those, of course, in any country, and there&#8217;s countries in the world that speak very good English, but their wages are cheaper. So, you know, it&#8217;s, uh, depending on where you go, you can, you know, get a personal assistant. You&#8230; I&#8217;ve got, I think, about five VAs now. Um, I&#8217;ve got a personal assistant. I&#8217;ve got a lady that, uh, edits my podcast recordings, works, you know, basically the manager of the podcast. She edits the videos, publishes, takes care of all of that. I&#8217;ve got, um, some VAs that, um, do my social media marketing, so they make posts, and of course, they need to learn about the business like any employee, so they take time to sort of get used to your business. Um, and then I&#8217;ve got, uh, web developers that look after the websites. Um, so yeah, a nice way to</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> delegate and get some manpower or lady power on the, on board to, um, you [00:10:00] know, to help you. And it&#8217;s, uh, especially as, as a, a smaller operator, hirer, hiring an employee is, is frightening. I mean, wages are expensive and depending on which country you live in, for example, Australia, if you hire someone and is really not turning out well, as in, you know, they&#8217;re either, the, you know, your personalities clash or they&#8217;re just not good at their job, you can&#8217;t just say, &quot;Oh, sorry, you&#8217;re fired now.&quot; You, this is, you can&#8217;t do that in this country. You&#8217;re sort of stuck with them. So, um, a virtual assistant is a nice easy way to sort of ease into that, grow the business, produce more income, and then get, for example, somebody in your office.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Right. So what you mean by that is that they&#8217;re subcontractors rather than employees.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah. Yeah</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and I, I agree. I&#8230; And, and plus, I mean, I think the other benefit to that is that they&#8217;re running their own business, and you know how they say that y- no one will ever work as hard for your business as you do? Well, if you hire other people that are running their own business, well then [00:11:00] g- it&#8217;s kind of a hack, isn&#8217;t it? Now they&#8217;re trying to do the best in their business, which is also helping your business instead of hiring an employee, which comes with a whole lot of other, you know, challenges, I guess, on their own, right?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> And it&#8217;s, uh, I mean, yeah, um, you can go and find somebody yourself and then the whole hiring process is, is on your plate, and it can be challenging to find the right person. I mean, people can promise they can do lots of things, and then when they work for you they might not actually be able to do that. But there is also agencies you can use that you might pay a little bit more per hour for that person, but they&#8217;ve checked these people, or they might work on the equipment of the middle person. So there&#8217;s different levels to, uh, you know, um, sort of use that. But yeah, there&#8217;s a number of countries in the world like the Philippines, South America, Kenya, um, you know, where you can get people who speak great English, are well-educated, um, and, uh, you know, very keen to do a great job</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Nice. What was the first [00:12:00] one that you hired? What, what, what was their role?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Uh, basically a, a PA. Uh, Nancy, uh, has been with me for years now. And, um, basically, yeah, whatever I could hand over, um, you know, I, I, I passed on to her, what didn&#8217;t need my time specifically. So, uh, looking at the, all the email accounts, things coming in, answering everything she could answer. If she ran short on knowledge, she would ask me to, you know, to chime in. Um, admin, um, things, making invoices, that sort of stuff. Everything but handling the bank account, let&#8217;s say. Um, you know, she could do reconcile bank accounts, all that sort of stuff</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm, cool. Now does she, uh, act as you or does she act as herself and p- like, in, uh, like, and then sends things to you?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, no, X as in herself, right? I, I teach ethical persuasion, right? So we can&#8217;t pretend to be someone else. And, um, actually that&#8217;s an interesting [00:13:00] side note. Of course, now we also have AI,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yep</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> We can get AI chatbots for our website and all that sort of stuff, and it&#8217;s crucially important that you don&#8217;t try and make AI pretend that it&#8217;s a real person, because people have a, a big need for human connection, and we are already separated from each other because of technology. But now when we&#8217;re confronted by someone pretending to be a real person, but they&#8217;re not, um, when we figure out that we&#8217;ve been duped, that has a backlash. I mean, goodness, you know, over here, uh, in Australia, there&#8217;s a famous, uh, instance where&#8230; And this was just using ChatGPT. There was a real estate agent who&#8217;d asked ChatGPT to write an, a, a, you know, a text for on the website to sell a property, or it was a, a rental listing, can&#8217;t remember. But when she copy-pasted the, the, the pro- she copied the prompt with it.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh gosh</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> That&#8217;s right. So it said, you know, &quot;You know, the, we [00:14:00] have a three-bedroom apartment, you know, write me a pr- you know, write me a, a, a section for on the website, piece of text.&quot; And so that came with it, and so she got found out that, oh my goodness, she used AI to</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> write this text, and she got in the news and, and, you know, it was like a big thing, poor girl. Um, but yeah, now with AI bots, it&#8217;s very tempting to, to make them pretend, &quot;Hi, my name is John. How can I help you?&quot; Um, I think we should be upfront and tell people, you know, &quot;I&#8217;m John, our AI bot. How can I help you?&quot; And it&#8217;s interesting with AI, though. In the very beginning, I thought there would be a more, a bigger backlash in terms of making people interact with AI. But actually turns out people also open up more to AI. When you&#8217;re talking to a real person, they&#8217;re asking what your income level is. You, you know, you get a little bit of pride going in. You might quote a little higher. Um, when you know you&#8217;re talking to a machine and you get quick answers, there, there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s something, you know, efficient in there as well, and a little bit more, [00:15:00] uh, less pride, let&#8217;s say. Um, so people, you know, don&#8217;t seem to be actually, actually minding dealing with AI as long as we know that we&#8217;re not being duped and we know we&#8217;re talking to AI.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Agree. Yeah. And, uh, I mean, I, I think that there&#8217;s a part of it that we don&#8217;t wanna waste people&#8217;s time as well, right? And so when you&#8217;re dealing with an, with an AI bot, like I, I know that there are certain things that you&#8217;re just like, &quot;I wanna talk to an agent. I wanna talk to an actual person,&quot; right? Right away. But there are also other things that you&#8217;re just like, &quot;I just wanna run something by. I just wanna see if I can get that answer quickly.&quot; And you know, when you&#8217;re talking to a real person, you feel like, you feel like you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re wasting their time, but you can just waste that AI bot&#8217;s time all you want asking them a bunch of questions, and it&#8217;ll keep on answering these things. Um, so I, I think that might be part of it, too. I know for me, even, like, running through ideas and, and, and trying to strategize on my business, when I was talking to somebody about that, like a, a person about that, I felt like I was, like, wasting their [00:16:00] time, right? But now I can do all that same stuff with, uh, with an AI bot, and I mean, it&#8217;s not really giving me I mean, it is doing research sometimes and finding out some things that I probably wouldn&#8217;t have known on my own, but I&#8217;m just talking things through. And, and sometimes talking things through is all you need to do, right?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, exactly. And yeah, like you said, it&#8217;s easier to, you know&#8230; It&#8217;s a little bit like a search engine, you know? I mean, I can plow myself through your website for the next 15 minutes looking for the answer, or I can ask the AI bot and get a quick summary of what it is I&#8217;m a- after, &#8217;cause it sort of understands what I&#8217;m after and knows exactly where to get that information.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. But I do know that I, I, I hope that we kinda come up with some, I don&#8217;t even know what it would be, legislation or even some sort of, like, guidelines on&#8230; &#8216;Cause AI right now is totally Wild West, and I totally agree with you. I think there should be some rules around how it&#8217;s, um, how it&#8217;s [00:17:00] used and how it&#8217;s also, uh, portrayed. Because like you say, there, I, I think right now it&#8217;s fairly easy to see that you&#8217;re talking to an AI. I mean, it, you know, if you train it properly, maybe there is some things that you can hide, but give this another year or two, right? Uh, like, look at how far it&#8217;s come, and at some point it&#8217;s gonna be very difficult to know whether you&#8217;re talking to a person or not, and I th- I, I agree with you that I think that that should be disclosed upfront, right?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. And of course they can use AI with, you know, with voice, um, you know, with voice as well you can get AI to ring out and make calls on your behalf and follow up leads and that sort of stuff. And, um, yeah, when you do figure out it is AI, you really feel duped. You don&#8217;t have a good feeling about that business either. Where if we&#8217;re just open and honest about it, um, you know, you might actually get easier interaction from people</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, a- absolutely, because, uh, like you, what you just said [00:18:00] earlier, people actually don&#8217;t really have a big problem with dealing with AI when they know it&#8217;s AI. So why not just own it and be like, &quot;Hey, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m the AI bot that, you know, can I get some information from you?&quot; Like, it&#8217;s just like an assistant really. The assistant that, you know, sometimes they can answer the question directly for you, but oftentimes they&#8217;re just there to gather some information to send to you so that you can call this, you know, client or this prospect back and, and know what you&#8217;re talking about, right? So why not use the AI bot for that and be upfront with it? Makes sense to me. So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about&#8230; Actually, let&#8217;s get right into p- to persuasion because we&#8217;re talking about getting fans and having them trust you and buy from you. What, what would be the, something that maybe a, a mistake that most entrepreneurs make when they&#8217;re, when they&#8217;re going out there and trying to gain some sales and gain some trust from people?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> The biggest problem that I see [00:19:00] every single day is that professionals&#8230; Let me, let me rephrase it. When, when we are an architect and we&#8217;re gonna build a skyscraper, we tend to use the available science to do a good job. If we didn&#8217;t use the science that&#8217;s available to design a skyscraper, the end result wouldn&#8217;t be s- yeah, wouldn&#8217;t be so wonderful, right? That building might not last that long, or it might not even end up being completed. Um, in business, we&#8217;re in the business of convincing other people that what we have to offer is going to enrich their lives, and those people need to make a decision about that. Now, there&#8217;s a science about how decisions are made, and too many people in business have no idea how this works. So they&#8217;re a bit like an architect trying to build a skyscraper without knowing the science. And I [00:20:00] see this&#8230; I mean, we all s- see the world through the lens of our own expertise, right? If you&#8217;re a chef, you&#8217;re having dinner in a restaurant, you go, &quot;I mean, I can&#8217;t cook to save myself,&quot; but, um, you might sit in the restaurant and you might go, &quot;Oh my goodness, if they just used a little bit of, uh, coriander in here, it&#8217;d be perfect,&quot; right? You can&#8217;t help but see the, the, the world through your expertise. And so I can&#8217;t help seeing the world through the lens of ethical persuasion. I can&#8217;t sit in a restaurant, look at the menu and go, &quot;Oh my goodness, how much money are they losing because this menu is in the wrong order?&quot; Or I can see advertising and I can see products that are presented in the wrong order. I can hear people, um, say something that very effectively and subconsciously achieves the absolute opposite of what they&#8217;re trying to do because they&#8217;re highlighting the wrong things. Um, so people in business tend to not know how decision-making work, and therefore [00:21:00] you have a certain potential of people that will say yes to your request. And most people in business, or many people in business, dramatically underperform their potential, and so they&#8217;re leaving business and success on the table, and that&#8217;s what I highlighted before, especially when you&#8217;re starting off. You can&#8217;t afford that. You, you, you wanna maximize your chances. And it&#8217;s not like this is a very difficult science to grasp or even learn. I mean, we do, uh, formal training courses, which is about an investment of just 20 hours over eight weeks, um, to really make an impact in learning this. So it&#8217;s not a university course that&#8217;s gonna take you years, um, but most people in business are at it every single day without using the science.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Do you know what I find interesting is when I, when I was initially learning about persuasion and about, um, sales, uh, you know, I, I bought, I bought some books, and there were some people around me that weren&#8217;t in business, they were employees, and they sort of saw [00:22:00] that as being unethical. Isn&#8217;t that kind of odd? They, they would look at me and they&#8217;d say, &quot;Oh, you&#8217;re learning all this stuff. That means that somehow you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re trying to&#8230;&quot; I, I, I don&#8217;t, I don&#8217;t know, game the system? I- isn&#8217;t it weird how people will look at learning about ethical persuasion as being unethical in the first place?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, and, and thank you for bringing that up. I mean, the reason we tend to, I mean, me and my colleagues, why we tend to wedge that word ethical in front of it, in, in front of persuasion, is because when people hear the word persuasion, they often hear manipulation, and that&#8217;s absolutely not the same thing. Manipulation is about giving someone no choice Where persuasion involves the, the use of words and images to, um, increase the chances that someone will say yes to us, but that decision comes from within them. And a, a good comparison, one of my colleagues talks about when [00:23:00] the, um, when the, the boss is away, you know, the saying is that when the boss is away, the mice will play. Um, but if you persuade someone, if they make a decision that comes from within them based on their own values, when you, um, when you persuade someone to do a particular task&#8230; And, and we&#8217;re talking about sales, but persuasion is not actually per se about sales. It&#8217;s about behavior. Now, I can stimulate buying behavior, which of course for sales is, uh, you know, imperative. But, you know, you might have, um, VAs that you want to follow a certain procedure that you&#8217;ve set out. That is a behavior, right? If you have employees and you want to, them to follow the safety procedures, that&#8217;s a behavior. If you want customer service, um, to get better results with clients or the client is happier about the experience they&#8217;re having, that&#8217;s behavior. So this all fall- falls [00:24:00] under the topic of persuasion. Um, but yeah, so what we want to do is use this ethically. And what, what&#8217;s very nice is that research also shows that what we teach can be used in an unethical way, but whilst it might produce short-term results, it is long-term disaster. Because people who, you know, didn&#8217;t get out of the arrangement what they thought they were gonna get out of the arrangement, they never come back. You get found out in the, the cycle of business.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> And so it&#8217;s long-term disaster, where research does show that when we use persuasion science ethically, we get short-term results and long-term success. It actually builds strong, loyal relationships. So yeah, with that whole word sales, um, yeah, I would just substitute it for helping people, right? I mean, even if you&#8217;re, you know, if you&#8217;re in a, in a [00:25:00] band, let&#8217;s say, and you&#8217;re trying to, you know, get a gig somewhere, y- you&#8217;re trying to give somebody opportunity to have, you know, great music that night. You&#8217;re just helping people and that, you know&#8230; I, I think that&#8217;s a great different angle to where to come from, and yeah, often people think of sales as a dirty word. But if you just see it from genuinely wanting to help someone have a great service, have a great experience, um, and that gives it a different light to it</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, and, and I mean, I, I think that the, I think that the catch-22, I guess, is that as an ethical person or a person who&#8217;s trying to be as upfront as they can, you know, not learning about persuasion because you think it&#8217;s gonna make you unethical to, to learn about it is very counterproductive. Because in the end, all you wanna do is you wanna help people, and if you are literally doing the opposite of the science that&#8217;s gonna help someone because you think that doing the science of helping them [00:26:00] is gonna hurt them, then y- you&#8217;re, y- you&#8217;re never gonna get forward. And, and I mean, I think, I think it&#8217;s just one of those mental blocks, and I, I I mean, maybe it&#8217;s movies. I mean, movies show us these unethical people, super rich and doing all these, uh, you know, unethical things. But in practice, like what you said, I, I, I don&#8217;t normally see that. I see people who are very successful as being very ethical and actually helping people, and I see people who have been swindling people have to keep on moving, right? And going to another area and trying to figure out something different because eventually they get found out. And, and like you say, I mean, they, they, the, the, the business cycle weeds them out eventually, and I think that we just get s- maybe fooled by our culture of &#8230; I mean, that makes a good story with somebody who&#8217;s, who&#8217;s unethical being at the top. But that doesn&#8217;t tend to really happen. It, it, it doesn&#8217;t work that way, right?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, and, [00:27:00] and, and I mean, something we should, I mean, uh, also bring up, a, a lot of sales training is not necessarily ethical. Um, as in I, I talk to a lot of people&#8230; I mean, sales is, is where I help most people, you know, with that topic, even though persuasion is much broader than that. But I talk to lots of people that say, &quot;Oh, yeah, I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve done a few of our sales training courses in my, in my boss&#8217;s company, and you know what? I don&#8217;t use any of that be- because I don&#8217;t like treating people like that.&quot; Right? A lot of sales training does have a, you know, sort of underhanded, you know, tri- you know, trick people into compliance. I mean, if we, if we go back a few years, you know, you heard a lot of, you know, and you s- I mean, I&#8217;ve been to business conference, and they&#8217;re still teaching it to people, mirroring and matching, right? I mean, if you, if, if somebody puts a hand in their pocket, if you put a hand in your pocket, people start getting that feeling. Because this, this is something that happens [00:28:00] naturally, right? We start mirroring each other when we like each other. And so if we start man- you know, manipulating that, we&#8217;re purposely doing that. Okay, they&#8217;ve got their foot out. I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m gonna put my foot out. Okay, they&#8217;ve got one hand in their pocket. I&#8217;m gonna put the same hand in my pocket, so I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m mirroring. When I do that on purpose, I&#8217;m not being genuine, right? So therefore not ethical. But just imagine for a moment that the person you&#8217;re doing that to knows exactly what you&#8217;re doing You would be done, right? You lose that appointment and they&#8217;ll never touch you again. Given the opportunity, they&#8217;ll probably warn people about you. And now in the, you know, in the world of social media, it is so easy to get caught out and to have a big&#8230; For that to blow out, right? I can give you an example. The research was done in supermarkets with bright colored labels, right? Because normally when there&#8217;s a sale on or something, we put a bright colored label on with, you know, what [00:29:00] the special is. And so what they started doing in supermarket, they took a random amount of products and they just put bright colored labels on it with the price. No special, just a bright colored label with the price. And then the next day they would take all the labels off and they&#8217;d give, let&#8217;s say 100 different products, bright colored labels with the price. What&#8217;s the effect of that? It doubled sales because it&#8217;s a shortcut for the brain. We have learned that a bright colored label normally means this is a good deal. This is lower price than it normally is. And so just by whacking on colored labels, they&#8217;re increasing their sales. Now, there&#8217;s lots of&#8230; You can look this up on, on social media. There&#8217;s lots of videos of people really angry and, and justifiably so, recording like, &quot;Look, there&#8217;s a sales sticker on here and you lift it, there&#8217;s the same price underneath it,&quot; right? &quot;What are they trying to do here?&quot; And there&#8217;s even, even politicians commenting on these videos that retailers shouldn&#8217;t do that. Now, that has a massive impact on people&#8217;s credibility, [00:30:00] and there&#8217;s no need to do that. If we just know the science, we can use it in an ethical way to actually build strong relationships and coach more people to agree with something when it&#8217;s in their favor to do so</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> I love that. I love that. So working from home, uh, you know, getting your jam room set up and your home office set up can be a bit of a challenge, especially, uh, with all the distractions around, and I&#8217;m wondering, how do you have yours set up?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, in terms of, uh, uh, the office, I mean, I work mostly, uh, mostly from my desk. But as a lot of people, I think, who work from home is you do, um, meetings with people. I mean, you either go out of your office and you meet people or you, you know, you make phone calls or send messages. And, um, maybe this is an interesting thing to, uh, to raise. The- we have different channels of communication that we can use, right? We could meet someone face-to-face. We can send an email. We can make a phone call to someone. We can now do video calls as well. We can [00:31:00] send an SMS or, let&#8217;s say, a WhatsApp message. So we have different ways of communicating, and all these different channels have a different level of persuasiveness. Uh, now Tim, what&#8230; Out, out of those options, face-to-face, video call, um, um, email, SMS, what do you think is the channel that has the biggest chance of getting someone to say yes to you?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, I think face-to-face</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Absolutely. Face-to-face. Glad to hear it. Great. So if&#8230; But for face-to-face, we have to leave the office, right? For the other options, we don&#8217;t have to leave the office. So if we consider the other option, which do you think is then the most persuasive</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, I, I think it&#8217;s Zoom. I think it&#8217;s o- it&#8217;s video calls.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Video call. Absolutely. That&#8217;s the second one. What comes after that?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Uh, probably like a phone call</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Phone call, exactly. So with video call and phone call, we still have tonality, right? Which we know is so important. What is that old thing? Was it [00:32:00] 86% of a message is the tonality, right? So we still have tonality, but with the video call, we also get body language, right? So video call is, is richer, let&#8217;s say. All right, so video call, let&#8217;s say more persuasive. After that, phone call, and then we have left, let&#8217;s say, um, SMSes, WhatsApp, let&#8217;s put them in the same sort of basket, and we have email. Out of those two, which one, uh, do you think is the most persuasive?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Uh, the SMS, the, the text messages</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> That&#8217;s right. People are still in a habit of dealing with their SMSs and WhatsApp messages as they come in. We&#8217;re still clearing those little red dots. But email,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Is the last for sure.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> we&#8217;re over it, right? We get so many messages, um, it, it&#8217;s hard to get through. Now, what do we use in business all the time?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Email, yeah.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Email, right? We&#8217;re using the least persuasive channel of communication the most. Not saying it&#8217;s a bad channel, but when you&#8217;re trying to [00:33:00] get compliance from someone, it&#8217;s the worst thing you can do. Depending on which research you look at, if you compare email with video call, some research says that it is 200% more persuasive. Other research says it is 1400% more persuasive. Chances are that you&#8217;ll get a yes. So any tip for people driving their business from home, stop&#8230; Well, not stop emailing, but realize that it&#8217;s the least persuasive thing. If you are communicating or you want to communicate a proposal to someone Do that via video call. Run them through it during the video call, and afterwards you email it to them, or you email it to them at the same time so they can open it and you can guide them through it. But if you send the proposal via email, you&#8217;re using the least persuasive channel at the most important time. Um, so choose a channel that&#8217;s more persuasive and you&#8217;ll already get more yeses. And we, [00:34:00] we haven&#8217;t even gotten into the principles of persuasion yet. Other thing from home that I, uh&#8230; I always, always cringe when I see it, is that if we are doing video calls, we, we have a, a background behind us. And, um, a lot of people, they use a blurred background, and then our audience can&#8217;t help but think, &quot;What are you hiding?&quot;</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Right? What&#8217;s so terrible that I shouldn&#8217;t be looking at for you want&#8230; to want to use a blurred background? Or they use a virtual background. I mean, um, I don&#8217;t know what that bridge is that Zoom puts in. I think that&#8217;s, uh, San Francisco or something, the sunset red bridge, right? You see that in so many meetings, right? Everybody&#8217;s using the same bridge. But again, what are you hiding? If you&#8217;re gonna have a meeting with someone and they don&#8217;t know you, when people are uncertain about you, they look for outward clues to make a split second&#8230; and it really is a split-second [00:35:00] decision about how much stock they can put into you, how much credibility you have, how professional you are. And when you turn up with a blurred background or even a virtual background, that&#8217;s not doing you any favor. So if you run a business from home and you&#8217;re gonna do video calls, pay some attention. Invest some money in what is behind you. Um, I mean, I, I do a lot of teaching online, so as you, you know, those who are viewing this, um, I&#8217;ve got a television behind me which has a special lens on it, and I&#8217;ve got, you know, video lights here, I&#8217;ve got a camera there inside a teleprompter. right? That lens in the TV doesn&#8217;t reflect the light. I can put different things on there. I can put a picture of me talking, you know, at a keynote or something, which highlights the principle of, uh, social proof and authority, which subtly helps people, you know, to get them persuaded to pay attention to me. Um, I can put that behind me. [00:36:00] But having, having a decent background, a real background, um, that says a lot more, or can say a lot more about your professionalism and credibility than a blurred background. So please pay attention to what&#8217;s behind you.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay. Well, so, uh, that&#8217;s awesome because the, the screen that you had behind you is one of the reasons why people will use virtual backgrounds, &#8217;cause then they can prot- project anything that they want behind them, right? Uh, so that&#8217;s a really, really cool hack. Now, for, for me, I, I, like, I do use a virtual background. And the reason why I use the virtual background is because as a, a work-at-home person, I tend to move around sometimes, and I want consistency and branding behind me at all times. And this allows me to be anywhere in the house and still have the same background behind me. So what would you say about that?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, uh, you, you do what you can when you can. But I think if you have&#8230; I mean, you can have a professionally designed [00:37:00] virtual background that actually has some information on it that would be persuading people in an ethical yet effective way about, for example, your expertise. Um, but yeah, just, I mean, yeah, again, it&#8217;s if people don&#8217;t notice, they don&#8217;t notice. But, you know, when you raise your hand and we see that little webbing between the fingers, right, then we know, oh my goodness, what&#8217;s really behind you? Are you sitting in a kitchen? Are you sitting in a shed? Um, it, it&#8217;s about that split second decision, and if you had something behind it. If you&#8217;re doing an important business call, if you&#8217;re trying to land a deal, um, I think you should probably do that from your primary location and, and have the best chance of portraying a good, um, subconscious message from what&#8217;s behind you. You know, if, if you&#8217;re, if you&#8217;re out and about and you can&#8217;t do it, you can&#8217;t do it. But, you know, in, in most cases I think we should try.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Jeez. Uh, you know what? Maybe what I&#8217;ll do is I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;ll work on my [00:38:00] background behind me, and then take a picture of that, and if I&#8217;m not there then I can just put d- the virtual background of what my actual background is in normal days.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Maybe, maybe that&#8217;s a nice in between</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. Cool. So now let&#8217;s get to your guest solo. So what&#8217;s exciting in your business right now?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, what&#8217;s exciting, I do w- a fair bit of networking, um, which, uh, which is also a great way for people working from home to, uh, you know, to have a, a team of people, as in the people in your networking organization who are looking for business opportunities, uh, with you. Um, what&#8217;s exciting with me in terms of, uh, of offerings, um, we have, um, an eight-week course that we teach people, which I&#8217;m most excited to, uh, to teach. Um, we have, you know, online workshops people can join, but there&#8217;s a, a problem with, with learning in a, in a short time. Research shows that we lose about 90% of new information within a week</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> follow-up. And so [00:39:00] attending a keynote or attending a workshop, whilst it&#8217;s, it can excite us, it can introduce us to a new topic, if nothing comes after it, we lose about 90% of it. So it&#8217;s a very ineffec- inefficient way of actually learning something that we&#8217;ll end up using. There&#8217;s&#8230; Knowledge is not power. Application skills, that&#8217;s power. And so when it comes to learning, we, we have to take, um, steps to what we call break the forgetting curve. We, we want to increase retention, and so a, a training program that lasts a bit longer than a day or two or three days, um, we s- spread that over a number of weeks, then it gets really exciting with people&#8217;s retention rates, building application skills, and building up their confidence, and that&#8217;s where I get most excited because I want my students to, of course, use this stuff, not just get excited about it and not use it. Um, yeah, so that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s exciting. Um,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Now this, [00:40:00] this training&#8217;s been around for a long time, hasn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, it&#8217;s sort of shape. I mean, Dr. Cialdini, uh, you know, he&#8217;s, um, past 80 now. Uh, he published that book Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion back in 1984. And, um, I know we had a little chat, uh, before we started. Um, you could ask the question, is this still relevant? You know, as in this is, this is stuff from 1984. Um, and yeah, it has been republished in, in 2015, and we got a, a seventh principle, which was unity. Um, but it&#8217;s actually more topical now than it&#8217;s ever been. Um, we live, and I&#8217;ll quote Dr. Cialdini, &quot;We live in the most information-overloaded, stimulus-saturated environment that has ever existed in the planet.&quot; And people are getting more information thrown at them than ever before. We are asked to make more decisions on a daily basi- ba- basis than ever before. [00:41:00] And so how our brain works in terms of decision-making has not changed, but our environment has, making it so that we lean even more so on the intuitive part of our brain, which relies a lot on shortcuts, and the seven principles of persuasion are shortcuts for the brain to an easier decision. And so we rely more heavily on that. Uh, Professor Daniel Kahneman pointed out in 19- I&#8217;m sorry, 2002 that 90% of our decisions are made by the intuitive part of the brain, not the logical, rational part of the brain. Um, and that percentage is now said to be at 95% and, and increasing still, and it all has to do with our atten- or not all, but a lot of that has to do with our attention span. We used to have an attention span of 20 minutes in the &#8217;80s. Do you remember what the attention span of the famous goldfish is supposed to be, Tim?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wasn&#8217;t it like seven seconds or something?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Very close. [00:42:00] Nine seconds for the</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> seconds, yeah</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Our attention span is seven seconds.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> We&#8217;ve been beaten by the goldfish, and because of that, we rely more on sh- on shortcut information, which is what the principles of persuasion are</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm. Well, yeah, that&#8217;s a&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> through those quickly?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. Let&#8217;s do it</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Okay. So there, there&#8217;s seven principles of persuasion, and they&#8217;re universal. What we mean by that is that they work in all languages, all cultures, and all countries, which is exceedingly powerful because, well, our cultures are intermixed in our own country, but it&#8217;s also very easy to now do business with people in other countries. So this is something that works everywhere. Um, so the seven principles, let me run through them. And for those, uh, watching this, they&#8217;re also, uh, behind me. So we&#8217;ve got the principle of reciprocity. We have a tendency to want to give back to people the same type of behavior that&#8217;s first given to us.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.[00:43:00]</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> And in the context of compliance, we tend to agree with more or comply more with people who we feel we owe something to. And, um, in business, we&#8217;ve taken that as in, okay, we&#8217;re gonna give people stuff, right? And if we look at, for example, sales figures from companies like Costco, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s very clear the more you give away, the more comes back. People buy more. And it doesn&#8217;t matter if you give cheese away, lipstick, or pizza, right? It, it, it, it works. It comes back. And I always find it fascinating when you go in the supermarket and you get presented with a tray of cheese to try. Most people who take that cheese think that that does not change their behavior, and the research is very clear. You give things away, people buy more. And what I think is fascinating beyond end is that even if you hate the cheese, it doesn&#8217;t matter. You buy more of something else because it&#8217;s not about the cheese, it&#8217;s about the behavior. You were [00:44:00] kind to me, now I need to be kind to you, right? So in reciprocity, basically we wanna genuinely ask ourselves the question, how can I help this person genuinely, right? And that activ- There&#8217;s a lot more to this than I can cover in half an hour or 20, 40 minutes. Uh, but in essence, a good thing to keep in our mind is, how can we help this person genuinely? Not because I&#8217;m trying to set it up so you will reciprocate to me later. How can I help you? Uh, that&#8217;s a good tactic to start using some of reciprocity. Then there&#8217;s the principle of liking. We like people that are like us- We like people that like us,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> and we like people that like us and say so, right? So that&#8217;s three, three elements there. We like people that are like us, means similarities, right? Research has shown, [00:45:00] um, this was a study, um, Northwestern versus Stanford, where they had email negotiations they were doing. We just covered how difficult email negotiations or email communication is, but they found in this setting 30% of negotiations ended up in deadlock, which represented an enormous cost. By asking the negotiators to initiate the meeting first by sharing some personal information about themselves, as in, &quot;Oh, this is what I like to do on the weekend. I like having a Korean barbecue, and, um, I like scuba diving, snorkeling, walking on the beach. I&#8217;ve got a motorcycle,&quot; and blah, blah, blah, right? Share something about themselves. Reciprocity kicks in, right? So the other person gives back the same type of behavior we first gave to them, so they start sharing their personal insights and what they like. Deadlock negotiations dropped to 6%.</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> By just figuring out, by sharing some personal [00:46:00] information, and it wasn&#8217;t about how much was shared, it was about how many similarities were uncovered,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> right? So we&#8217;ve gotta find out, be genuinely interested in someone, right? Have a conversation, personal first, and then go into business. Um, much more to liking, but let me move on. So unity was the last principle that was introduced by Dr. Cialdini. Unity is often confused with liking, but liking is more about similarities, where unity is about a feeling of what we call we-ness. When I can describe the, a group of people that I&#8217;m part of, as in you and I are part of, as we, then there&#8217;s a shared community that g- that, that&#8217;s happening, a feeling of community. So let&#8217;s say you&#8217;re in an airport and, uh, you&#8217;re talking to a complete stranger, and they&#8217;re from the same town as you, or they grew up or they went to the same university as you. All of a sudden, y- [00:47:00] it&#8217;s like you know each other, have known each other for so long, right? And there&#8217;s all this familiarity that&#8217;s going on. That same energy you can have the next business meeting you have, but not if you don&#8217;t do any homework to see if there&#8217;s any communities that you both feel part of. Um, again, much more to unity, but it&#8217;s one element of it. Social proof. Uh, I&#8217;d like to think we&#8217;re most, uh, most of us are familiar with that. We can identify social proof as follows: People tend to follow the actions of others, especially when they are numerous, and when the others are similar to us, when we are uncertain, right? This is why testimonials and reviews are so powerful 98% of online shoppers say that detailed, detailed online reviews are an important factor when deciding what and where to buy. So we need to collect [00:48:00] testimonials. And what I do always &#8230; I mean, it&#8217;s lovely that business owners are collecting testimonials already, which is great, but social proof has so many other strategies to offer which are equally, if not more, powerful than testimonials, and most business power- most business owners have no idea about these other strategies. Yet they know that, that they wouldn&#8217;t wanna take away the testimonials that they&#8217;ve got on their websites or on their brochures or what they mention to people. Um, but the, the thing with testimonials is we want details. So I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s unethical if you ask somebody, &quot;Would you mind&#8230;&quot; And the best time to ask is when they thank you, right, for a service well done, for a product they&#8217;ve enjoyed. &quot;Oh, this was lovely. Thank you so much.&quot; &quot;Oh, so glad to hear it. Could I ask you a favor? Would you mind, you know, leaving a little testimonial on our, on our re- re- review page, right? So that other people who are considering using our service can sort of learn from your experience. And if you&#8217;re willing to do so, would you please provide some detail [00:49:00] about your experience?&quot; You know, when you see a restaurant review and it&#8217;s, &quot;Food was great, loved it,&quot; it, there&#8217;s no detail, right? It f- it feels ingenuine, where if there&#8217;s more details it feels more genuine and it&#8217;s more believed</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Agree</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, all right, social proof. I&#8217;ll move on. So principle of authority. People have a tendency to follow the advice of other people who have genuinely more expertise or wisdom on a particular topic. This makes sense, right? We can&#8217;t know everything, and we&#8217;re generally better off if we take the advice of people that know a lot more about it. That&#8217;s why if you have a proposal going out, you can support your proposal with the opinions of experts, right? Maybe a doctor or a professor has said something, or a study has revealed something. That gives your argument more weight. But then on the other hand, you are also an [00:50:00] expert in your field, right? You have a certain amount of expertise. Now, you said something earlier that I picked up on. Um, you know, y- you were saying, like, it&#8217;s so much easier to have your manager sort of sell your services or, or s- tell people how good you are as an artist, and that&#8217;s exactly right. It feels a little awkward singing your own praises, right? If you&#8217;re going, &quot;Wow,&quot; you know,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> I&#8217;m so good.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> are&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> That&#8217;s right. My name is Patrick, and here are the 34 reasons why you should listen to me today,&quot; right? This is what I&#8217;m basically saying. And whilst when we&#8217;re, when we&#8217;re talking about it like this, we know how it is uncomfortable, but you hear people in business do this all the time. They&#8217;re all singing their own praises, and they do that because they want their audience to recognize that they have expertise and that they should listen to what you&#8217;re saying with the gravity that it deserves. But what they don&#8217;t know, it&#8217;s socially unacceptable to sing your own praises. And so in the subconscious of your audience, they&#8217;re gonna go, [00:51:00] &quot;You&#8217;re full of yourself,&quot; right? Y- you&#8217;re gonna lose authority, and you lose liking. It&#8217;s lose-lose, right? But you can organize for someone else to introduce you. Or what you could do, and goodness, I&#8217;m giving a lot away to your, uh, to your listeners today. You could, before you have a meeting with someone, let&#8217;s say you have a meeting at 11:00 and you&#8217;re gonna do a video call or something. You could send half an hour before, you could send an email or even two hours before saying, &quot;Hey, really looking forward to our meeting at, uh, 11:00. And, um, I&#8217;ve attached a PDF explaining something about my background so you know where this information that I&#8217;ll be sharing with you, where that&#8217;s coming from. I hope you&#8217;ll take a couple of minutes to peruse the information, and I&#8217;ll see you at 11:00.&quot; People are typically curious. They&#8217;ll go and have a look, and in that PDF you can say you have a master&#8217;s degree in this and you went to that and that university and, and do all. There it&#8217;s socially acceptable, and it is not taken as [00:52:00] boastful. And you can bring your authority up and have people process what it is you&#8217;re gonna say from the very first word with the gravity that it deserves Is that a good one?</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s a great one.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Cool. All right, two, two principles left. So we have the principle of consistency Um, consistency works because we feel an internal pressure to stay true to past actions and statements that we&#8217;ve made,</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> right? We have nasty names for people who say they&#8217;ll do one thing and then do something totally different, right? Uh, uh, on a good note, we call them unreliable, but other than that, we have a lot more nasty names for people like that. And because we are quick to judge people like that, we don&#8217;t wanna be judged like that. And so when we&#8217;ve said something in the past that&#8217;s important to us, something we&#8217;d want to do, when then later a [00:53:00] decision needs to be made which is logically consistent with what we pointed out earlier, we wanna stay true to that past behavior. Um, in my podcast, I do an interview, uh, I think it&#8217;s episode eight, where I do, uh, an interview with one of my colleagues, and he also runs dental practices. And in- on his patient intake form, right, what people fill out before they fir- do the first appointment with the dentist, they&#8217;ve added a single question. A single question. And that single question has increased case acceptance, which is what a dentist call, calls it when the client says, &quot;Yes, dentist, I&#8217;ll do what you&#8217;re recommending.&quot; Uh, that increased by 33.5% across four dental clinics. A single question, which had to do with that principle of consistency. If people are interested, they can go and listen to episode number eight of Ethical Persuasion Unlocked. So but this is how powerful this can be, [00:54:00] right? 33.5%. Wow. Um, so yeah, consistency. So we want to either figure out what is important to people and link what we&#8217;re offering to what&#8217;s important to them, or we create opportunities for someone to reveal what is important to them, as the case of this question on the intake form, and then link that to our proposals later on. Lastly, um, the principle of scarcity. We value things more that are s- that are scarce, that are rare, that are about to run out, their time is limited, or they&#8217;re, you know, dwindling in availability. Um, and this is very automatic. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s sort of hardwired in us. It&#8217;s survi- survival, um, strategy really. If we have a certain amount of resources, getting more resources is nice, but if we lose resources, that could be detrimental, right? So we pay attention to potential loss. Yet in [00:55:00] business, we have a nasty habit of always telling people what they stand to benefit, what they stand to gain from working with us. Oh, you get there faster, you&#8217;ll save money, it&#8217;s good for the environment. That&#8217;s all things we get more of. Extra. Where if we phrase the exact same thing from a perspective of what losses are we avoiding by buying this product or using our service, we are far more persuasive. Uh, I can give you a quick example. There&#8217;s a company that did home assessments for insulation value of a home, so that at the end of the assessment, they could tell people if they were to insulate their house fully, how much money, how much difference that would make in their wallet, right? Half of the people were told, uh, of course, per house the value would be different, but let&#8217;s take a dollar example. So half of the people were told, &quot;If you insulate your house fully, you&#8217;ll be [00:56:00] able to save a dollar a day.&quot; The other half of the people were told, &quot;If you fail to insulate your house fully, you&#8217;ll lose a dollar a day.&quot;</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> 150% more people decided to insulate their house fully under the loss instruction instead of the gain instruction</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Wow, that&#8217;s fascinating</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> I know, right? That&#8217;s why I love this so much</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, people,</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> So those are the, the</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> how people think, eh?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Yeah, exactly. Um, and that&#8217;s why this, this, this is interesting and fun to learn. It works in business, but it also works privately. When you&#8217;re trying to convince your teenager to clean up their room, you&#8217;re also gonna have to be persuasive. When you want the&#8230; When you&#8217;ve got that holiday destination that you really like to go on, you&#8217;re gonna have to persuade the rest of the team to agree with [00:57:00] that, right? You&#8217;re gonna have to be persuasive. So this is a&#8230; I mean, the World Economic Forum does a report called The Future of Jobs, and they do it every two years, I believe. In 2023, they ranked leadership and social influence, social influence is another word for ethical persuasion, as the fourth most urgent skill that businesses need to develop. In 2025, the last report came out, and they upped it to position number three, in a world of AI making things more uncertain, it is our interpersonal skills that are becoming more and more valuable. Um, so yeah, it&#8217;s an important soft skill that we need, and yet it&#8217;s not taught in schools, which is one of my community projects, by the way. If anybody here has kids, uh, I&#8217;m happy to donate my time to a limited extent to go to schools, even over video calls, to introduce this concept in a lot more detail than we&#8217;ve done today, um, to help introduce this to new, you know, to [00:58:00] people who are yet to go into the workforce. Because how silly is it that you&#8217;re gonna write a job application without knowing how to be persuasive? If you&#8217;re gonna get even in- invited to an interview, if you&#8217;re that lucky, you&#8217;re gonna go to that interview without knowing how to be persuasive, and goodness, you might get hired. Now you&#8217;re gonna have wage negotiations without knowing how to be persuasive? It&#8230; This is not&#8230; This is a skill that&#8217;s valuable everywhere, and it&#8217;s wonderful if halfway in your life you figure out that this exists, but you, you really should have this before you enter the workforce</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Agree. Wow. All right, so remind us how we can find out more about this.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Thanks a lot. Um, so of course I&#8217;ve got a website. Uh, it&#8217;s ethicalpersuasion.com.au. I&#8217;m sure Tim will put links in the show notes. Uh, of course, I&#8217;m on social media as well. On the website, there&#8217;s also some freebies that people can get access to. Um, just go look in the menu for g- the complimentary and free, uh, uh, options. Uh, one thing is a downloadable e-book. You don&#8217;t even have to put your [00:59:00] name or your email address in, just right click and download. It&#8217;s yours to have, so that&#8217;ll be helpful. Um, there&#8217;s also a seven-day email challenge. Um, th- for that, of course, we do need your email address a- and, uh, a newsletter. And of course, I&#8217;ve got my podcast, Ethical Persuasion Unlocked, that you can find in all the usual places. Uh, with most podcasts I get&#8230; You often get told by the host, &quot;Don&#8217;t listen to my first episodes. They weren&#8217;t so great. They&#8217;re better later on.&quot; Uh, my first 20 episodes are probably the most valuable ones, so I&#8217;d urge you to start at episode number one. And, uh, I, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m overselling it. You&#8217;ll, you&#8217;ll probably, um, be cruising through the rest of the series, uh, with, uh, eager ears</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> I love that so much. All right, before we go, one more question. This might be the hardest one. Let&#8217;s get into some music. So who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Um, I, I like, uh, I, I, I like, I don&#8217;t know if that necessarily needs to be associated, but I&#8217;m a motorcycle rider. I&#8217;ve got [01:00:00] a, a big-ass Harley that me and my wife like to, uh, to, uh, spend our spare time on. So I like, you know, sort of Bon Jovi sort of, uh, music. Uh, also sort of, uh, you know, the 1945, uh, you know, sort of war music, uh, you know, The Andrews Sisters, that sort of stuff. Yeah, I like that</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow, that&#8217;s awesome. A motorcycle rider. That&#8217;s awesome. My drummer&#8217;s a motorcycle rider.</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> Well then you and my, me and, uh, your motorcyc- your, your, your drummer have already got unity between us. You ask him, right? If he says, &quot;I just interviewed a motorcycle rider,&quot; well, we&#8217;re already halfway to being good friends</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Absolutely. Well, thank you so much, Patrick, for rocking out with me today. This has been a lot of fun and very informa- inform- informative</p>
<p><strong>Patrick van der Burght:</strong> I&#8217;m, uh, I&#8217;m glad, uh, it&#8217;s been of interest and, um, yeah, I hope we&#8217;ve empowered people to do a few things better and, uh, to dig more to find out more about the subject &#8217;cause it has a big impact on what they&#8217;re doing</p>
<p><strong>Tim Melanson:</strong> Yes, [01:01:00] absolutely. Awesome. Well, thank you so much again, and thank you so much to the listeners for listening in, and we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work At Home Rockstar podcast. As always, you can always go to workathomerockstar.com for more information</p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the Work at Home RockStar Podcast, Tim sits down with the founder of <a href="https://avium.vip/">Avium</a> to talk about the long game of freelancing — starting out writing for pocket money in university, sticking with average income for years, and eventually unlocking a new growth path that led to launching his own agency. He opens up about getting fired from a marketing agency job for trying to change how things were done, a moment that felt like the end of the world at the time but turned out to be one of the best things that happened to him, and the conversation moves through building a home office that supports real productivity, the self-care habits that keep his energy up as a business owner, and why he believes personal branding across a website, LinkedIn, YouTube, and podcasts is becoming essential in an AI-driven world..</p>
<h2>Who is Benas Leonavicius?</h2>
<p>Benas Leonavicius is the founder of <a href="https://avium.vip/">Avium</a>, a personal branding agency that builds online visibility infrastructure for keynote speakers, book authors, and founders. He spent over a decade building a lean solo SEO business to more than $120k a year with strong profit margins, no office, and no outside funding, starting with SEO articles written for pocket money and briefly trying corporate work before walking away to build something of his own. Avium was built to close the gap between his clients&#8217; real-world authority and their online visibility, and his client list includes Dr. David Burkus, Jay Baer, and Susan David, among 36+ clients total, with a model that&#8217;s intentionally kept small.</p>
<p>In the interview, Benas shared that he&#8217;s been freelancing for over 10 years, only unlocking real growth in the last three to four years, and that he hired his first team member at the end of last year, followed by two more in recent months, as he works to document his processes and build something less dependent on himself.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>What stands out in this episode</h2> <p>One of the most striking mindset shifts in this episode is how Benas treats failure — not as an ending, but as a project that simply closes so the next one can begin. That kind of reframe is what lets someone try writing books, building an e-commerce shop, or launching an agency without the fear of any single attempt defining them.</p> <p>Benas also makes a strong case for treating your workspace as a productivity tool, not an afterthought. Once his home office was fully set up, he could &#8220;jump into things straight away&#8221; instead of losing the first stretch of every session just getting ready to work — a small shift that added up to real time and focus.</p> <p>The connection Benas draws between self-care and business performance is worth sitting with: sleep, consistent workouts, and meal prepping weren&#8217;t side projects for him, they were the foundation that let his actual work be sharper. It&#8217;s a reminder that discipline outside of work often shows up directly inside it.</p> <p>Finally, Benas&#8217;s approach to growth is refreshingly deliberate — building a personal brand across a few interconnected platforms instead of chasing every channel, and hiring a small, lean team instead of scaling into a big company. It&#8217;s a model built for sustainability and flexibility, not just size.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>In this Episode</h2> <p>00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro<br>00:35 Freelancing Success Story<br>02:54 Growth Mindset and Resilience<br>05:38 Biggest Setback Getting Fired<br>09:49 Home Office Setup<br>11:31 Productivity Upgrades at Home<br>15:25 Self Care for Entrepreneurs<br>20:38 Building a Lean Team<br>22:10 Personal Branding to Get Fans<br>25:13 Brand Platforms That Work Together<br>27:57 Agency Growth and Systems<br>31:10 Where to Find Benas<br>31:56 Favorite Band and Wrap Up</p></div>
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<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rockstar podcast. I&#8217;m very excited for today&#8217;s guest. We have the owner and founder of Avium, and what he does is he helps to build personal brands to distinguish you from everyone else, and to open doors to many opportunities such as jobs and new clients, speaking engagements, et cetera.</p>
<p>So excited to be rocking out today with Benas Leonavicius. Did I get that right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s perfect. That&#8217;s very good.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Perfect. Right on. So are you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yes. Yes</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> We always start off here on a good </p>
<p>note. So tell me a story of success that we can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, I suppose my story of success is the one of, um, uh, uh, being very resilient on freelancing. So, uh, I started freelancing when I was sort of, you know, in university. Started doing that for pocket money. Uh, never really thought it&#8217;s something serious, <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> but then eventually decided to go full time and, uh, really stuck with it for a very long time.</p>
<p>I believe a lot of people sort of drop things, but even though I was earning kind of average income for many, many years while being a freelancer, always wanted to find opportunities to improve, and it did take me a, a long while. You know, I&#8217;ve been doing freelancing for over 10 years now. But in the last, like, three to four years, that is when things started shifting and I kind of unlocked a new growth path, which then eventually led me to creating the agency and now sort of growing beyond just being, uh, a solopreneur</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, I mean, one of the reasons why I&#8217;m doing this podcast in the first ti- in the first place is to inspire people to actually do this, to start for, for themselves, right? And I think that, um, a lot of people think that businesses have to always grow, and they always have to end up being, you know, billion-dollar businesses or whatever it is.</p>
<p>But on the other <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> hand, it doesn&#8217;t have to, right? I mean, you can just work a job a- as your own business and just make ends meet for however long you want. And funny thing is that eventually, like you say, things tend to kind of progress, but they don&#8217;t have to, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. That&#8217;s, that, that was my personal choice to do that. I could&#8217;ve, I, I could&#8217;ve easily just went ahead with freelancing for, for many, many years. I now have, you know, established systems. I know how to find clients. So in e- in, in essence, I&#8217;m just, you know, a, a, a one-person team that can actually indefinitely sustain myself.</p>
<p>So, you know, going forward is, is, it&#8217;s a personal choice. But it doesn&#8217;t have to be. You know, I think, uh, uh, it&#8217;s always good to have a choice, and in this case, you can build, you know, your own, uh, sort of way of working without the need of, uh, to work for, for anyone else</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah. And I, I think that, uh, what you, um, what you notice, I, I think for most, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> well, probably for everybody is that you just get better at stuff. You get more efficient, right? You start to, like, do things better because it just makes sense to do that. You start to learn things. And so, uh, at some point, like you say, maybe you unlock this new level and next thing you know your business goes flying.</p>
<p>But then on the other hand, maybe you just get better at what you do and you spend less time doing it, and you have a little bit more time freedom, right? I mean, it&#8217;s, there, there, there are just different paths that you can take in business. But after a while you are going to get better at it, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah, exact. And I feel that if you&#8217;re doing something on your own, your own project, your own business, your own freelancing opportunity, uh, at least for me, and it seems that it, uh, uh, for, for other people that I talk to, is that, uh, when you&#8217;re on your own, it kind of forces you to, uh, learn more and develop yourself compared to if you are working at a company.</p>
<p>At least I&#8217;ve seen a lot of examples where c- you can stagnate very easily and still <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> receive income and still sort of work at that job. Whilst when you&#8217;re a freelancer, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re kind of forced to develop and, and learn more at least a little bit to basically keep up with all of the new trends and all of the new demands that clients have.</p>
<p>So in that sense of, uh, uh, you know, if you look at it from that perspective, it feels that, you know, this is an advantage, for example, for being a freelancer because you are forced to, uh, to, to kind of, uh, learn and develop yourself, which then, you know, essentially makes you a better expert at the end of the day</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> No, yeah. Yeah, totally. I g- I agree. I mean, if you&#8217;re working in a company, one of two things would happen. Either they would push the new thing onto you and say, &#8220;You need to learn this,&#8221; and w- you know, &#8220;We&#8217;re gonna send you away for training to do whatever it is that&#8217;s coming down the pipe,&#8221; right? They would push you to do that, or they&#8217;d just push you out of the company, and y- you know, they&#8217;d, uh, hire somebody else.</p>
<p>So, you know, when you&#8217;re working for yourself, I mean, y- you, you&#8217;re gonna figure this out because all of a sudden your revenue&#8217;s gonna be dropping, and you&#8217;re gonna <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> be like, &#8220;What&#8217;s going on?&#8221; And, you know, you&#8217;ll, you&#8217;ll be forced, like you say, to go and figure out why that&#8217;s happening, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, and I feel that builds, like, more resilience and independence, like, you know, that you are responsible for your own actions, you know? Instead of somebody forcing you to go and learn, you are the one researching, looking up, learning. And, uh, I think at, at, after some years, it builds you up as a person.</p>
<p>It, it, you know, you, you are now the person who actually enjoys learning, who goes out and do, does that stuff instead of being a passive observer. So, I, I do, I do wanna be more active on things that I do</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Agree. So now over the last decade or more, right? You know, sometimes things don&#8217;t go as planned, right? There are some bad notes that people hit, and it, I mean, that&#8217;s really a lot of the fear of why people don&#8217;t start in the first place. They&#8217;re just worried that they&#8217;re gonna fail, right? And I mean, the bottom line is that we all make mistakes, and it just is what it is, and we can <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> always recover.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m wondering, can you share with me, you know, something, something big that happened along that journey that you recovered from and, and, and how that worked out for you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah. Uh, well, one of the things I, I wanna say is that I always for some reason didn&#8217;t view failure as failure. I view f- I viewed failure as a, as a project. So we create&#8230; You know, I go on Google Drive, I create a, a, a, a project named whatever project that is, and if that project ends, well, I g- I&#8217;ll go on the next one.</p>
<p>So, you know, if you view it in that perspective, then it&#8217;s a lot easier to go and try a bunch of things and see sort of what works, what doesn&#8217;t work. I mean, I, over the years I, you know, besides freelancing, I tried a lot of different things from writing books, creating videos, working on, uh, uh, other marketing a- areas, creating your- my own e-commerce shop.</p>
<p>So, I mean, none of these things are, exist now because, you know, obviously I haven&#8217;t sort of, uh, uh, uh, um, haven&#8217;t done them to the f- their fullest, uh, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> potential. But something else clicked for me, like freel- freelancing and stuff like that. But probably one of the Uh, biggest failures would be, uh, or at least the most impactful for me was when I was fired from a marketing agency.</p>
<p>So, uh, after university, I, uh, I, um, I was still sort of freelancing, but it was, you know, like pocket money. I wasn&#8217;t taking it full time. It was something, uh, that I had on the side. And then I knew that I, I kind of need to, um, you know, find a job and I wanna get some experience from working somewhere before I do my own thing.</p>
<p>That was sort of my, the way that I thought, uh, things need to go. And I got a job at a marketing agency, uh, as a manager without any managerial experience. I have no idea how I oversold myself or how people overestimated me. I think it was kind of, uh, on both of us here. But, uh, uh, I was there for only two months.</p>
<p>There were also two other girls that were also hired at the same <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> time as me, and, uh, they did their job by the book. Everything was sort of went as, as company expected. And I was the, the young one trying to improve everything, change everything, go out of my way, do a lot more. And apparently that was not expected.</p>
<p>That was actually considered very intrusive, you know? And, uh, they were like, &#8220;Nah, nah, you know, we, we don&#8217;t need somebody that basically breaks the way we do things here. We wanna go and do everything by the book slowly, casually, and keep things simple.&#8221; And so they fired me. And I remember I was very angry at that time, uh, at, at nine to five jobs in general.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like, why? I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m trying my best here to make things better, and what I get for is being fired? Um, I&#8211; at that time, that&#8230; the, it felt like the world kind of has ended for me. I don&#8217;t know. It, it really, really stuck deeply with me, uh, whenever, uh, I was let go. I mean, eventually that, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> looking back now, it a- it was actually one of the best decisions that, that&#8230;</p>
<p>one of the best things that happened to me. But, uh, you know, it didn&#8217;t feel that way back then</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. I got my hand slapped for trying to make things better at one point too when I was in the corporate world, and that, it is interesting how that works. But you know what? I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s like the calling card of an entrepreneur, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. It seems like, uh, I mean, I didn&#8217;t&#8230; I mean, I was reading a lot of biographies and stuff like that. I, I hear these stories. Whenever that happens to you, never think that it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s something that, uh, it, th- this is gonna be your story. But then looking back, damn, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s the same old tale, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> You, you try to change things in a corporate world and they don&#8217;t like that, and so you start your own thing, right? That&#8217;s the way it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah. Yep, yep, yep, yep.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, that&#8217;s awesome. So now let&#8217;s talk a little bit about The Jam Room, &#8217;cause I mean, you&#8217;ve been working from home for a long time and I&#8217;m wondering how do you have your home office structured?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Oh, yeah. So the thing is I, <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> uh, um, I only have my home office for how many years now? Like maybe four or five. So half of that time, you know, working from home meant working from university sort of, uh, uh, uh, university dorms and working from cafes and, and didn&#8217;t even have money at that time to spend on a proper like, uh, co-working setup and stuff like that.</p>
<p>So it was very messy. But, uh, kind of somehow made it work. But eventually I, I always knew that I wanted a proper home, uh, setup and, uh, uh, when&#8211; once we bought this place that, that, that we live now with my wife, I wanted to basically make the home setup to feel as best as it possibly can. I kind of&#8230; I&#8217;m a kind of person that really cares about how things look, the tidiness, the organization.</p>
<p>I mean, you can probably see by the, the way kind of the, the background looks and stuff like that. So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s important to me to create an atmosph- atmosphere where I kind of feel good, <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> uh, uh, and, and I can sort of be much more productive this way. So a lot of attention to details. I mean, having some lights, you know, for podcast, having kind of microphones set up, having monitors and standing desks and then sort of there is this couch set up here as well for, for chilling.</p>
<p>So, um, just designed a place where I could feel, uh, uh, I could feel very well and, and, and that I think brings out the best of me in terms of productivity</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right on. So now I, I, I&#8217;m the same way. I worked from kitchen table for a long time before I got to a situation where I could, you know, have a, a space for my actual office. And I&#8217;m wondering, like, coming&#8230; &#8216;Cause we all make it work. I mean, w- well, we&#8217;re gonna make it work no matter what, right? But what do you think was different now that you have an actual office?</p>
<p>Like, how do you feel like that has changed the way that you work?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Mm, one of the things that, uh, um, <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> one of the things that for sure it made, uh, things better is that now since I have everything set up as I want to, it feels that I&#8217;m&#8211; I can jump into things straight away. So before, you need to go to a coffee, you need to open the laptop, you need to open all of the tabs, you need to connect things, you need to sh- you know, if you&#8217;re g- on a Zoom call with a client, then you need to check if everything is right.</p>
<p>So I think there&#8217;s just a lot of these minor things that we don&#8217;t think about that we need to do just to get started on the work. Now, l- right now, everything is here. Like, I come in, I unlock the laptop, and I can jump in straight into work, which for me allowed me to be much more fluid on when I can jump in, for example, for a quick 10 minutes.</p>
<p>Like, before I go to bed, I can actually come up to m- my table. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s a standing desk. I actually even stand. I can answer quick emails. I can do some quick things. I can check some things. And I think <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> that allowed me to be more organized and productive in that sense, where I have these little moments of, uh, productiveness that is kind of outside of working hours per se, but it allows me to just be on top of things without me feeling that I&#8217;m&#8211; that I need to go somewhere, open the laptop, uh, figure things out.</p>
<p>I mean, having, for example, bigger screen attached to my laptop allows me to have several different things all, all at the same time. If I&#8217;m working on my laptop, I need to be focused on one thing, so it&#8217;s very difficult to switch between. You don&#8217;t feel productive. You might go on LinkedIn or social media, and it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, uh&#8230;</p>
<p>I, I think this way, uh, uh, my work is way more structured</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, and, and I mean, </p>
<p>it&#8217;s almost like you had to commute to your to</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, in a sense, in a sense, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, which </p>
<p>feels very, very weird, but yeah, that&#8217;s true.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And, and I, I imagine, like, I <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> mean, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s kinda like a, a progression, right? I mean, maybe at one point you just don&#8217;t have the space in your house right now to be able to set up that specific office, and that&#8217;s fine. You know, it, it is a s- a shorter commute to open your laptop and get, and get started than going to a job.</p>
<p>But, uh, but it is good to kinda, like, kinda have that as an end goal to have eventually I&#8217;m gonna have an office with a, with a setup. &#8216;Cause like you say, it is so much more productive to be able to come in, you know, five minutes, boom, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re into work, right? Uh, or even less, right? Yeah. That&#8217;s</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> I do. And I, and I feel like, uh, at least for me, uh, having worked so many years, like, uh, I think it was, what, six years, something like that, having worked from all of the different places, d- not having an office, I now really value all the little details, like the, the, the, the carpet. The, for example, I have these, uh, these things right here on, on this wall basically are soundproof.</p>
<p>So the sound in here is much, much better. It&#8217;s <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> much, much nicer. So it just&#8230; it creates this, a much more, uh, calm and relaxing feeling, which for me at least really helps, uh, I think to, to do a lot more work compared to when I was, you know, working from cafes, from loud environments, from just anywhere and everywhere</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. So now let&#8217;s talk a little bit about the practice. Like, uh, I know that, uh, when, when you work for yourself, um, there&#8217;s, I, I guess there&#8217;s a lot more self-care that has to go into place, right? &#8216;Cause you have to bring the energy every single day. And I&#8217;m wondering, like h- how do you do that in, in your business?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, honestly, a lot of things, uh, uh, that are not related to work. So I do care a lot about my health and nutrition. I&#8217;ve been going to the gym for the past also 10 years, like, ever since I started, really fell in love with it. I mean, <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> everything that I&#8217;m talking right now, it was a slow progression. It wasn&#8217;t like that, you know, 10 years ago I was this fit or this well, um, uh, sort of, uh, this well-rounded as I am, as I feel I am right now.</p>
<p>It was a very long journey of finding things little by little. But right now, I think, you know, having a good sleep schedule, uh, working out at least four to f- uh, three to four times per week really helps me as well. You know, having like meal prepping for me was also like allowed me to eat the same meals, uh, at the same time, uh, in the same, same time of day, uh, quite regularly, which just allows me to feel much better.</p>
<p>And everything, I think, basically compounds into me being then, uh, able to do a lot better quality work whenever I need to, because everything else outside of the work is kind of settled. And I do, um, pay a lot of attention to all of these things, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> to, to even have things where I can, uh, relax, where I can go for walks, where I can sort of clear my head.</p>
<p>Because if I&#8217;m g- because one, uh, one ba- disadvantage of having an o- uh, like, um, home office is that you are technically&#8230; I can stay in this room for like 12 hours straight, but I, and I, and I used to, but what I found is that you, you, you kind of burn down, burn out very, very quickly. So like, you know, in, in just a week&#8217;s time, you, you still sit those like 10 hours per day, but you barely do anything.</p>
<p>So, uh, you know, I, I found that it, it&#8217;s not the way that I need to work. It&#8217;s more about the quality of work rather than the actual hours. So, uh, I do try to take care of myself so that then I&#8217;m able to do the best work possible.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. This is the topic that just blows my mind the most. Like, it, &#8217;cause, uh, you know, with all the people that I&#8217;ve interviewed, everybody seems to have this in <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> common, and I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s super common amongst, you know, the people who are employed to, to, like, really focus on what they&#8217;re eating and whether ex- they&#8217;re exercising and all that.</p>
<p>It just seems to be a skewed kind of like more people focus on that when they work for themselves than they do when they work in an office. It, it just seems odd to me, but</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, I feel, yeah, I feel&#8211; you know what? I feel that, uh, a lot of the, um, uh, skills and traits are very transferable. So let&#8217;s say if you are in, uh, like&#8230; And it goes, I think, both, both ways. But if you&#8217;re inclined to work for yourself, it means you, you&#8217;re probably a little more organized, a little more disciplined, a little more into taking things, um, uh, into your own hands type of person, you know?</p>
<p>And then I think all of those same skills and traits, but all&#8211; they really well apply to, you know, fitness and gym and, uh, taking care <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> of yourself and stuff like that. So I think that is why that, that correlation exists. I also fi-find it very interesting sort of that it seems people seem to like&#8211; they, they seems to correlate very well.</p>
<p>And at least this is, I think, the reason why it is. Because people that tend to go into working, like freelancing or working for themselves, have these traits and then once they build some kind of income, some kind of business, they, I think get to a point, um, at least I, I got to a point where, oh, okay, now that I have this freelancing thing, now that I have my own income, I&#8211; how do I make this even better?</p>
<p>And then I found that by doing things not related to working. Sleep, fitness, nutrition makes my work better. So I think a lot of people arrive to the same conclusion where they then start to take care of themselves and then their business grows, uh, you know, as a side bonus because of that. And then, yeah, and then from there everything kind of grows.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> and, and the cost is bigger too. I mean, if, if I get sick and, and now I&#8217;m off for a couple weeks, uh, I mean, the cost there is way bigger than just calling in sick at your office. And I mean, most offices are, like, you still get paid, right? But I mean, if I&#8217;m sick, sick, and I can&#8217;t do work for a couple weeks or for even for a few days, that, that impacts things a, quite a bit more than it would if I had a job, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Oh, yeah, I&#8217;ve been in many situations like that myself where I got seriously ill for, for, for a week or for a two and, you know, at, at some points, you know, your income basically cuts in half, uh, for that month. You know, nobody is taking care of you. So yeah, yeah, I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve been in this situa- &#8230; I mean, that&#8217;s also one of the reasons why now I, um, s- started building a team, like a very lean team, started building an agency because I knew that I don&#8217;t wanna be the only one that, uh, you know, uh, that clients rely on the work being delivered.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m not planning to do like a big company or anything like that. But just <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> having a few people, a very lean team, does help with this specific aspect when if you are sick, the work doesn&#8217;t stop</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and that&#8217;s, uh, that&#8217;s a big thing too, especially if you&#8217;re thinking about transitioning at some point to maybe eventually stop working, like retiring or whatever it is, which, uh, I mean, how, how does that work, right? If you&#8217;ve built this team and now you have all these clients that rely on you, and now you&#8217;re saying, &#8220;Okay, well I&#8217;m done.&#8221;</p>
<p>Now what, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. I th&#8230; And, you know, I, honestly, I f- I believe that the, in the future, I think we will see an explosion, like, in the next, like, 10 years or something, uh, a lot of these mini teams, like three to 10 people, businesses, teams, service things that, you know, it can be a, a, a YouTuber with a YouTube channel.</p>
<p>It can be an agency with, you know, five to six to, uh, people team. So I think we&#8217;ll see a lot of people moving into these structures <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> because they then allow, uh, uh, basically for, uh, especially for the founders to then step back if they need to while the business is still running</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. So how do we, uh, I mean, the world has changed quite a bit in the last even 10 years, right, since you started. So, so w- how do you now get fans? &#8216;Cause I mean, the audience is everywhere. Everybody can go on social media. There&#8217;s people everywhere. H- how do you get them to look at you, right, and, and to follow you and to, and to hire you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, yes. You know, you know, one of the things that I n- now strongly b- okay, so interesting thing. So I run a personal branding agency, but the reason I run that, because I, I strongly believe that personal branding and having a pers- strong personal brand is gonna become one of the most important things in the next five years.</p>
<p>Like, uh, especially, uh, since AI is kind of taking over, there&#8217;s a lot of AI content. People don&#8217;t know who&#8217;s who. It f- it seems that, <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> uh, whoever has a strong personal brand can get all of the opportunities come their way, whatever that sponsorship lead clients, you know. And it&#8217;s, and it&#8217;s personal, meaning that, you know, if you just suddenly decide to change what you do and from agency become, uh, a creator, that also works because it&#8217;s your pers- personal brand.</p>
<p>So the way I, uh&#8230; And I mean, I, I am preaching what I&#8217;m doing for others. I&#8217;m also now actively building my own personal brand because I believe that&#8217;s gonna be very, very valuable in the future. So, um, how to get fans? Well, having a strong personal brand is one way to go about that</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, and, and what does that mean? So that means, like, to, like, brand yourself as your own name rather than a company? Is that what you&#8217;re saying, or-</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yes, exactly. So I&#8217;m talking about, so if you, uh, Tim, for example, if you have your own Instagram, if you have your own LinkedIn, it means you <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> basically brand yourself as, as a person first, and then you attach yourself to projects. A project can be an agency, a project can be a podcast. It can be many different things.</p>
<p>But people, first of all, people like to follow people rather than companies. So they will follow you first before they, you know, have a very strong relationship to an, to an actual company. So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s much dif- more difficult to build, um, a relationship with a brand for, for people than, than to build for, uh, with a, with a person.</p>
<p>Also, I mean, we&#8217;re talking like millions of doll- of, of dollars spent, you know, on, you know. Look at how Coca Cola or N- or Nike spends much on building their brand and people attaching themselves to a brand. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s a very expensive and difficult thing to do. But having just, you know, a few thousand followers on Instagram, a few thousand followers on LinkedIn, people that actually follow you, it&#8217;s, it, it, they, having that kind of, of a strong personal brand <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> allows you to open a lot more opportunities for whatever that you do</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm. Okay. And so what does that mean, uh, building a brand? Does it mean, you know, posting content or doing website? Like, what, what does it mean to do that?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, so I mean, nowadays there are so many ways of doing it. Like personally, I work with keynote speakers, book authors, uh, executives and, and company founders. And for them we have the few key specific areas that are most important ones. So first of all, it&#8217;s their website, uh, which we do SEO and AI search.</p>
<p>Nowadays since a lot of people are looking up for people and experts on AI, we want them to be found. Best way of finding them is having a strong website. Then LinkedIn is also a very important, uh, aspect for those people. This is where event planners, uh, all of the, uh, um, eh, important people that they want to be found are actually finding them there.</p>
<p>And then we also have, uh, podcasts and YouTube, so videos are also very <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> important, uh, strategy of this short form and long form. And then podcasting is, uh, another way to also build, uh, y- a strong personal brand. And the good thing is why specifically these channels is because w- in this day and age, uh, it&#8217;s very difficult to build something, um, on their own, uh, channel.</p>
<p>Uh, I mean technically you can just be an Instagram influencer and creator and stuff like that and have nothing else. But for, uh, people that want their personal brand to be everywhere, it, it makes sense to, to have different, uh, platforms work for each other. So for example, if you have a strong YouTube channel, that helps your website.</p>
<p>If it helps your website, it helps you rank on AI search. If it helps you rank on AI search, then people probably are finding you on LinkedIn. So you need to have a strong LinkedIn presence. So it&#8217;s, uh, like everything nowadays are, is very interconnected, so having these key platforms work together as <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> one, like basically gets you the best results possible</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, and nowadays, I mean, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, especially with podcasting now, right? I mean, there&#8217;s a lot of people that consume podcasts, right? And so you can get your personality out there pretty easily and inexpensively now just by appearing on podcasts or even starting your own, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. I, I, I love podc- I love listening to podcasts. That, I mean, that&#8217;s one of the reasons why I started doing them myself is I had a thought, &#8220;Hey, it would be fun to also jump and, and be on, you know, uh, be on some podcasts, tell my own story.&#8221; And I mean, I didn&#8217;t know how far that would go. It just started as a sort of a, a, a fun thing that I would try out as many of my other experiments were.</p>
<p>But this one worked very well, and I&#8217;m still, you know, continuing, uh, to, to do that. But, uh, uh, yeah. Yeah, that&#8217;s one of the, one of the things</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, we&#8217;ve already gotten a little bit into your guest solo, but, uh, we&#8217;ll, we&#8217;ll go a little bit deeper. So what is exciting in your business right now?<span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, most exciting part for me is, is building agency. Like, I&#8217;ve only started&#8230; Like, my first team hire was end of last year. Uh, then I hired two more people just in the last couple of months. So for me, building systems, uh, building organizational stuff, communicational stuff, actually extracting everything that was in my brain into some kind of a system, into some kind of, um, a, a document that now everything is much more streamlined than it was before.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m, I am organized. I do have my own things of, ways of working, but the way I worked was not set up in a way where, uh, somebody else could come in and help me. So it&#8217;s very, like, personal to me in the way I do things. So I&#8217;m basically transferring everything and making sure that I&#8217;m building something much more sustainable than just, uh, myself.</p>
<p>And for me, that&#8217;s actually quite exciting. I mean, I&#8217;ve never done that before, so there are challenges. There are things that come <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> up. But, uh, uh, as I have worked so many years kind of by myself, it&#8217;s actually quite cool to have a team. Like, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, not gonna lie, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s actually quite refreshing to be able to share some ideas, communicate with people, have some meetings just to discuss things.</p>
<p>So, uh, for me, it&#8217;s very new, but, uh, very, very cool</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, and as you start to, like, set things up for someone else to take over, you learn a lot about your own processes and how things are going, and you probably found some better ways to do things, didn&#8217;t you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, for sure. We, uh&#8230; I mean, I&#8230; The, the way I was doing things was it, it worked, it brought results, but it was not, not the most efficient way of doing this. So one, one thing is that efficiency is just increasing through the roof. But now that I&#8217;m working with people, I&#8217;m finding, like, people are bringing ideas and things that I never even thought of.</p>
<p>So <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> this is actually expanding how we do things or what we do beyond of my own capabilities. So, uh, uh, you know, going forward, I wanna actually hire people that are smarter and more better in, in, in stuff that I am in the specific things, uh, because I want, you know, the best possible outcome in this area.</p>
<p>I, you know, I&#8217;m not that kind of person that I wanna be on, on top of things in&#8230; Well, in the sense where I should be the smartest in my company. No, I should hire people that are way better at me at what they do. My job is, is, is basically to bring the team together and make sure everything works and, and, uh, uh, and, and, and keep this agency running</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I agree with that for sure. You don&#8217;t&#8230; Uh, what was it, Henry Ford saying that he wanted to be in a room with everybody, or if, if you&#8217;re the smartest person in the room, you&#8217;re in the wrong room, I think is what he said.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah, exactly. Exactly. And I&#8217;m now finding that, that, you know, uh, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s so valuable to, to work with other people. There are so much synergies happening <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> where one plus one doesn&#8217;t equal two. You know, usually with, especially with the small teams, it, it feels that we&#8217;re way more efficient than just, you know, four people working on this</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. So now tell me a little bit more about the, you know, how people find you and, and what that process looks like if they wanna work with you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, so avm.vip, that is basically the, the website for the agency, video testimonials. Everything is explained there, case studies, all that stuff. All of that jazz, all the usual things are, are on the website. But if you wanna get more personal, I do share a lot on LinkedIn. So if my name, first name, surname on LinkedIn, I share a lot of behind the scenes.</p>
<p>Uh, and if you really wanna dig in deeper, I also have a YouTube channel where I actually document&#8230; Well, first I documented my freelancing journey, now I&#8217;m actually documenting behind the scenes of how I&#8217;m building the agency and what&#8217;s working, what&#8217;s not working, and how our things are running</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Love that. Okay, well, before we end here, I got one more question for you. This <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> might be the hard one though. So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about music. Tell me, who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Rock? Oh, man, I&#8217;m not that&#8230; I mean, I do enjoy listening to music, and I, I think I have such a big variety that I listen to from, like, rock star to even, like, classical music. But I&#8217;m so bad at following artists. I&#8217;m so bad at remembering names of the artists. So I, I don&#8217;t think I have one, to be honest.</p>
<p>Like, if I had to need to select&#8230; Okay, maybe, I mean, Linkin Park was the one that really stuck with me since, you know, the early days, and also with the new artist that, uh, you know, the, the lead singer passed away, and the new female, uh, artist came, came along. And I think they released a couple of songs, and I was really, really impressed with the songs and, and the way she, uh, really, really enjoyed that one.</p>
<p>I think that, that maybe&#8217;s&#8230; That&#8217;s the fir- well, first thing that popped into my head, actually. Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Nice. Right on. Had, do you ever see him in concert?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> No, no, no. No, I haven&#8217;t. <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> But I&#8217;ve, I used to listen to them, so I mean, I still actually listen to their music to this day. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, for some reason very comforting</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. Well, awesome. Thank you so much for rocking out with me today. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah. Thank you. Thank you, Tim, for having me</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. And to the listeners, make sure you go, you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information, and we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar podcast</p></div>
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<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rockstar podcast. I&#8217;m very excited for today&#8217;s guest. We have the owner and founder of Avium, and what he does is he helps to build personal brands to distinguish you from everyone else, and to open doors to many opportunities such as jobs and new clients, speaking engagements, et cetera.</p>
<p>So excited to be rocking out today with Benas Leonavicius. Did I get that right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s perfect. That&#8217;s very good.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Perfect. Right on. So are you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yes. Yes</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> We always start off here on a good </p>
<p>note. So tell me a story of success that we can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, I suppose my story of success is the one of, um, uh, uh, being very resilient on freelancing. So, uh, I started freelancing when I was sort of, you know, in university. Started doing that for pocket money. Uh, never really thought it&#8217;s something serious, <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> but then eventually decided to go full time and, uh, really stuck with it for a very long time.</p>
<p>I believe a lot of people sort of drop things, but even though I was earning kind of average income for many, many years while being a freelancer, always wanted to find opportunities to improve, and it did take me a, a long while. You know, I&#8217;ve been doing freelancing for over 10 years now. But in the last, like, three to four years, that is when things started shifting and I kind of unlocked a new growth path, which then eventually led me to creating the agency and now sort of growing beyond just being, uh, a solopreneur</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, I mean, one of the reasons why I&#8217;m doing this podcast in the first ti- in the first place is to inspire people to actually do this, to start for, for themselves, right? And I think that, um, a lot of people think that businesses have to always grow, and they always have to end up being, you know, billion-dollar businesses or whatever it is.</p>
<p>But on the other <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> hand, it doesn&#8217;t have to, right? I mean, you can just work a job a- as your own business and just make ends meet for however long you want. And funny thing is that eventually, like you say, things tend to kind of progress, but they don&#8217;t have to, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. That&#8217;s, that, that was my personal choice to do that. I could&#8217;ve, I, I could&#8217;ve easily just went ahead with freelancing for, for many, many years. I now have, you know, established systems. I know how to find clients. So in e- in, in essence, I&#8217;m just, you know, a, a, a one-person team that can actually indefinitely sustain myself.</p>
<p>So, you know, going forward is, is, it&#8217;s a personal choice. But it doesn&#8217;t have to be. You know, I think, uh, uh, it&#8217;s always good to have a choice, and in this case, you can build, you know, your own, uh, sort of way of working without the need of, uh, to work for, for anyone else</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah. And I, I think that, uh, what you, um, what you notice, I, I think for most, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> well, probably for everybody is that you just get better at stuff. You get more efficient, right? You start to, like, do things better because it just makes sense to do that. You start to learn things. And so, uh, at some point, like you say, maybe you unlock this new level and next thing you know your business goes flying.</p>
<p>But then on the other hand, maybe you just get better at what you do and you spend less time doing it, and you have a little bit more time freedom, right? I mean, it&#8217;s, there, there, there are just different paths that you can take in business. But after a while you are going to get better at it, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah, exact. And I feel that if you&#8217;re doing something on your own, your own project, your own business, your own freelancing opportunity, uh, at least for me, and it seems that it, uh, uh, for, for other people that I talk to, is that, uh, when you&#8217;re on your own, it kind of forces you to, uh, learn more and develop yourself compared to if you are working at a company.</p>
<p>At least I&#8217;ve seen a lot of examples where c- you can stagnate very easily and still <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> receive income and still sort of work at that job. Whilst when you&#8217;re a freelancer, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re kind of forced to develop and, and learn more at least a little bit to basically keep up with all of the new trends and all of the new demands that clients have.</p>
<p>So in that sense of, uh, uh, you know, if you look at it from that perspective, it feels that, you know, this is an advantage, for example, for being a freelancer because you are forced to, uh, to, to kind of, uh, learn and develop yourself, which then, you know, essentially makes you a better expert at the end of the day</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> No, yeah. Yeah, totally. I g- I agree. I mean, if you&#8217;re working in a company, one of two things would happen. Either they would push the new thing onto you and say, &quot;You need to learn this,&quot; and w- you know, &quot;We&#8217;re gonna send you away for training to do whatever it is that&#8217;s coming down the pipe,&quot; right? They would push you to do that, or they&#8217;d just push you out of the company, and y- you know, they&#8217;d, uh, hire somebody else.</p>
<p>So, you know, when you&#8217;re working for yourself, I mean, y- you, you&#8217;re gonna figure this out because all of a sudden your revenue&#8217;s gonna be dropping, and you&#8217;re gonna <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> be like, &quot;What&#8217;s going on?&quot; And, you know, you&#8217;ll, you&#8217;ll be forced, like you say, to go and figure out why that&#8217;s happening, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, and I feel that builds, like, more resilience and independence, like, you know, that you are responsible for your own actions, you know? Instead of somebody forcing you to go and learn, you are the one researching, looking up, learning. And, uh, I think at, at, after some years, it builds you up as a person.</p>
<p>It, it, you know, you, you are now the person who actually enjoys learning, who goes out and do, does that stuff instead of being a passive observer. So, I, I do, I do wanna be more active on things that I do</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Agree. So now over the last decade or more, right? You know, sometimes things don&#8217;t go as planned, right? There are some bad notes that people hit, and it, I mean, that&#8217;s really a lot of the fear of why people don&#8217;t start in the first place. They&#8217;re just worried that they&#8217;re gonna fail, right? And I mean, the bottom line is that we all make mistakes, and it just is what it is, and we can <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> always recover.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m wondering, can you share with me, you know, something, something big that happened along that journey that you recovered from and, and, and how that worked out for you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah. Uh, well, one of the things I, I wanna say is that I always for some reason didn&#8217;t view failure as failure. I view f- I viewed failure as a, as a project. So we create&#8230; You know, I go on Google Drive, I create a, a, a, a project named whatever project that is, and if that project ends, well, I g- I&#8217;ll go on the next one.</p>
<p>So, you know, if you view it in that perspective, then it&#8217;s a lot easier to go and try a bunch of things and see sort of what works, what doesn&#8217;t work. I mean, I, over the years I, you know, besides freelancing, I tried a lot of different things from writing books, creating videos, working on, uh, uh, other marketing a- areas, creating your- my own e-commerce shop.</p>
<p>So, I mean, none of these things are, exist now because, you know, obviously I haven&#8217;t sort of, uh, uh, uh, um, haven&#8217;t done them to the f- their fullest, uh, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> potential. But something else clicked for me, like freel- freelancing and stuff like that. But probably one of the Uh, biggest failures would be, uh, or at least the most impactful for me was when I was fired from a marketing agency.</p>
<p>So, uh, after university, I, uh, I, um, I was still sort of freelancing, but it was, you know, like pocket money. I wasn&#8217;t taking it full time. It was something, uh, that I had on the side. And then I knew that I, I kind of need to, um, you know, find a job and I wanna get some experience from working somewhere before I do my own thing.</p>
<p>That was sort of my, the way that I thought, uh, things need to go. And I got a job at a marketing agency, uh, as a manager without any managerial experience. I have no idea how I oversold myself or how people overestimated me. I think it was kind of, uh, on both of us here. But, uh, uh, I was there for only two months.</p>
<p>There were also two other girls that were also hired at the same <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> time as me, and, uh, they did their job by the book. Everything was sort of went as, as company expected. And I was the, the young one trying to improve everything, change everything, go out of my way, do a lot more. And apparently that was not expected.</p>
<p>That was actually considered very intrusive, you know? And, uh, they were like, &quot;Nah, nah, you know, we, we don&#8217;t need somebody that basically breaks the way we do things here. We wanna go and do everything by the book slowly, casually, and keep things simple.&quot; And so they fired me. And I remember I was very angry at that time, uh, at, at nine to five jobs in general.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like, why? I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m trying my best here to make things better, and what I get for is being fired? Um, I&#8211; at that time, that&#8230; the, it felt like the world kind of has ended for me. I don&#8217;t know. It, it really, really stuck deeply with me, uh, whenever, uh, I was let go. I mean, eventually that, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> looking back now, it a- it was actually one of the best decisions that, that&#8230;</p>
<p>one of the best things that happened to me. But, uh, you know, it didn&#8217;t feel that way back then</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. I got my hand slapped for trying to make things better at one point too when I was in the corporate world, and that, it is interesting how that works. But you know what? I&#8217;m pretty sure that&#8217;s like the calling card of an entrepreneur, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. It seems like, uh, I mean, I didn&#8217;t&#8230; I mean, I was reading a lot of biographies and stuff like that. I, I hear these stories. Whenever that happens to you, never think that it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s something that, uh, it, th- this is gonna be your story. But then looking back, damn, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s the same old tale, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> You, you try to change things in a corporate world and they don&#8217;t like that, and so you start your own thing, right? That&#8217;s the way it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah. Yep, yep, yep, yep.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, that&#8217;s awesome. So now let&#8217;s talk a little bit about The Jam Room, &#8217;cause I mean, you&#8217;ve been working from home for a long time and I&#8217;m wondering how do you have your home office structured?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Oh, yeah. So the thing is I, <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> uh, um, I only have my home office for how many years now? Like maybe four or five. So half of that time, you know, working from home meant working from university sort of, uh, uh, uh, university dorms and working from cafes and, and didn&#8217;t even have money at that time to spend on a proper like, uh, co-working setup and stuff like that.</p>
<p>So it was very messy. But, uh, kind of somehow made it work. But eventually I, I always knew that I wanted a proper home, uh, setup and, uh, uh, when&#8211; once we bought this place that, that, that we live now with my wife, I wanted to basically make the home setup to feel as best as it possibly can. I kind of&#8230; I&#8217;m a kind of person that really cares about how things look, the tidiness, the organization.</p>
<p>I mean, you can probably see by the, the way kind of the, the background looks and stuff like that. So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s important to me to create an atmosph- atmosphere where I kind of feel good, <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> uh, uh, and, and I can sort of be much more productive this way. So a lot of attention to details. I mean, having some lights, you know, for podcast, having kind of microphones set up, having monitors and standing desks and then sort of there is this couch set up here as well for, for chilling.</p>
<p>So, um, just designed a place where I could feel, uh, uh, I could feel very well and, and, and that I think brings out the best of me in terms of productivity</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right on. So now I, I, I&#8217;m the same way. I worked from kitchen table for a long time before I got to a situation where I could, you know, have a, a space for my actual office. And I&#8217;m wondering, like, coming&#8230; &#8216;Cause we all make it work. I mean, w- well, we&#8217;re gonna make it work no matter what, right? But what do you think was different now that you have an actual office?</p>
<p>Like, how do you feel like that has changed the way that you work?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Mm, one of the things that, uh, um, <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> one of the things that for sure it made, uh, things better is that now since I have everything set up as I want to, it feels that I&#8217;m&#8211; I can jump into things straight away. So before, you need to go to a coffee, you need to open the laptop, you need to open all of the tabs, you need to connect things, you need to sh- you know, if you&#8217;re g- on a Zoom call with a client, then you need to check if everything is right.</p>
<p>So I think there&#8217;s just a lot of these minor things that we don&#8217;t think about that we need to do just to get started on the work. Now, l- right now, everything is here. Like, I come in, I unlock the laptop, and I can jump in straight into work, which for me allowed me to be much more fluid on when I can jump in, for example, for a quick 10 minutes.</p>
<p>Like, before I go to bed, I can actually come up to m- my table. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s a standing desk. I actually even stand. I can answer quick emails. I can do some quick things. I can check some things. And I think <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> that allowed me to be more organized and productive in that sense, where I have these little moments of, uh, productiveness that is kind of outside of working hours per se, but it allows me to just be on top of things without me feeling that I&#8217;m&#8211; that I need to go somewhere, open the laptop, uh, figure things out.</p>
<p>I mean, having, for example, bigger screen attached to my laptop allows me to have several different things all, all at the same time. If I&#8217;m working on my laptop, I need to be focused on one thing, so it&#8217;s very difficult to switch between. You don&#8217;t feel productive. You might go on LinkedIn or social media, and it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, uh&#8230;</p>
<p>I, I think this way, uh, uh, my work is way more structured</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, and, and I mean, </p>
<p>it&#8217;s almost like you had to commute to your to</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, in a sense, in a sense, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, which </p>
<p>feels very, very weird, but yeah, that&#8217;s true.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And, and I, I imagine, like, I <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> mean, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s kinda like a, a progression, right? I mean, maybe at one point you just don&#8217;t have the space in your house right now to be able to set up that specific office, and that&#8217;s fine. You know, it, it is a s- a shorter commute to open your laptop and get, and get started than going to a job.</p>
<p>But, uh, but it is good to kinda, like, kinda have that as an end goal to have eventually I&#8217;m gonna have an office with a, with a setup. &#8216;Cause like you say, it is so much more productive to be able to come in, you know, five minutes, boom, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re into work, right? Uh, or even less, right? Yeah. That&#8217;s</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> I do. And I, and I feel like, uh, at least for me, uh, having worked so many years, like, uh, I think it was, what, six years, something like that, having worked from all of the different places, d- not having an office, I now really value all the little details, like the, the, the, the carpet. The, for example, I have these, uh, these things right here on, on this wall basically are soundproof.</p>
<p>So the sound in here is much, much better. It&#8217;s <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> much, much nicer. So it just&#8230; it creates this, a much more, uh, calm and relaxing feeling, which for me at least really helps, uh, I think to, to do a lot more work compared to when I was, you know, working from cafes, from loud environments, from just anywhere and everywhere</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. So now let&#8217;s talk a little bit about the practice. Like, uh, I know that, uh, when, when you work for yourself, um, there&#8217;s, I, I guess there&#8217;s a lot more self-care that has to go into place, right? &#8216;Cause you have to bring the energy every single day. And I&#8217;m wondering, like h- how do you do that in, in your business?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, honestly, a lot of things, uh, uh, that are not related to work. So I do care a lot about my health and nutrition. I&#8217;ve been going to the gym for the past also 10 years, like, ever since I started, really fell in love with it. I mean, <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> everything that I&#8217;m talking right now, it was a slow progression. It wasn&#8217;t like that, you know, 10 years ago I was this fit or this well, um, uh, sort of, uh, this well-rounded as I am, as I feel I am right now.</p>
<p>It was a very long journey of finding things little by little. But right now, I think, you know, having a good sleep schedule, uh, working out at least four to f- uh, three to four times per week really helps me as well. You know, having like meal prepping for me was also like allowed me to eat the same meals, uh, at the same time, uh, in the same, same time of day, uh, quite regularly, which just allows me to feel much better.</p>
<p>And everything, I think, basically compounds into me being then, uh, able to do a lot better quality work whenever I need to, because everything else outside of the work is kind of settled. And I do, um, pay a lot of attention to all of these things, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> to, to even have things where I can, uh, relax, where I can go for walks, where I can sort of clear my head.</p>
<p>Because if I&#8217;m g- because one, uh, one ba- disadvantage of having an o- uh, like, um, home office is that you are technically&#8230; I can stay in this room for like 12 hours straight, but I, and I, and I used to, but what I found is that you, you, you kind of burn down, burn out very, very quickly. So like, you know, in, in just a week&#8217;s time, you, you still sit those like 10 hours per day, but you barely do anything.</p>
<p>So, uh, you know, I, I found that it, it&#8217;s not the way that I need to work. It&#8217;s more about the quality of work rather than the actual hours. So, uh, I do try to take care of myself so that then I&#8217;m able to do the best work possible.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. This is the topic that just blows my mind the most. Like, it, &#8217;cause, uh, you know, with all the people that I&#8217;ve interviewed, everybody seems to have this in <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> common, and I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s super common amongst, you know, the people who are employed to, to, like, really focus on what they&#8217;re eating and whether ex- they&#8217;re exercising and all that.</p>
<p>It just seems to be a skewed kind of like more people focus on that when they work for themselves than they do when they work in an office. It, it just seems odd to me, but</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, I feel, yeah, I feel&#8211; you know what? I feel that, uh, a lot of the, um, uh, skills and traits are very transferable. So let&#8217;s say if you are in, uh, like&#8230; And it goes, I think, both, both ways. But if you&#8217;re inclined to work for yourself, it means you, you&#8217;re probably a little more organized, a little more disciplined, a little more into taking things, um, uh, into your own hands type of person, you know?</p>
<p>And then I think all of those same skills and traits, but all&#8211; they really well apply to, you know, fitness and gym and, uh, taking care <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> of yourself and stuff like that. So I think that is why that, that correlation exists. I also fi-find it very interesting sort of that it seems people seem to like&#8211; they, they seems to correlate very well.</p>
<p>And at least this is, I think, the reason why it is. Because people that tend to go into working, like freelancing or working for themselves, have these traits and then once they build some kind of income, some kind of business, they, I think get to a point, um, at least I, I got to a point where, oh, okay, now that I have this freelancing thing, now that I have my own income, I&#8211; how do I make this even better?</p>
<p>And then I found that by doing things not related to working. Sleep, fitness, nutrition makes my work better. So I think a lot of people arrive to the same conclusion where they then start to take care of themselves and then their business grows, uh, you know, as a side bonus because of that. And then, yeah, and then from there everything kind of grows.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> and, and the cost is bigger too. I mean, if, if I get sick and, and now I&#8217;m off for a couple weeks, uh, I mean, the cost there is way bigger than just calling in sick at your office. And I mean, most offices are, like, you still get paid, right? But I mean, if I&#8217;m sick, sick, and I can&#8217;t do work for a couple weeks or for even for a few days, that, that impacts things a, quite a bit more than it would if I had a job, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Oh, yeah, I&#8217;ve been in many situations like that myself where I got seriously ill for, for, for a week or for a two and, you know, at, at some points, you know, your income basically cuts in half, uh, for that month. You know, nobody is taking care of you. So yeah, yeah, I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve been in this situa- &#8230; I mean, that&#8217;s also one of the reasons why now I, um, s- started building a team, like a very lean team, started building an agency because I knew that I don&#8217;t wanna be the only one that, uh, you know, uh, that clients rely on the work being delivered.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m not planning to do like a big company or anything like that. But just <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> having a few people, a very lean team, does help with this specific aspect when if you are sick, the work doesn&#8217;t stop</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and that&#8217;s, uh, that&#8217;s a big thing too, especially if you&#8217;re thinking about transitioning at some point to maybe eventually stop working, like retiring or whatever it is, which, uh, I mean, how, how does that work, right? If you&#8217;ve built this team and now you have all these clients that rely on you, and now you&#8217;re saying, &quot;Okay, well I&#8217;m done.&quot;</p>
<p>Now what, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. I th&#8230; And, you know, I, honestly, I f- I believe that the, in the future, I think we will see an explosion, like, in the next, like, 10 years or something, uh, a lot of these mini teams, like three to 10 people, businesses, teams, service things that, you know, it can be a, a, a YouTuber with a YouTube channel.</p>
<p>It can be an agency with, you know, five to six to, uh, people team. So I think we&#8217;ll see a lot of people moving into these structures <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> because they then allow, uh, uh, basically for, uh, especially for the founders to then step back if they need to while the business is still running</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. So how do we, uh, I mean, the world has changed quite a bit in the last even 10 years, right, since you started. So, so w- how do you now get fans? &#8216;Cause I mean, the audience is everywhere. Everybody can go on social media. There&#8217;s people everywhere. H- how do you get them to look at you, right, and, and to follow you and to, and to hire you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, yes. You know, you know, one of the things that I n- now strongly b- okay, so interesting thing. So I run a personal branding agency, but the reason I run that, because I, I strongly believe that personal branding and having a pers- strong personal brand is gonna become one of the most important things in the next five years.</p>
<p>Like, uh, especially, uh, since AI is kind of taking over, there&#8217;s a lot of AI content. People don&#8217;t know who&#8217;s who. It f- it seems that, <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> uh, whoever has a strong personal brand can get all of the opportunities come their way, whatever that sponsorship lead clients, you know. And it&#8217;s, and it&#8217;s personal, meaning that, you know, if you just suddenly decide to change what you do and from agency become, uh, a creator, that also works because it&#8217;s your pers- personal brand.</p>
<p>So the way I, uh&#8230; And I mean, I, I am preaching what I&#8217;m doing for others. I&#8217;m also now actively building my own personal brand because I believe that&#8217;s gonna be very, very valuable in the future. So, um, how to get fans? Well, having a strong personal brand is one way to go about that</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, and, and what does that mean? So that means, like, to, like, brand yourself as your own name rather than a company? Is that what you&#8217;re saying, or-</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yes, exactly. So I&#8217;m talking about, so if you, uh, Tim, for example, if you have your own Instagram, if you have your own LinkedIn, it means you <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> basically brand yourself as, as a person first, and then you attach yourself to projects. A project can be an agency, a project can be a podcast. It can be many different things.</p>
<p>But people, first of all, people like to follow people rather than companies. So they will follow you first before they, you know, have a very strong relationship to an, to an actual company. So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s much dif- more difficult to build, um, a relationship with a brand for, for people than, than to build for, uh, with a, with a person.</p>
<p>Also, I mean, we&#8217;re talking like millions of doll- of, of dollars spent, you know, on, you know. Look at how Coca Cola or N- or Nike spends much on building their brand and people attaching themselves to a brand. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s a very expensive and difficult thing to do. But having just, you know, a few thousand followers on Instagram, a few thousand followers on LinkedIn, people that actually follow you, it&#8217;s, it, it, they, having that kind of, of a strong personal brand <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> allows you to open a lot more opportunities for whatever that you do</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm. Okay. And so what does that mean, uh, building a brand? Does it mean, you know, posting content or doing website? Like, what, what does it mean to do that?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, so I mean, nowadays there are so many ways of doing it. Like personally, I work with keynote speakers, book authors, uh, executives and, and company founders. And for them we have the few key specific areas that are most important ones. So first of all, it&#8217;s their website, uh, which we do SEO and AI search.</p>
<p>Nowadays since a lot of people are looking up for people and experts on AI, we want them to be found. Best way of finding them is having a strong website. Then LinkedIn is also a very important, uh, aspect for those people. This is where event planners, uh, all of the, uh, um, eh, important people that they want to be found are actually finding them there.</p>
<p>And then we also have, uh, podcasts and YouTube, so videos are also very <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> important, uh, strategy of this short form and long form. And then podcasting is, uh, another way to also build, uh, y- a strong personal brand. And the good thing is why specifically these channels is because w- in this day and age, uh, it&#8217;s very difficult to build something, um, on their own, uh, channel.</p>
<p>Uh, I mean technically you can just be an Instagram influencer and creator and stuff like that and have nothing else. But for, uh, people that want their personal brand to be everywhere, it, it makes sense to, to have different, uh, platforms work for each other. So for example, if you have a strong YouTube channel, that helps your website.</p>
<p>If it helps your website, it helps you rank on AI search. If it helps you rank on AI search, then people probably are finding you on LinkedIn. So you need to have a strong LinkedIn presence. So it&#8217;s, uh, like everything nowadays are, is very interconnected, so having these key platforms work together as <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> one, like basically gets you the best results possible</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, and nowadays, I mean, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, especially with podcasting now, right? I mean, there&#8217;s a lot of people that consume podcasts, right? And so you can get your personality out there pretty easily and inexpensively now just by appearing on podcasts or even starting your own, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah. I, I, I love podc- I love listening to podcasts. That, I mean, that&#8217;s one of the reasons why I started doing them myself is I had a thought, &quot;Hey, it would be fun to also jump and, and be on, you know, uh, be on some podcasts, tell my own story.&quot; And I mean, I didn&#8217;t know how far that would go. It just started as a sort of a, a, a fun thing that I would try out as many of my other experiments were.</p>
<p>But this one worked very well, and I&#8217;m still, you know, continuing, uh, to, to do that. But, uh, uh, yeah. Yeah, that&#8217;s one of the, one of the things</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, we&#8217;ve already gotten a little bit into your guest solo, but, uh, we&#8217;ll, we&#8217;ll go a little bit deeper. So what is exciting in your business right now?<span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, most exciting part for me is, is building agency. Like, I&#8217;ve only started&#8230; Like, my first team hire was end of last year. Uh, then I hired two more people just in the last couple of months. So for me, building systems, uh, building organizational stuff, communicational stuff, actually extracting everything that was in my brain into some kind of a system, into some kind of, um, a, a document that now everything is much more streamlined than it was before.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m, I am organized. I do have my own things of, ways of working, but the way I worked was not set up in a way where, uh, somebody else could come in and help me. So it&#8217;s very, like, personal to me in the way I do things. So I&#8217;m basically transferring everything and making sure that I&#8217;m building something much more sustainable than just, uh, myself.</p>
<p>And for me, that&#8217;s actually quite exciting. I mean, I&#8217;ve never done that before, so there are challenges. There are things that come <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> up. But, uh, uh, as I have worked so many years kind of by myself, it&#8217;s actually quite cool to have a team. Like, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, not gonna lie, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s actually quite refreshing to be able to share some ideas, communicate with people, have some meetings just to discuss things.</p>
<p>So, uh, for me, it&#8217;s very new, but, uh, very, very cool</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, and as you start to, like, set things up for someone else to take over, you learn a lot about your own processes and how things are going, and you probably found some better ways to do things, didn&#8217;t you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, for sure. We, uh&#8230; I mean, I&#8230; The, the way I was doing things was it, it worked, it brought results, but it was not, not the most efficient way of doing this. So one, one thing is that efficiency is just increasing through the roof. But now that I&#8217;m working with people, I&#8217;m finding, like, people are bringing ideas and things that I never even thought of.</p>
<p>So <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> this is actually expanding how we do things or what we do beyond of my own capabilities. So, uh, uh, you know, going forward, I wanna actually hire people that are smarter and more better in, in, in stuff that I am in the specific things, uh, because I want, you know, the best possible outcome in this area.</p>
<p>I, you know, I&#8217;m not that kind of person that I wanna be on, on top of things in&#8230; Well, in the sense where I should be the smartest in my company. No, I should hire people that are way better at me at what they do. My job is, is, is basically to bring the team together and make sure everything works and, and, uh, uh, and, and, and keep this agency running</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I agree with that for sure. You don&#8217;t&#8230; Uh, what was it, Henry Ford saying that he wanted to be in a room with everybody, or if, if you&#8217;re the smartest person in the room, you&#8217;re in the wrong room, I think is what he said.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah, yeah, exactly. Exactly. And I&#8217;m now finding that, that, you know, uh, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s so valuable to, to work with other people. There are so much synergies happening <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> where one plus one doesn&#8217;t equal two. You know, usually with, especially with the small teams, it, it feels that we&#8217;re way more efficient than just, you know, four people working on this</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. So now tell me a little bit more about the, you know, how people find you and, and what that process looks like if they wanna work with you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Uh, so avm.vip, that is basically the, the website for the agency, video testimonials. Everything is explained there, case studies, all that stuff. All of that jazz, all the usual things are, are on the website. But if you wanna get more personal, I do share a lot on LinkedIn. So if my name, first name, surname on LinkedIn, I share a lot of behind the scenes.</p>
<p>Uh, and if you really wanna dig in deeper, I also have a YouTube channel where I actually document&#8230; Well, first I documented my freelancing journey, now I&#8217;m actually documenting behind the scenes of how I&#8217;m building the agency and what&#8217;s working, what&#8217;s not working, and how our things are running</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Love that. Okay, well, before we end here, I got one more question for you. This <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> might be the hard one though. So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about music. Tell me, who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Rock? Oh, man, I&#8217;m not that&#8230; I mean, I do enjoy listening to music, and I, I think I have such a big variety that I listen to from, like, rock star to even, like, classical music. But I&#8217;m so bad at following artists. I&#8217;m so bad at remembering names of the artists. So I, I don&#8217;t think I have one, to be honest.</p>
<p>Like, if I had to need to select&#8230; Okay, maybe, I mean, Linkin Park was the one that really stuck with me since, you know, the early days, and also with the new artist that, uh, you know, the, the lead singer passed away, and the new female, uh, artist came, came along. And I think they released a couple of songs, and I was really, really impressed with the songs and, and the way she, uh, really, really enjoyed that one.</p>
<p>I think that, that maybe&#8217;s&#8230; That&#8217;s the fir- well, first thing that popped into my head, actually. Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Nice. Right on. Had, do you ever see him in concert?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> No, no, no. No, I haven&#8217;t. <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> But I&#8217;ve, I used to listen to them, so I mean, I still actually listen to their music to this day. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, for some reason very comforting</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right on. Well, awesome. Thank you so much for rocking out with me today. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Benas Leonavicius:</strong> Yeah. Thank you. Thank you, Tim, for having me</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. And to the listeners, make sure you go, you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information, and we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar podcast</p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the <em>Work at Home Rockstar Podcast</em>, Tim Melanson chats with <strong>Rachel Allen</strong>, marketing strategist and copywriter at <a href="https://www.boltfromthebluecopywriting.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Bolt From The Blue Copywriting</a>, about building a relationship-driven marketing business from the ground up. Rachel takes us back to 2008, when she landed in Hong Kong with about $200 in her bank account, no work visa, and a journalism degree that wasn&#8217;t landing her a job back home — and how a Google search for &#8220;how to make money online&#8221; led her to copywriting and never let go.</p>
<p>The conversation goes beyond the success story, into a rough stretch where Rachel went three years without filing taxes across two countries, and the financial habits, mastermind support, and mindset shifts that helped her rebuild. They also dig into her portable home-office setup, her newer book-outlining offer, and her grounded take on AI and writing.</p>
<h2>Who is Rachel Allen?</h2>
<p><strong>Rachel Allen</strong> is a fast-thinking, deeply nerdy marketer with broad-ranging experience in for-profit and non-profit sectors. She&#8217;s written for some of the biggest (and smallest) names in business, and excels at marketing that&#8217;s equal parts data-driven and human-centered. Having run <a href="https://www.boltfromthebluecopywriting.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Bolt From The Blue Copywriting</a> for 17 years with clients in over 21 countries, Rachel&#8217;s worked with some of the top names in entrepreneurship, as well as influencers, brick-and-mortar businesses, and non-profits around the world.</p>
<p>On the show, Rachel shared how she&#8217;s grown her business into multiple offerings — copywriting, book editing, a book-outlining coaching program, and a branding collaboration with a fellow specialist — all rooted in her belief that &#8220;if it&#8217;s words that make money, I do it.&#8221;</p></div>
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<p>Rachel&#8217;s honesty about avoiding her business finances out of shame — believing that because she struggled with math, she couldn&#8217;t be trusted with money — is a mindset a lot of entrepreneurs will recognize in themselves. Her fix wasn&#8217;t becoming an accounting expert, just facing the numbers enough to protect herself, which is a far more approachable bar for anyone intimidated by the financial side of running a business.</p>
<p>Her approach to a portable home office is a simple, practical lesson in productivity: a talisman, a scent, or a view can act as a cue that tells your brain it&#8217;s time to work, no matter where you&#8217;re physically located. It&#8217;s a low-cost way to build consistency into a schedule that doesn&#8217;t have a fixed office to anchor it.</p>
<p>Rachel&#8217;s perspective on masterminds and coaching reinforces a theme that keeps coming up on this show — growth speeds up when you stop trying to solve everything alone and put yourself around people who are further along, just starting out, or simply willing to help.</p>
<p>Her take on AI is a grounded middle ground worth remembering: use it as a thought partner to get unstuck, but don&#8217;t hand it the final say, and don&#8217;t let it replace the value of a real person doing the work.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro<br />00:30 Hong Kong Copywriting Origin<br />01:57 Tax Trouble Lessons<br />04:16 Money Mindset and Systems<br />11:46 Nomad Home Office Hacks<br />15:17 Coaches and Masterminds<br />18:31 Charging What You&#8217;re Worth<br />20:08 Book Outlining Offer<br />23:04 AI and Writing Debate<br />27:19 How to Work With Rachel<br />28:02 Favorite Band and Wrap Up</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rockstar Podcast. Very excited for this episode. We&#8217;re talking to a marketing strategist from Bolt From The Blue Copywriting, and what she does is she helps, she helps to create marketing strategies and write copy and content that helps people build relationships with their clients and audience so they can share ideas that matter and make more money.</p>
<p>That sounds pretty cool to me. So we are rocking out today with Rachel Allen. Hey, Rachel, you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> I am ready </p>
<p>at literally at all times</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. Well, let&#8217;s rock out then. We always start off here on a good note. Tell me a story of success that we </p>
<p>can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Hmm. You know, I, uh, I had a couple, but I think the one I&#8217;m gonna go with is actually how I started my business and how I became a work-from-home rockstar. I&#8217;ve never actually had another job, uh, as an adult. So I graduated from college with a journalism degree, and, uh, but the problem was I graduated into the &#8217;08 recession, and of course, nobody was hiring anybody, and especially not people from rural Tennessee.</p>
<p>So, um, in my 22-year-old brain, I was like, &quot;Well, what&#8217;s the furthest away I can get <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> from Tennessee?&quot; And turns out it&#8217;s Hong Kong. So I bought a plane ticket, and I left. But I didn&#8217;t get a work visa or, like, do anything to prepare for it, and so I landed in Hong Kong with, like, 200 bucks in my bank account, and I had to make rent.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m googling, like, how to make money online, which is only marginally less ridiculous then than it is now. And I found this, uh, job called copywriting, and I was like, &quot;Well, I don&#8217;t know what that is, but I can do writing.&quot; Um, and I took it, and they paid me, and I was absolutely hooked, and that&#8217;s what I built my business off of.</p>
<p>Yeah. Yeah. Thanks. Uh, it&#8217;s awesome in retrospect, mostly terrifying during</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I bet. Uh, I&#8217;m, and I imagine </p>
<p>there&#8217;s probably a language barrier and all that stuff. Do you speak the language or anything, or? You probably</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> minor, I mean, my minor was in Mandarin, but they speak Cantonese there primarily, and so I, I know just enough to get in trouble. You know, I can order at a restaurant, go to the bathroom, that kind of thing</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay. So wow, that, that sounds amazing. Now, along with the good note though, sometimes things <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> don&#8217;t go as planned. And so I&#8217;m wondering, uh, we do like to talk about that on this show because it, it is what keeps people out of the game in the first place, is just afraid to fail. And, uh, I&#8217;m wondering, can you share with me something that didn&#8217;t go as planned and how you recovered and how we can recover?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah. Well, uh, my bad note&#8217;s kind of tied to my good note, actually. So I spent a couple years in Hong Kong and then ended up living nomadically for the next 10 years, and I moved about every six months. I didn&#8217;t really know what I was doing with the business, though, so, um, I got into this situation where I hadn&#8217;t paid taxes in three years in two separate countries, and I just kind of ignored it and, like, really hoped it would go away.</p>
<p>And I think as we all know, that doesn&#8217;t happen. So I eventually came to this point where I had to, like, work up my courage and call an accountant and be like, &quot;I&#8217;ve done something very, very bad.&quot; And they had to assemble this international team of accountants to get me filed appropriately in each country.</p>
<p>But that led to me having to hand categorize every expense I&#8217;d had for the past three years. And if you ever wanna really <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> rethink your decision-making paradigm, that is a good way to do it.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Wow.</p>
<p>Yeah. Well, something similar happened to me too. I got, I got in trouble with taxes. Only one country though, so it was much easier. But the, the really good thing that came out of that is the same thing as you just said, I got into a really good accounting procedures of, like, accounting for everything, &#8217;cause they need to know all that stuff, right?</p>
<p>And, and, uh, especially for, like, uh, business categories and making sure that everything&#8217;s in the right spot, but it worked for my personal as well. So the good silver lining, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, exactly. I mean, I still do this every single week now. I hand categorize my expenses just kind of out of habit. I have a bookkeeper and an accountant, but I&#8217;m like, I just wanna keep my finger kind of on the pulse of what I&#8217;m doing, and I think that that&#8217;s really saved me from a lot of the, like, little bad decisions you can get into in business.</p>
<p>Like, you know, the subscriptions you don&#8217;t realize you&#8217;re still paying for, or like, oh, I haven&#8217;t used that email service in a year. Why is that still there, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, and the, I mean, this lends really <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> well to the hat, to keeping the hat full, uh, which we talk, talk about all the time about the cashflow. &#8216;Cause I, I mean, there&#8217;s a lot of people that just really do avoid the, you know, the day to day, and they don&#8217;t check these things. And I mean, you kind of fell into that category as well.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m wondering, uh, actually, just to take a step back, why do you think people avoid it so much?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Hmm. You know, I think in my case it was shame. It was a lot of shame. Um, I had never thought that I was ever gonna run a business because, um, I&#8217;m actually dyscalculic, which is ma- math dyslexia. I don&#8217;t&#8230; I&#8217;m not good with numbers. They, like, switch on me. And so I had this idea that because I&#8217;m bad at math, I can&#8217;t be good with money, which, you know, it&#8217;s silly, but we make those weird connections in our brains.</p>
<p>And so I was like, &quot;Oh, well, I can&#8217;t. I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m gonna break it if I touch it, so I&#8217;m just gonna kind of like hope that everything works out.&quot; And I eventually had to go through this mindset shift of like, well, this is a part of my business. I need to treat it just like any other element of it, and realize that, like, I&#8217;m not gonna, I don&#8217;t <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> know, accidentally burn my house down if I do the spreadsheet wrong.</p>
<p>So I had to get over that shame, and I think that&#8217;s where a lot of people come from too. They just, they don&#8217;t know what you don&#8217;t know, and I think it can be intimidating to approach an expert, um, in that area</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I think there&#8217;s, I think there&#8217;s shame. I think there&#8217;s also that programming even, right? That math is hard, right? Uh, uh, &#8217;cause you do see that quite a bit, right? Where it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s sort of like normalized and it&#8217;s like cool to be, you know, not good at math. I don&#8217;t know. You know, the cool people are not good at math and the nerds or the geeks are good at math.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s just like, so you sort of have this programming in there as well that might be playing a part. I don&#8217;t know if it does or not, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Oh, definitely. And as you say that, I think another part of it that trips a lot of people up, or it certainly did me, was I tried to follow other people&#8217;s systems for keeping on top of my finances, and I was like, &quot;Oh, no, I need to break this down, like, to a really basic checklist for me,&quot; because my nervous system is already so weird about it.</p>
<p>I need to figure out a way that works for me so I&#8217;m not trying to go in and, like, use a software that doesn&#8217;t <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> make sense to me or do a whole bunch of calculations by hand because, you know, that&#8217;s never gonna work out well. So I had to find my own way to do it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> And I think that, um, I, I mean, I, I would say probably the worst thing, of course, is to do nothing like, but</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, don&#8217;t do that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> but then the next worst thing, which is also could be better, could be good, is to find someone to help you with it or to find someone to do it for you.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> that, I mean, there&#8217;s a lot of horror stories of people taking a- being taken advantage of by people that are handling the money for them type thing, right?</p>
<p>And I mean, sure, i- if, you know, if it&#8217;s someone that you can trust or if it&#8217;s your spouse, hopefully you can trust your spouse. Yeah, I know. But I mean, it, it&#8217;s not that bad when you really, like, sit down with it. I, I think, like you say, most of the issues that we have with that are programming issues, shame issues.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re, they&#8217;re things that are kind of like making us <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> avoid it. But when you really do look at it, I mean, it, it, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s really just kind of&#8230; It&#8217;s as simple as you try to make it be, I think, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, totally. And I mean, one thing that was a big change for me was I actually ended up working with a financial behaviorist as well as an accountant, and her whole deal is like, yeah, money is, of course it&#8217;s emotional because our decision-making is emotional. And so it&#8217;s going in and, like, kind of unpicking that programming and seeing whether you still wanna make decisions from that basis or not</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah. A- and, and I think, you know what? There might be a portion of it that is sort of like self-sabotaging as well, thinking that, &quot;Well, if I don&#8217;t look at how little money I have,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> maybe then it will justify me making this terrible purchase idea that I&#8217;m about to make.&quot; Right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Exactly. Totally.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Because I mean, if you really knew what the numbers were, you probably wouldn&#8217;t be buying that right now, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Oh, absolutely. And I think with entrepreneurs, we&#8217;re all, I think, prone to <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> shiny, shiny object syndrome, and it&#8217;s like, &quot;Well, but if I buy that one more thing, then it&#8217;s gonna make me money, so really I&#8217;m saving money.&quot; And I&#8217;m like, &quot;Maybe, or you&#8217;re just fooling yourself.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Oh yeah, well, and we get that in the consumer world too. &quot;Well, it&#8217;s on sale, it means</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Right, right.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> you know, I&#8217;m making money by buying this&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, yeah, totally.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right? So I, I, I do th- I mean, I, I think this is a, a massive topic that I think&#8230; I think what you just said about getting a, what is, was it a financial behavior specialist?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> th- that&#8217;s probably a good place to start rather than going directly towards an accountant, because maybe there&#8217;s some blocks there that would just&#8230; Uh, I mean, ac- accountants and b- and bookkeepers, I mean, I don&#8217;t think they&#8217;re super expensive, but they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re also not free. So, you know, maybe putting a little bit of money into why it is that you&#8217;re avoiding the numbers, because I&#8217;m not saying that every entrepreneur needs to be on top of the numbers as much as you and I are, of course.</p>
<p>But I think it, <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> I, I think every entrepreneur has to have at least a basic understanding of where their money is going. Uh, like, y- you know, if you think it, about it, uh, even a CEO in a massive company, I mean, they get reports on this kind of stuff. Like, it, it, of course it&#8217;s not their job. They&#8217;ve got a s- you know, a technical officer that&#8217;s handling&#8230;</p>
<p>Or sorry, a financial officer that&#8217;s handling that ty- type of stuff, but they get the reports. They have a basic understanding of where their money&#8217;s going. So you should too, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Like anything else in your business, and I mean anything I do, whether it&#8217;s, uh, what- whatever I&#8217;m outsourcing, I wanna know that I can at least do it kinda sorta a little bit myself, even though I&#8217;m not going to do it forever &#8217;cause someone else is better at it. I need to know, though, um, enough to where I can know if they&#8217;re screwing it up</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yes, there you go. And that&#8217;s probably a, a- that, well, that&#8217;s a really good, uh, example of every part of your business. And I think that that&#8217;s why, like, like when you get started as a, as a solopreneur, like you are wearing all those hats, and I think that&#8217;s a good place to start for most people is you, you, you start small, you know, y- <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> you know, your business is small, so your problems are small, right?</p>
<p>And, and so you can get a basic handle of how all your pl- your things work. And then the things that aren&#8217;t your gift zone, sure, you can start to delegate those things. But at least you know, like you say, I, I know if I&#8217;m hiring somebody who knows what they&#8217;re doing or not, because I know enough to know that part, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. And then that way, I mean, something I&#8217;ve done before was I would really second-guess myself of like, &quot;Well, they&#8217;re the expert. I mean, it doesn&#8217;t seem right, but it must be, uh-uh.&quot; And like that doesn&#8217;t work out either. So much like with, I think, finding therapists or any other service provider, you might go through a couple of accountants before you find the one who really gets you and who&#8217;s right for you.</p>
<p>And knowing enough to know what&#8217;s going on helps shore up that intuition where you&#8217;re like, &quot;I don&#8217;t know, seems like a bad fit</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and I mean, if they can&#8217;t explain it to you like what you just said, uh, they c- i- it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s likely that they don&#8217;t know what they&#8217;re doing either &#8217;cause anybody who really knows their topic should be able <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> to explain something to somebody else like they&#8217;re an eighth</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, yeah,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> or whatever it is, right?</p>
<p>So I mean, just because you might not be as much of an expert as they are, they should be able to explain to you, &quot;Oh, no, no, I do it this way because of this.&quot; And then, like you say, follow your gut. Y- y- you could probably get a good gut feeling of whether they&#8217;re doing it that way because they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re skimming stuff off or because it actually is a really good i- uh, idea and strategy, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm. And a lot of times even just the willingness. Like, I- that&#8217;s something I ask when I&#8217;m interviewing any service provider. I&#8217;m like, &quot;How okay are you with answering my questions?&quot; Like, I wanna be able to come to you and just say like, &quot;Look, I, I&#8217;m not questioning you, but I need to understand why.&quot;</p>
<p>And if they&#8217;re like, &quot;Oh, well, you need to trust my process,&quot; I&#8217;m like, &quot;Okay, that&#8217;s fine. I do, and also, like, could we chat about it?&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah. So now when it comes to, like you mentioned that you were kind of moving around a lot,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> does that work for setting up your home office?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Ugh. I had to learn, uh, really quickly how to make that work for me, because I was in this&#8230; <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> You know, I was moving every six months. I was in different countries, different Airbnbs. This was, like, mid-aughts-ish, and so the internet wasn&#8217;t as common, and, as it is now, you know? Um, so what I learned really quickly was what works for me is I need a place with a flat surface and a comfortable chair that is very quiet or that I can make quiet.</p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t doing as many calls back then, so it didn&#8217;t really matter if it was, like, you know, elevated the way I have this set up now. But, um, I did so much working on my laptop on my actual lap. Or, like, um, I was living in Greece for a while, and people are like, &quot;Work on the beach.&quot; It&#8217;s a horrible idea. Don&#8217;t buy it.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t ever do it. It&#8217;s the worst thing you&#8217;ll ever do. So I&#8217;ve experimented with all these things, and I had to find that. And then the one thing, um, that I would recommend everybody do, especially if they&#8217;re moving around to a bunch of places, you need something that tells your brain, &quot;Hey, this is the work spot.&quot;</p>
<p>And so I actually have, um, a little cat figurine. It&#8217;s right </p>
<p>up there behind me if anybody&#8217;s watching this on video. </p>
<p>And that tiny little <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> cat, I call it my home cat, &#8217;cause I bought it when I was in Hong Kong, and I was like, &quot;Well, I&#8217;m moving, but ev- wherever the home cat is, that&#8217;s where home is.&quot; And so when I set that up, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Okay, this is, this is home.</p>
<p>This is office space. This is where I do stuff.&quot; So if you can find little talismans that just tell your brain, &quot;This is where we do the thing,&quot; then it helps so much, I think, with procrastination and brain fog, &#8217;cause your brain&#8217;s like, &quot;Well, this is where we do the thing</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s brilliant. That&#8217;s brilliant. I remember when I was, uh, uh, when I was starting to work from home, my, uh, my son was very young at the time, and I ge- had this idea of putting on a work hat of like,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah. Yeah,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> that they don&#8217;t bug you when you&#8217;re wearing your work hat. Like, and it kind of like a similar thing, &#8217;cause it probably did work as some sort of like, like you say, talisman or some sort of like cue to your brain that, okay, well I&#8217;m working right now.</p>
<p>So it probably helped with productivity</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. And another thing that people, uh, don&#8217;t think about is smells. So I have, um, like a scented candle that I light every morning when I go to work, and smells are such a powerful cue to your brain. So anything that you like, whether it&#8217;s like, hey, this is the c- <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> the coffee I only have at my desk, or this is the tea I drink here, this is the perfume I wear here, or whatever, that can be a super powerful cue</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow, that&#8217;s awesome. So smells and things that you&#8217;re looking at. Now, what, what about, like, inspiration in your&#8230; Do you have any of that?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, so actually as I look behind you right here, um, my house is literally like built up into the side of a mountain, so all it is is just green all the way up. Um, and there&#8217;s little like squirrels and chipmunks and stuff run around, but I can watch the leaves move, and I found that I just need a space where I can let my eyes like go into the middle distance.</p>
<p>Um, otherwise I get really distracted and I find myself like opening the same tabs over and over and over again even though like nothing is happening on LinkedIn, I don&#8217;t need to be there, but I&#8217;m like, &quot;Hmm, let me just check.&quot; And I just need to have something to where I can kind of like gaze as I&#8217;m thinking</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s a really good idea, and I think that that probably aligns with a lot of people as well. You- if you don&#8217;t have anything to look at that distracts you, like on purpose, then you&#8217;re gonna get distracted by something not on purpose, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Totally. <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> And for me, I think nature is such an important part of that. I&#8217;ve worked in cities as well, and I&#8217;ve had like, um, places where I would overlook like city si- skylines, and that works too. But something about having a tree moving outside my office just really helps my brain work</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, it&#8217;s nature. I mean, that&#8217;s what our, that&#8217;s what we are, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Right</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. So now, how did you learn all this stuff? Like, where do you get all this? Is it, uh, do you hire coaches? Like, how does this all work for you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> So, uh, in the beginning I was in this, like, really strong state of denial that I was actually running a business, so I was like, &quot;Don&#8217;t teach me anything about business. I&#8217;m not doing such a thing.&quot; But after I finally made that decision to really commit to it, uh, I did start working with coaches. So I&#8217;ve worked with several coaches over the years.</p>
<p>Um, I&#8217;ve also found masterminds to be a really integral part of my growth because I read, I don&#8217;t even remember where, but I read something early on of, like, make friends with people and then 20 years down the road, you know, that&#8217;s how you know all the cool people in the, like, ridiculous positions that no one ever knows how to connect with.</p>
<p>And so that&#8217;s been a huge part of my business, is just I like making friends <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> with people. It&#8217;s why I do podcast guesting. It&#8217;s why I love being in small groups and masterminds and, like, going to retreats and stuff. Because that&#8217;s how now, 18 years down the road, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Oh, of course I know the CEO of blah, blah, blah.</p>
<p>I was there with her when she started the business,&quot; you know? And so it&#8217;s just, like, not reverse engineering or, like, having these transactional relationships, but just finding people that you think are cool and putting yourself in a room where you are not the smartest human and just being like, &quot;Okay, just talk at me.</p>
<p>Like, just say stuff.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Oh, that&#8217;s awesome. Uh, I, I agree with that because I, like, I have hi- hired coaches as well. However, I think I&#8217;ve gotten the most out of&#8230; Like, and for me, I don&#8217;t, um, I have been parts of, part of masterminds, but this podcast really is my mastermind. I get to meet people that are way ahead of me on their journey, and I get to people, to meet people that are just getting started on their journey, and I like that.</p>
<p>I like being able to talk to both, right? I like to be able to kinda, like, aspire to something, and I also like to be able to help somebody. And I think that the <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> masterminds are, are kind of, like, built for that, right? Like, other than running your own podcast or getting on podcast guests, if you&#8217;re part of a mastermind, you just get that.</p>
<p>And having peers that you are on the same level as with as well that don&#8217;t have anything to gain from, like, they&#8217;re not competing with you. You know what I mean?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> And they&#8217;re not making money from you, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Exactly, like with that spirit of generosity. Like I had, um, a period, oh gosh, several years ago now, where I was really struggling with something, and I came to the mastermind, and I actually started crying, which I don&#8217;t normally do. But I was so touched because everyone in it just went like, zhoop, like this like pit crew around me, and they&#8217;re like, &quot;All right.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;m gonna fix for you. Here&#8217;s who I&#8217;m gonna introduce you to. Here&#8217;s what happens next. Here&#8217;s how we&#8217;re gonna build your confidence.&quot; And just having that network of people to be like, &quot;Hey, I don&#8217;t care how you show up. I really like you, and I believe in you even when you don&#8217;t believe in yourself,&quot; it&#8217;s so powerful</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, and, and I, I do think that this community, like the self-employed community, is a, is a community. We all kind of have&#8230; I mean, I, I don&#8217;t know how many- I&#8217;ve done <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> so many episodes of this, and everybody is helpful for each other, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> totally. That&#8217;s what I love about it because, like, people will ask me a lot of times, like, &quot;What&#8217;s it like being an entrepreneur?&quot; And I&#8217;m like, &quot;Well, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s problem-solving, right?&quot; That&#8217;s the entire job. Entrepreneurship is where basically nothing is your fault, but almost everything is your problem. And so I think that&#8217;s why everyone is so helpful, &#8217;cause we&#8217;re like, I, you know, I know I would not be able to solve all the problems by myself, but maybe I can solve yours, and then maybe later you&#8217;ll solve mine, or you know somebody who solves mine or whatever.</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s a real generosity of spirit that I&#8217;ve found</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah. Well, I mean, I know one thing is that w- probably the most common mistake or, or, or, or issue that people have is undercharging. Like, so come on, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> I&#8217;ve got a magnet somewhere up there, oh, in the corner, yeah, over right there, that says, &quot;Charge more,&quot; and it&#8217;s actually from the person who leads the mastermind that I&#8217;m in. And so that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s not always the right answer, but it&#8217;s often the right answer, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> It is often the right answer, yeah. And, uh, but I think that&#8217;s because of <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> what you just said. We like solving problems, right? It&#8217;s, you know, if we, if we take the, the music as the example, I know that most musicians would play for free, right? And, and that&#8217;s the reason why so many people, uh, w- that&#8217;s why the, the prices have not gone up.</p>
<p>Like, you know, musicians today in my city make actually less than they did in the &#8217;80s. Like, it, it&#8217;s insane. But it&#8217;s just because we love it. So, you know, we&#8217;re just like, &quot;You know what? I just wanted to&#8230; Like, any opportunity to play and I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m there.&quot; And I think the same thing happens in a lot of businesses.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s your baby. It&#8217;s what you love to do. So someone says, &quot;Well, can you do it for this?&quot; And you&#8217;re just like, &quot;Oh, sure.&quot; Of course, that doesn&#8217;t work long-term</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> It really doesn&#8217;t. I get it though. I mean, like, I was absolutely boggled that anybody would pay me to do something that I do compulsively. Like, I cannot go a day without writing. It&#8217;s going to happen whether I want to or not. And so I had to really have a lot of shifts around that <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> and think like, &quot;Okay, well what&#8217;s the value I&#8217;m actually providing here versus, I don&#8217;t know, like just give me five bucks or whatever,&quot; you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, let&#8217;s, let&#8217;s hear a little bit more about that. It&#8217;s time for your guest solo. So what is e- exciting in your business then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Oh, so, I mean, there&#8217;s so many things. But what I&#8217;m really excited about is, um, I know that words make worlds. Words are the technology through which ideas and influence spread, and that&#8217;s what marketing&#8217;s all about. It&#8217;s just using words in a way that makes it easy for somebody to say yes to something.</p>
<p>So, um, I do that in a whole bunch of ways, but the thing I&#8217;m really excited about right now is I&#8217;m actually been doing some book outlining. And, um, it might sound a little off the beaten path, but it&#8217;s all the same thing, right? Like a book is still the, the process of making it easy for someone to buy your idea, to buy something in your business, whatever.</p>
<p>And, um, kind of harking back to our mastermind thing, the reason I got started on it was I kinda like &#8230; I&#8217;ve been doing it for a while, I&#8217;ve been helping clients out, being the editor on 19 books now, and I &#8230; It&#8217;s just fun. I didn&#8217;t even think about like really making it into a part of my business until my mastermind was like, &quot;Hey, yo, people <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> don&#8217;t do it like you do it.</p>
<p>No one helps people like you help people. You need to make this an offer.&quot; So that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve been doing.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Well, that&#8217;s awesome. So then how does it work then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, so, um, I meet with people for four calls, and they just show up. They have, like, the idea for their book, and, like, maybe some notes, but they&#8217;ve just never been able to kind of get it out of their brains, and so they just sort of talk at me, and then I pull all the puzzle pieces together and put it into an outline that breaks it down, like, almost kind of like a paint by numbers of your own book.</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s in, like, 500-word chunks, and so I&#8217;ll be like, &quot;Okay, in chapter one you need to start out by telling me this story. Re- remember you said points A, B, and C. Now I want you to transition and tell me about this. Spend 100 words saying this, then 200 blah, blah, blah.&quot; And so I really walk you through, like, step by step by step, and it makes it very easy to drop into the outline wherever you want so you don&#8217;t have to do it, like, linearly, and you can still know that everybody&#8217;s, everything is gonna be in the right order and, like, you&#8217;re not gonna, like, drop something out</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm. So I, and I would guess that this kind of outline, this, this is probably the <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> block of most people, right? Why, why they&#8217;re not writing the book that they think they want to write, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm. &#8216;Cause you, like, you go down, like, the endless, like, research hole, or you get stuck on, like, well, does this story belong in chapter five or chapter 25? So, like, it&#8217;s all the thinking work that goes into doing a book, and if you front-load it, I mean, everybody I&#8217;ve done this with has finished their book in three months after the outline&#8217;s done, &#8217;cause, like, all you gotta do is write.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to think</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, yeah, thinking&#8217;s bad, right? Just kidding. No, well, and, and I mean, a lot of the</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> It&#8217;s hard. Takes time.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> times, yeah, you&#8217;re just unblocking yourself and allowing that, that to come out, right? &#8216;Cause I- that&#8217;s the thing is that you know your story. It&#8217;s just, it&#8217;s kinda difficult to put it together sometimes or to separate it, actually make it into smaller chunks,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> And it&#8217;s hard to get perspective. Like, you need somebody on the outside. I, I do as well, right? When I write my own books. You have to have somebody on the outside who&#8217;s like, &quot;Okay, here&#8217;s the through line. Here&#8217;s where that goes.&quot; Because when you&#8217;re so close to it, you can&#8217;t see it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, exactly. And how do, so how do people find out about this then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Uh, they can find it out on my website at <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> boltfromthebluecopywriting.com or, um, just connect with me on LinkedIn or Instagram. I&#8217;m happy to chat about it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. One more question now before we get into the, uh, the &#8230; And I&#8217;m not sure if you&#8217;re gonna be, what you&#8217;re gonna say about this, but what do you think about AI now with writing?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> People ask me about this a lot. Um, I don&#8217;t have any, like, moral objection to it. Um, I know a lot of people get very upset at the idea of people using it, and I&#8217;m like, &quot;Look, it&#8217;s your life. You do what you want with it.&quot; What I will say is I don&#8217;t use it in my own marketing, um, and I don&#8217;t use it for my clients because I have yet to find something that can do it, you know, as, as well or as fast as me, and there&#8217;s intellectual property risks because that&#8230;</p>
<p>You know, it&#8217;s changing, but right now the way the rulings are is if you create something using AI, you cannot own the intellectual property to it. So, like, I&#8217;m never gonna, like, give somebody a course that they can&#8217;t own. So that&#8217;s why I recommend that you avoid it in your creative endeavors</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I think that&#8217;s, uh&#8230; And, and that actually does make sense &#8217;cause you didn&#8217;t actually create it. You ha- <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> used AI. Now, I imagine that there might be some probably gray area. I mean, if you&#8217;ve mostly given the AI the information, and it just sort of, like, fine-tuned it for you, well then maybe that&#8217;s an editor?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know. But,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah. It&#8217;s still like, I don&#8217;t know, there&#8217;s stuff working their way through the courts, but the way that I recommend people to use it is, like, I think it&#8217;s a great thought partner. I think it can be good for getting you over that, like, blank page thing. Um, it&#8217;s good for starting you off on research, though of course you need to check it.</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s basically, it&#8217;s like having an intern. And what I mean by that, like, it&#8217;s an intern on their first day where they&#8217;re like, &quot;Here&#8217;s this thing. It&#8217;s the most amazing thing ever.&quot; And you&#8217;re like, &quot;Absolutely not. Remove this from my site. Do it again.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yes, that&#8217;s a really good analogy. And, uh, it&#8217;s like having a whole lot of those interns that w- can work really fast, and that&#8217;s, that is great because, um, I know I&#8217;ve, I use it quite a bit, and it is fantastic at helping you to talk through <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> ideas and all these other things that you&#8217;d be just wasting someone&#8217;s time with.</p>
<p>But you can talk to the AI and kind of like flesh out your own stuff. But as for getting it to do stuff for you and, and write your, your book for you, or even your, uh&#8230; I mean, you really have to train it pretty fine tunely, and you might as well just do it yourself,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Exactly. And like, I don&#8217;t know, the thing I tell people, or I guess the, the pitfall I see people falling into with it is they lose their confidence and they think that it knows better than them, and I&#8217;m like, &quot;Absolutely not. It&#8217;s just a tool.&quot; Like, your instinct is right. Whatever it is, you do know better.</p>
<p>And like run it by a person, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, yeah. Now, uh, the, I, I think the good news, like, so right now I think we&#8217;re in a bit of a tr- transitionary period where it&#8217;s kinda like coming out like full strength right now and everybody&#8217;s using it for everything, and that&#8217;s great. But, um, it kind of gives you everybody the same stuff. So everybody&#8217;s content is starting to look kinda the same.</p>
<p>And so if you&#8217;re the <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> one who&#8217;s actually writing it yourself or you&#8217;re hiring someone like Rachel Dawson to write it, then your content is gonna start to stick out a little bit more, because now it&#8217;s gonna feel more real. I, I, I don&#8217;t know if that&#8217;s the right word.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm. Definitely.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> So, so I do think that there&#8217;s a, like some silver lining.</p>
<p>I know that people are a little bit worried about it. Um, but I think that we&#8217;re kind of like just in that transitionary period where people are using it, and maybe it&#8217;s taking some jobs away from certain people at this particular moment, but that&#8217;s gonna flip right back, &#8217;cause people do want that real person to work with, and they, and they know that it&#8217;s gonna sound better.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Oh, absolutely. And I mean, something I&#8217;ve been thinking a lot about lately, there&#8217;s a quote from Brian Eno, bringing it back to music, and he was talking about how as soon as we learned how to make, um, like non-lossy sound on CDs and like other higher, um, type, uh, music, everybody wanted the pops and crackles from the records, right?</p>
<p>And so as soon as you learn how to get rid of it, it becomes a premium. It becomes something that people will pay extra for, and that&#8217;s <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> what we&#8217;re seeing right now. Anything that&#8217;s like a higher ticket offer that&#8217;s selling, it&#8217;s got a human on it. It has someone being visibly inconvenienced to sell it to you, and it&#8217;s that exact same thing.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s the pops on the records that people want</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Ah, that&#8217;s an excellent analogy. I am stealing that one. That&#8217;s a good one.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> I&#8217;ll send you the quote.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Perfect. Awesome. So then let&#8217;s go back to how we find, how we find you and, and what that process is on, on how to get started with work with&#8230; And not even just for the book. Like, you&#8217;ve g- got another business, right? Or other</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> I do, yeah. I, I got a couple buckets actually. Um, I mean, I write books on my own, I help people write books. I do a sort of, uh, super group offer with a bra- a branding specialist, um, where we build legacy businesses for people and we do the branding there. Um, and then I write everything at Bolt. So basically, if it&#8217;s words that make money, I do it.</p>
<p>Um, the easiest way is just to check me out at boltfromthebluecopywriting.com, connect with me on LinkedIn or Instagram, or you can just email me like it&#8217;s the ancient times, and I will email you back with my very own fingers.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Can actually contact you <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> personally, that&#8217;s amazing. Awesome. So now before we go, one more question. This might be the hardest one. Let&#8217;s get into music a little bit. Who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Ooh. Okay. Gosh, there&#8217;s so many. Um, what I&#8217;m gonna go with is the Drive-By Truckers. Um, so they&#8217;re Southern rock, a little outlaw, um, and I&#8217;ve listened to them since forever when they were coming through the Orange Peel in Asheville where I grew up. And I, what I love about them is that they talk about really hard, kind of awful things in a way that makes you feel good about yourself and, like, about your role and your, your power to be with them.</p>
<p>So I love them. I think they&#8217;re great</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Wow, that&#8217;s awesome. Okay. Have you s- you&#8217;ve seen them in concert then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> I have. Yeah, I&#8217;ve seen them a couple times.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> And how was their show?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Amazing. It was incredible. I saw one of them, um, they were o- they, it was a psychobilly concert, so they had the Reverend Horton Heat open for them, and the dude&#8217;s like, the man&#8217;s bloodstream is 90% cocaine and, you know, <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> 10% caffeine. And so he&#8217;s, like, going to town on an electric guitar.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s standing up on the cello or standup bass while they&#8217;re playing it, and I was just like, &quot;This is rad.&quot; And then the Drive-By Truckers came out, and it was even better. It was so good.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, that&#8217;s awesome. Well, thank you so much, Rachel, for rocking out with me today. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Rachel Allen:</strong> Yeah, it&#8217;s been awesome. Thanks for having me</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. And to the listeners, make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information, and we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar podcast</p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the Work at Home RockStar Podcast, Tim Melanson chats with Robert Siciliano, owner of <a href="https://protectnowllc.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Protect Now LLC</a>, about building a long-term work-from-home solopreneur business and the security habits every remote entrepreneur needs to avoid scams, data breaches, and account takeovers.</p>
<p>Robert shares his biggest business mistake, hiring &#8220;experts&#8221; without fully understanding the work himself, and how AI is now helping people shorten that learning curve by researching and asking better questions before they hire. He also explains how criminals are using AI to scale phishing and fraud, and why the attack surface for remote workers has grown so much since COVID.</p>
<p>The conversation dives into the core protections every work-from-home business owner should have in place, including unique long, strong passwords, a password manager, and two-factor authentication, along with VPNs on public Wi-Fi. Robert walks through his strategic human firewall mindset, moving from trust by default to verifying everything, and touches on the next evolution of password security, passkeys.</p>
<h2>Who is Robert Siciliano?</h2>
<p>Recognized as the media&#8217;s go-to cybersecurity expert and creator of The Strategic Human Firewall™, Robert Siciliano is a private investigator, Certified Speaking Professional (CSP), and the CEO of <a href="https://protectnowllc.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Protect Now, LLC</a>. As one of the nation&#8217;s most trusted voices on cybercrime and identity theft, he has built an unparalleled media track record, appearing on over 500 television shows, contributing to over 1,000 radio programs, and being featured as an expert source in over 3,000 articles.</p>
<p>A fierce advocate for personal and professional security, Robert is the architect of the CSI Protection certification and a bestselling author who strips away technical jargon to deliver &#8220;straight talk&#8221; solutions. His expertise is regularly sought by every major network, including CNN, Fox News, MSNBC, and The Today Show, where he empowers viewers to protect their data, privacy, and wealth from modern threats. During the episode, Robert also shared that he has been a solopreneur since early 2001 and, in his own words, considers himself &#8220;unemployable&#8221; at this point, having built his business entirely around working on his own schedule.</p></div>
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<p>One of the most honest moments in this episode is Robert&#8217;s story about his biggest business mistake, spending thousands of dollars on experts he couldn&#8217;t properly evaluate because he didn&#8217;t understand the work himself. It&#8217;s a reminder that learning the basics of a task before outsourcing it can save real time and money down the road.</p>
<p>Robert also offers a fresh take on AI, not as something to fear, but as a tool that shortens the learning curve. From researching questions to ask before hiring someone, to using AI to soften the tone of an email, he shows how entrepreneurs can put AI to work in practical, everyday ways.</p>
<p>The conversation around security mindset is just as valuable as the tools themselves. Robert reframes security away from fear and paranoia, and toward control. His point that most people avoid basic protections because &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to live like that&#8221; is a powerful nudge to stop and ask why the excuse feels more comfortable than the action.</p>
<p>Finally, the idea of a password manager as a form of business and family continuity, not just convenience, is a perspective most entrepreneurs haven&#8217;t considered. It&#8217;s a simple shift that turns a security habit into a piece of long-term planning.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro<br />00:24 Solopreneur Success Story<br />01:37 Working From Home Discipline<br />03:17 Biggest Business Mistake<br />05:43 Using AI to Learn Faster<br />09:21 AI as Writing Coach<br />10:47 AI Powered Cybercrime Threat<br />13:03 Password Basics and 2FA<br />16:36 Trusting Password Managers<br />18:28 Security Mindset Not Fatalism<br />25:00 Password Managers for Continuity<br />27:18 More Tools VPN and WiFi Safety<br />29:30 Whats New in His Business<br />32:09 Passkeys Replace Passwords<br />34:39 How to Work With Robert<br />39:03 Strategic Human Firewall<br />40:48 Manufactured Urgency Scams<br />43:27 Rock Star Picks and Wrap Up</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rock Star podcast. We&#8217;re gonna be talking about something pretty important today. We&#8217;re gonna be talking about some security stuff. But before we do that, we are talking to the owner of Protect Now LLC, and what he does is he helps people to prevent data breaches, phishing, identity theft, all that kind of stuff.</p>
<p>Very excited to be talking today to Robert Siciliano. Hey, Robert, you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> I am. Thank you, Tim</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. We always start off on a good note, so tell me a story of success in your business that we can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Well, I have been, um, a solopreneur, uh, since probably, uh, early 2001. And here I am, uh, three kids later, uh, two mortgages, a, uh, work-at-home or I guess, um, full-time mom, wife. And, um, you know, I&#8217;ve managed to, uh, put one through college right now, and the other one&#8217;s on the way. <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> Private school for all these years.</p>
<p>Primarily, you know, uh, based on me working from home, and then getting on the road and doing my thing. Uh, it&#8217;s been a lifetime of, you know, for me, um, not necessarily knowing when the next paycheck&#8217;s gonna come in based on the nature of my business, and finding a cer- certain degree of security in insecurity.</p>
<p>You know? Not knowing where the next paycheck&#8217;s coming from. But I&#8217;ve managed to keep the lights on and, um, we&#8217;ve got a bit of a retirement account, and we should probably do good</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Great stuff. Yeah, you got me beat, 2001. I started in 2008 working from home, so you know, it&#8217;s been a long time, and things have changed quite a bit in that amount of time, right? I mean, now people kind of get a little bit about working from home and you know, that. But back then, it was odd, wasn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> You know, I, um, have always found a certain level of pleasure in working <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> from my house. Uh, being able to pick up the phone and make sales calls, and use the internet to manage communications and to create. Um, and I&#8217;ve been doing that, you know, since the di- the days of dial-up AOL, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> And, um, when I first started working from home full-time, it did feel kinda weird, you know, due to the fact that I&#8217;d been, like, working at a job eight to 10 hours a day for the previous 13 years.</p>
<p>And I kinda felt like, at the beginning, like I should be doing more, or I should have more of a routine, or I should be reporting somewhere. And I, I had to work on creating a certain level of internal discipline, and creating that structure and routine for myself early on. And then once I did, I fell right into it, and, um, you know, at this point I would consider myself unemployable.</p>
<p>Uh, I could never work for anybody at this point, you know? I could never be told what <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> to do, so to speak. That, um, you know, I, uh, I wake up to my body clock at this point, I go to bed at my body clock, and the only time I ever wake up to an alarm is if I got a flight the next morning</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Wow. Well, that&#8217;s awesome. Congratulations. That&#8217;s really, that&#8217;s really what this show is all about. But now, on that note, I mean, there are some things that don&#8217;t go as planned, and I&#8217;m sure in all those years there have been something that kind of caught you off guard. And I&#8217;m wondering, I&#8217;d like to talk about that bad note because it does kind of hold people back from getting started, and I&#8217;m wondering, what was the biggest mistake that you made on this journey?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Um, biggest mistake I&#8217;ve made. You know, when you do work from home, or at least from my perspective, for the nature of my business, we tend to, um, reach out to others that might have a bit more expertise than we do, and, um, on topics that we could learn to do it ourselves, but we reach out to others that, um, <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> seem to have more of a handle on it.</p>
<p>And, uh, and then we invest in them, and we invest in their expertise. And we soon find out, often too late, that, um, you know, like they&#8217;re not really as good at what they do as their marketing materials say that they are as good as, and that I probably could have saved myself two, three, four, five, $6,000 and not invested them, in them, and maybe learned what it is that I should be doing for myself, uh, to build my brand based on, you know, what I know about me and brand building, and then learn more.</p>
<p>So I think it&#8217;s like hiring experts to do work for us that when we don&#8217;t quite understand what that work is or should be. And I think that we really need to invest in ourselves and our own education on the various aspects of building a business before <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> we invest in others to do that for us</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I couldn&#8217;t agree more. Yeah, th- this topic has come up quite a few times and, you know, of course, you know, at some point there are things that you shouldn&#8217;t be doing in your business that you could have somebody that knows more than you do about it. Th- that makes sense, right? But on the other hand, I, I love your point because how do you know whether they&#8217;re doing a good job if you don&#8217;t even know what a good job looks like, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> We don&#8217;t</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> E- exactly, and so it ends up being one of those situations where you find out way too late after you spend way too much money and whether you&#8217;ve&#8230; whe- when you&#8217;ve lost all this time. So, you know, if you were to do it over again, then what&#8230; how would you have done that differently?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Well, I tell you, um, I&#8217;m 57, and, uh, to do it over, if, like, right now, like literally today, um, is probably the best time to do it over, so to speak, because we have AI. <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> And AI provides you all the answers to all the questions that you&#8217;ll ever need to ask, and it gives you that blueprint and that layout for pretty much anything and everything that you could ever possibly screw up.</p>
<p>And, and, and, like, just, like, increase that learning curve, like, instantly based on doing the right search, asking the right questions. Like, there&#8217;s never been a better time to make really good decisions from the beginning. I mean, it&#8217;s just phenomenal. Like, it&#8211; I&#8217;ve been saying for, you know, what is it? Uh, 25 years, I, I, I need two of me.</p>
<p>I need four of me. But I need two of me. Well, AI at this point is, like, three of me. You know? It&#8217;s not f- I&#8217;m not fully automated with AI as some people are, but I&#8217;m asking all the right questions, and it&#8217;s doing a lot of the research and the work for me to cut the learning curve. And, um, it&#8217;s just&#8230; You know, it truly is <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> a resource for us independents that, uh, we just didn&#8217;t have before, you know?</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s great</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> I agree with you. Yeah, I mean, uh, o- one of the things that good business people do well is research, right? Is, is finding out what questions to ask. And I mean, it&#8217;s just at the drop of a at the click of a finger that you can all of a sudden get all the questions that you&#8217;re supposed to ask. Not even necessarily the answers, but the questions that you&#8217;re supposed to ask to the person that you&#8217;re about to hire.</p>
<p>Uh, I mean, and I, I bought a, a car recently, and it, I mean, it, it was amazing just going in with, with all this data and, and the salesman going like, &quot;Oh, man.&quot; And, and you know, the, the, the chat questions, I mean, I even told them that I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve got this from chat. &quot;Here, I&#8217;ve got all the questions from chat. This is what he tells me, what it tells me to ask you.&quot;</p>
<p>And I asked the guy, and he&#8217;s like, &quot;Oh, okay, well, I guess I have to be honest right now because it&#8217;s gonna find these answers way faster than I can.&quot; Uh, but that would work really well with hiring any type <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> of subcontractor, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, w- w- this is a really good time to, to, to get out on your own, uh, due to the fact that, you know, all the technology at our fingertips is right there.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> I would say for most of us that, um, are functioning in an older technology environment, like when I say older technology, if you&#8217;re like on a laptop or a desktop that&#8217;s like four or five years old, you need to upgrade, because all the resources that we have in front of us right now of, are, are, are, are, are, are, uh, uh, RAM or data intensive, you know, processor intensive, and they require newer hardware to facilitate newer, uh, software</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, I agree. Yeah, I think, I think you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re right. I think there&#8217;s a lot of people that are scared of, of this new AI thing, right? And it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s unfortunate because you know, it&#8217;s not gonna go anywhere, I don&#8217;t think. I mean, it&#8217;s so useful for those of us who have embraced it that it&#8217;s just, it&#8217;s just not gonna <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> go anywhere.</p>
<p>So the people that are kinda going, &quot;Well, you know, I&#8217;m not gonna do that yet,&quot; they probably gonna get left behind. But then on the other side of that coin, it can&#8217;t do everything perfectly. And like you said, it&#8217;s not, you&#8217;re not completely automated. I&#8217;m not sure if you&#8217;d really want to be completely automated.</p>
<p>I mean, you wanna have some, uh, you know, part in that business, don&#8217;t you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Absolutely, yeah. But for those who are just starting off, you know, even the simple task of, of writing an email, and writing the actual email, and having the, the, the, the tool built into the email clean up your words, that in and of itself is actually a really great way to begin. And not that, like, every single email should be written, you know, from the, from, from the get-go by, um, the AI tool.</p>
<p>Again, like, you write the email and have the email clean you up. For me and my character and the way that I write, I&#8217;ve had, um, email remind <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> me that my tone is too aggressive,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> and that&#8217;s my nature.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> My nature is being aggressive. Um, not because, like in a mean way, but just like, you know, like a get to the point way.</p>
<p>And, um, email has kind of softened my delivery, which, uh, well, AI has softened my delivery. And for somebody like me, you know, it&#8217;s been, uh, a game changer for me</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> M- me too. I&#8217;m actually the same way in my emails. My emails can be a little bit direct. And, uh, I, I noticed pretty quickly when I started to put things into, uh, chat to rewrite it, and it would rewrite things back, and it, it kind of, like, gives you a little bit of self-awareness. I&#8217;m like, &quot;Oh, yeah, that does sound a lot, a lot better than what I just wrote,&quot; you know?</p>
<p>Yeah. Right on. So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about practicing, and I mean, this can go in so many different directions for practice. It could be personal practices, it could be business practices. Uh, but I, I think we could probably take it into the security aspect for you because, I <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> mean, w- we&#8230; many people are just going into this blind with, you know, all these scams and all these phishing and all this stuff going on right around us.</p>
<p>And I mean, bring up AI. I, I&#8217;m sure that these hackers are using AI to, to get around certain things. What can we do? What kind of practices can we put into place to protect us?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Yeah, so AI, um, is, you know, amazing, and criminals look at it that way too. And it&#8217;s allowing them to scale their businesses in, in ways in which, um, you know, have never really been possible. Uh, one criminal hacker could, you know, facilitate hundreds if not thousands of what we call neural puppets, and essentially, uh, use one tool to reach out to thousands of people at the same time and communicate with them, and to groom those people in such a way where the criminal is getting them to believe his or her ruse, you know?<span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> </p>
<p>And today, um, organized crime is engaged in cybercrime. You know, it&#8217;s looking like a multi-trillion dollar business by, you know, the early 2030s. Uh, it&#8217;s already eclipsed the, um, illicit drug trade at this point. And so if, if, if we as consumers aren&#8217;t doing the absolute basics, as we- if we as small businesses aren&#8217;t doing the absolute basics, then it&#8217;s just a matter of time until you&#8217;ve got egg in your face, or worse, your email is compromised, which ultimately n- means your bank account gets compromised or your crypto gets compromised.</p>
<p>So there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s some basic, basic things that we all should be doing right now that many of us don&#8217;t. And I know that many of us aren&#8217;t, because I get in front of live audiences for a living, whether it&#8217;s virtually like this or more mostly in person, and I ask a series of questions to kinda get, like, the pulse of those who I&#8217;m speaking to and <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> where they&#8217;re at in what they&#8217;re doing and what they&#8217;re not doing more than anything.</p>
<p>And so one of the questions I ask my audiences is, like, &quot;Okay, so show of hands, how many of you can honestly say that you are using a different passcode across all your critical accounts?&quot; And different means like you&#8217;re not using the same passcode twice. And different also means that, you know, you&#8217;re using long, strong passwords, like uppercase, lowercase, numbers and characters and so forth, and never using the same passcode twice.</p>
<p>When I ask that question, if I get 10, 15% of the room to raise their hand, &quot;Oh yeah, I&#8217;m using a different long, strong passcode across multiple accounts,&quot; 10 to 15% for a room is a lot, which means like 80 to 90% of the room is using the same passcode, easy to guess, easy to hack, easy to crack, across multiple accounts.</p>
<p>And that just sounds so rudimentary, but it&#8217;s a big deal <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> because it doesn&#8217;t take much research to determine that right now as many as 15 to as much as 20 billion passwords are on the dark web. Think about that for a second. Like over the past two decades, there&#8217;s about 300 billion of our records on the dark web.</p>
<p>300 billion. And 15 to 20 billion of those records are actual passwords. You, you could do a search on various tools that will expose, you know, multi-billions worth of, of credentials. Um, like I know like from one of these tools, you can see like 200 something million people are using one, two, three, four, five, six as a passcode still today, you know?</p>
<p>And so that&#8217;s problematic. And then on top of that, we&#8217;re, we&#8217;re, we&#8217;re talking access control right now. You know, less than 10% of consumers are using a password manager, and a password manager is the tool that you <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> would use to facilitate having a different long, strong passcode across multiple accounts.</p>
<p>So, you know, the numbers make sense that, you know, less than 10% of the public is using a password manager and 10-ish percent are changing up their passcodes and using long, strong. And then on top of that, I- the next question is like how many of you are using two-factor authentication for all your critical accounts, including email, you know?</p>
<p>And two-factor authentication, of course, is when like you enter your credentials, username and passcode, and then get a one-time text message. Sometimes you might get like a special code to an app, whatever the case is. If I get 15 to 20% of the room to raise their hand, it&#8217;s u- usually a little bit more &#8217;cause it&#8217;s required more often, 15 to 20% is a lot, which means 80-plus percent are not even using two-factor authentication.</p>
<p>It is 2020, you know, six-ish at this point, and when <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> we&#8217;re no further along today than many of us were 10, 15, 20 years ago, you know. Bad actors know this, and they&#8217;re using that against us</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Agreed. I, so I&#8217;ve been using a password manager for quite a while now, and it, it, it definitely is a, a game changer in, um, in being able to manage all these different passwords because as you said, I try to have a different password for every, for every account that I log into. And how do you, how are you supposed to manage all that stuff in your head or even on a piece of paper?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just, it&#8217;s not, it&#8217;s not ple- uh, feasible, right? So but then when I tell people about this, m- uh, the, you know, these password managers, the most common result that I get o- other than, &quot;Okay, let me use that,&quot; like, &#8217;cause some of them do, uh, is, &quot;Well, how do I trust that? How do I trust the password manager?&quot;</p>
<p>That, that&#8217;s a question for you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> So, okay, so there&#8217;s a couple things going on there, right? A, they don&#8217;t understand the <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> technology. B, um, they might have heard that, you know, in the past some password managers have been hacked. Sure. Uh, password managers are security companies, and like most security companies at some level have been hacked.</p>
<p>Most banks at some level have been hacked. Like Microsoft&#8217;s been hacked, Apple&#8217;s been hacked. Like, you know, Bank of America&#8217;s been hacked. Like- Most organizations have been hacked at some level. What does that mean? Does that mean that all systems down? No, not at all. It means that some level s- at some point in their network was penetrated, and generally they only got so far.</p>
<p>In some cases, like they&#8217;d shut the company down, but I&#8217;m not aware of any password manager or bank for that matter, that was infiltrated to such a degree where they were shut down for good. I&#8217;ve seen it happen to small businesses, but I&#8217;ve never seen it happen to a major institution or a password manager for that matter.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yep</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> I <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> think that like people just don&#8217;t understand what that hack means or what that looks like. And the majority of the time, if and when a password manager was compromised, you know, they got access to a certain part of the network, but not to the client&#8217;s encrypted data, you know? And even if they got an access to the encrypted information, it was encrypted, which means it wasn&#8217;t in plain text.</p>
<p>So I think that the majority of the time we bui- when people ask those questions, it&#8217;s because they just truly don&#8217;t understand. But the other part of it is, which is the most unfortunate part, is people kind of like throw their hands up in the air and say, &quot;Well, why would I use a password manager if a password manager could, can just get hacked?&quot;</p>
<p>So what, what they&#8217;re really doing is they&#8217;re engaging in fatalism. So when it comes to security, lots of people engage in fatalistic views of security. Why bother? Which is kind of human nature, and that, that&#8230; There&#8217;s something to that. And I&#8217;ve been doing what I do now for like 30, 40 years. 30 years professionally, 40 years in my life, okay?</p>
<p><span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> And so in this dialogue, when I&#8217;m engaged in an audience, you know, talking about security, what it is, what it isn&#8217;t, I, I ask a number of qualifying questions essentially to challenge their belief systems to find out, you know, why they do or don&#8217;t do what they do. And one of the questions I ask them is like, &quot;How many of you have a home security system?&quot;</p>
<p>Which is a pretty basic question, and depending on if you&#8217;re urban versus suburban or rural, you know, the, the answers are different, right? But truly, like if I get 15% of the room to say, &quot;Oh yeah, we got a home security system,&quot; that&#8217;s a lot. Which means 85% of the general public does not have a home security system.</p>
<p>And so I ask, you know, &quot;Why don&#8217;t you have that home security system?&quot; And there&#8217;s like three common answers that I get, and one of them is, &quot;Well, we don&#8217;t have a home security system because we have insurance.&quot; As if insurance is gonna protect you and your physical being at 3:00 AM, you know? Or, &quot;We don&#8217;t have a home security system because <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> my husband says, &#8216;If they&#8217;re gonna break in, they&#8217;re gonna break in.</p>
<p>What are we gonna do?&#8217;&quot; Well, I would divorce his ass, frankly, okay? Because, like, I&#8217;m gonna do what I gotta do to protect my girls while they&#8217;re sleeping, my honey, myself at 3:00 a.m., to be frank, you know? And I don&#8217;t, I don&#8217;t engage in fatalistic attitudes when it comes to security. I put systems in place. I don&#8217;t&#8230;</p>
<p>I, like, I would never tell a, a law enforcement officer, &quot;W- why bother putting a bulletproof vest on? Like, what are you, what are you, an idiot? Why would you bother? I mean, if you can get&#8230; You, you could just get shot in the head.&quot; I mean, is that common sense? No. I mean, he&#8217;s protecting his upper torso. He can&#8217;t protect everything.</p>
<p>Security is never gonna be 100%, but it&#8217;s a process. It&#8217;s a journey. Like, you engage in these best practices to reduce risk. But the most common answer that I get as to why people don&#8217;t install the home security system, and this is the most unfortunate part, is they say, &quot;Well, we don&#8217;t have a home security system because I don&#8217;t <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> wanna live like that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> don&#8217;t wanna have to worry. I don&#8217;t wanna live in fear. I don&#8217;t wanna be paranoid,&quot; is what they most often say. And that is all because we, mostly as Americans, &#8217;cause I speak all over the world, truly as Americans, we generally live safely. We generally live comfortably. &quot;I live in a safe neighborhood,&quot; 98% of my audiences say, &#8217;cause we want to believe that we do.</p>
<p>And generally, most live in a safer neighborhood, let&#8217;s say, okay? But it&#8217;s that fatalistic, &quot;It can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t happen to me,&quot; or, &quot;I don&#8217;t wanna live like that. I don&#8217;t wanna be paranoid,&quot; that prevents us from truly recognizing risk. Because most people have an unhealthy relationship w- with security. They look at it as a bad thing, as if installing a home security system is gonna make you worry.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s gonna make you live in <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> fear. It&#8217;s gonna make you paranoid. And paranoia is a mental health diagnosable dis-ease, truly. But we as a culture have viewed it and looked at it for decades as truly a bad thing,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> and that&#8217;s why most people don&#8217;t engage in the basics. That&#8217;s why they don&#8217;t install a password manager.</p>
<p>&quot;Well, if it can get hacked, why bother?&quot; You know? And really, what it boils down to is, one of the most common questions I get in a live audience is, &quot;Well, how do I know what links are okay to click when I do a Google search?&quot; And that answer or that question g- that question truly shows that people just really aren&#8217;t invested in learning about technology or digital literacy for that matter, or learning about security of that technology.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re, they&#8217;re just not interested. They don&#8217;t spend the time. They don&#8217;t engage in the process, you know? Like, <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> w- when I, when I do a presentation, I ask a, a room full of people, you know, or I tell a room full of people, &quot;Listen, if you don&#8217;t understand this stuff, just find yourself a 14-year-old and they&#8217;ll do it for you.&quot;</p>
<p>You know? And, and, and the r- the audience laughs because it&#8217;s such a true thing. And then I say to them, &quot;You know, that is kinda funny, but I don&#8217;t know that we should any longer consider that acceptable,&quot; especially with what&#8217;s going on with AI and, and, and how criminal hackers have ramped up. And that if you look at your 14-year-old as like, &quot;They know more about technology than I do,&quot; we&#8217;ve basically just thrown our hands up in the air and given up.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know that that&#8217;s truly okay or acceptable at this point, and that fatalism and misunderstanding what security is, which is about, you know, gaining control, versus what it isn&#8217;t, which is worry and fear and paranoia. I think that, like, that dichotomy prevents us from managing risk. And going forward, I think that, like, <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> everybody here today, you need to download a password manager.</p>
<p>You need to set up two-factor authentication. Like, you can&#8217;t look at your 14-year-old as, &quot;They know more than I do about technology,&quot; and we can&#8217;t continue to engage in fatalistic views of what security is versus what it isn&#8217;t. And that, you know, it&#8217;s about time now because of what&#8217;s going on with AI, and especially if you&#8217;re considering working at home, um, no longer under, under the corporate umbrella, and many of us are getting those, those, those scammy emails from people that we know now whose email was compromised.</p>
<p>We get those emails to e- our inbox because it&#8217;s coming from their actual email, and it, it&#8217;s people that we know, like, and trust that says, &quot;Hey, here&#8217;s the latest proposal. Click on the DocuSign link.&quot; And what you know is that they got hacked.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> And once that happens to you, your credibility&#8217;s out the window at this point</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, it&#8217;s very difficult to recover from <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> something like that. Now, and, and, you know, one last thing on the password manager thing is that for me, it simplified my life pretty drastically. Like, I mean, some of these password managers just hook, hook right into your browser. Uh, I use LastPass, so hopefully that&#8217;s a good one.</p>
<p>But, but, uh, but it allows you to just&#8230; It just, it autofills your passwords. Like, why would you not do that? That&#8217;s so much faster.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> I&#8217;ve been using a password manager for 20 plus years, and it is the best use of my time, my money for my security and my privacy. It&#8217;s $17, $18 a year. Are you kidding me? And the beauty of it, just like you said, it saves time. The other thing is like, like I said, I&#8217;m 57. Like I&#8217;m still relatively young, but I could go any day now.</p>
<p>I mean, that&#8217;s the reality of it. None of us are guaranteed, you know, existence to our 80s, right? Car accident, heart attack, you name it, right? And I&#8217;ve had conversations with my girls and my wife. Like if and when I go, my password manager is, is, is my digital <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> life. You have access to every single investment account, every financial.</p>
<p>It is my continuity when I&#8217;m gone. And I&#8217;ve told them over and over again, &quot;Pay for my mobile phone for at least a year after I&#8217;m gone,&quot; &#8217;cause this is where the two-factor authentication is too. It&#8217;s continuity in our afterlife</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, I agree. Uh, and actually these password managers will actually even, you can delegate someone to be your person once you go to. It, I mean, uh, yeah, I mean, I can&#8217;t say enough about it too. Password managers have been super, super helpful. And I, I like, I, I just think, you know, if you&#8217;re going to, um, say, &quot;Well, I don&#8217;t know if I can trust the password manager,&quot; you can likely trust the password manager better than your one, two, three, four, five, six password, right?</p>
<p>So, you know, and, and for you to be able to remember all of these crazy passwords, it&#8217;s just, it, it&#8217;s just too much. Like, you&#8217;re not, you&#8217;re not gonna be able to do that. So it&#8217;s either you&#8217;re gonna be setting an easy password or setting a very difficult one and forgetting it <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> all the time. Why not use a password manager?</p>
<p>Y- it&#8217;s one crazy</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> I&#8217;m not Rain Man. You know? I, I&#8217;m not Rain Man. I&#8217;m no savant. And, um, you know, at 57 I&#8217;m at capacity over here, you know? So, uh, it&#8217;s the best use of your time, your money, and your privacy. It&#8230; There&#8217;s really no reason not to at this point</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And then, uh, so then, uh, about your, you know, your home office and all that stuff, now we&#8217;ve talked about, you know, having, uh, a personal security system, right, at, at your house, and also now a, a password system. So now that&#8217;s protecting your computers, protecting your, your home itself. What, what else, what other practices can we have?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> So I mentioned two-factor authentication, and while that just sounds so remedial, um, look it, with pretty much everything that I explain to a live audience, I go to Google, right? And I&#8217;ll search password manager, and right there on the s- on the first page, uh, either AI Overview explains it to me and/or there&#8217;s a half a dozen articles on the first page of search from, like, PC Magazine that recommends, like, the top <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> 10 best password managers out there.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll do the same thing for, um, what is a VPN or, or find me a VPN or VPN software. And the same thing, there&#8217;s five articles on the first page of search, you know, from Wired Magazine, from PC Magazine. They talk about the best VPNs out there. What&#8217;s a VPN? It&#8217;s a virtual private network software program that you download on your mobile phone or your laptop, so when you&#8217;re at the airport, the hotel, the resort, when you&#8217;re out and about using free Wi-Fi, it encrypts your data when you&#8217;re on that free Wi-Fi.</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause generally, people that are working from home are, you know, working from, uh, uh, you know, in- Internet</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> shop. Yep</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Uh, you know, we, we, we, we&#8217;re out in public here and there. You know, we&#8217;re on the road. You know, there&#8217;s a reason for that, you know? And, um, you know, we&#8217;ve gotta protect our data for our clients when we&#8217;re out and about.</p>
<p>Like, that&#8217;s so important, you know? It&#8230; Not to is kinda criminal, you know? And, and in some cases, um, it <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> leads to class action lawsuits, you know, depending on the size and scope of your organization, and it can be detrimental to the, to the, to the survival of your business. So, uh, just, I just do a quick search for all of these different tools and tasks that are available to me, uh, and show them how that works, you know, for them.</p>
<p>And anything you want or need in regards to your information security or personal protection, search it quickly and right there it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, uh, available to you online</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Love it. Right on. Well, it&#8217;s time for your guest solo, so tell me what&#8217;s exciting in your business right now</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Well, I&#8217;ll tell you, uh, we&#8217;ve already discussed it. It&#8217;s</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, it is</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> look it, I&#8217;ve been doing what I do for, like I said, 30 years professionally and 40 years, like, been speaking on personal protection. And, you know, there was a time when&#8230; I mean, I&#8217;ve done, like, 500 TV shows. I&#8217;ve done Howard Stern twice. Like, I&#8217;ve done every major media that you can think of.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve done China television, Russian television, you <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> know, uh, all the morning shows, Good Morning America, Today Show, like, all of them. W- ABC World News Tonight, Nightline, you name it, okay? Only thing I haven&#8217;t done is Oprah, right? That said, right, for years and years and years, what I would do is get called by the media to talk about, you know, the latest data breach, the latest vulnerability, okay?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t get those calls anymore, um, because no one really cares at this point. Uh, I don&#8217;t get calls on data breaches any longer. Data breaches used to be, like, you know, hundreds of thousands of records. Now they&#8217;re tens of millions of records, and the media doesn&#8217;t even pick up on that stuff any longer.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> No</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> But now with AI, and AI-driven fraud, and deep fakes, and voice cloning, and organized crime basically fully involved using victims of human trafficking to perpetrate these crimes now, that awfulness, um, has <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> reinvigorated what it is that I do and what I speak to. So what I&#8217;m excited about is AI and how it&#8217;s being used, and how it can be used to protect us, too.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s truly invigorated the topic of cybersecurity. It&#8217;s made what I do, like, Hollywood-level, James Bond 007, Mission Impossible, Tom Cruise, Minority Report stuff. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s infused my topic with a tremendous amount of vigor. And, um, you know, that&#8217;s both good and bad. It&#8217;s a double-edged sword. Uh, but for, you know, those who are paying attention, the clock is ticking.</p>
<p>And if you wanna protect yourself and your family and your business, it&#8217;s so 101 at this point, the tools that are available to you, and all you gotta do is care about security. Put these systems in place and you&#8217;re gonna be good</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and, and a lot of them are free tools too. Like, a <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> lot of these password managers are free for the, the, you know, the basic level, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Yeah. And if two-factor authentication is absolutely</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Free.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> and yeah, and, and the, and what&#8217;s happening now is a lot of the big companies, Apple, Google, Microsoft, and so forth, Facebook, they&#8217;re all incorporating passkeys. And passkeys are the next level of password management. And the beauty of a password manager is a password manager will manage the keys for all your passkeys.</p>
<p>So even as password managers go out the way of the wooden nickel, or I&#8217;m sorry, passwords themselves go out the way of the wooden nickel, uh, password managers will not because they&#8217;ll be the primary, uh, tool that you&#8217;ll use to manage your passkeys. So get familiar with password managers now because as we phase out passwords themselves, passkeys are the next <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> step which the password managers will help you manage</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, so, um, I, I&#8217;m just, what&#8217;s the difference between a passkey and a password then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> A passkey is basically technology that&#8217;s going on in the background that recognizes your hardware, it recognizes your MAC address, it recognizes a number of factors about you, including existing passcodes. It recognizes biometrics. It recognizes a whole host of numerical identifiers, ultimately encrypting all of that into a crypto key of sorts, and it&#8217;s shared through various platforms.</p>
<p>And ultimately, it requires a number of different levels of authentication based on your hardware and your software and all those various data points in order t- for you to get access. And as we go, and as we continue to get improvement <span style="color:#808080">[00:34:00]</span> on and ubiquitous of passkeys, um, we will begin to phase out passwords pretty quickly.</p>
<p>Because passwords themselves are basically, at this point, a single, like, nine, 10, 12, 24-character phrase or, you know, numerics, uppercase, lowercase, and so forth, that it&#8217;s gonna be gone. The passkey is that plus a half a dozen other, um, forms of authentication,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm. Okay</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> uh, that really can&#8217;t be cracked</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay. So tell me, how do people work with you? Like, what, what is it that you do for a, for a client, and what kind of person would make a good client for you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> So for me, um, I work with meeting planners, uh, VPs of security awareness training. I work with small businesses that truly recognize risk, and they wanna put systems in place, uh, to make their <span style="color:#808080">[00:35:00]</span> employees that much more aware of risk. So I primarily provide security awareness training, is what we do. Um, that said, uh, I&#8217;m available at protectnowllc.com, protectnowllc.com.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay, awesome. And so this would be for mainly businesses that would want to train their workforce then</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Yeah, or those of you who just wanna connect, who wanna learn more, just Google me, you know, Robert Siciliano, S-I-C-I-L-I-A-N-O. Hook up with me on LinkedIn and just follow my blog, and my blog is really there to keep you up to speed and in tune with managing risk. Like, it&#8217;s nothing complicated. It&#8217;s all easy stuff.</p>
<p>Uh, what I write and what I put out there is generally for everyday people just to make sure that when the bad guys choose you, that they quickly move on to somebody else because you are already a tougher target</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> And, and that&#8217;s a good point there, right? And isn&#8217;t that kinda true? Like, if, if, if you&#8217;ve got, uh, someone who&#8217;s looking to break into your house, if you&#8217;ve got the door locked, and by the way, the, uh, it, it <span style="color:#808080">[00:36:00]</span> reminded me of that when you were talking about the security system. Would you just go out and leave the door unlocked?</p>
<p>Like, I don&#8217;t know. Is that paranoid if you&#8217;re locking the door, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> of people do leave the door unlocked because they literally say, &quot;I don&#8217;t wanna live like that. I just wanna be free. I don&#8217;t wanna have to worry. I trust people.&quot; And you know what? 97% of all the people that you will ever meet in the course of your life are truly worthy of your trust, 97%. But guess what?</p>
<p>And you can do your own research, people. Between three, they say about 3% of women and as many as 6% of men are basically, as the medical community would diagnose them, as sociopaths and psychopaths. About 3 to 6% sociopaths and psychopaths. These are people that truly have or experience no shame, no empathy, no sympathy, no guilt, no remorse.</p>
<p>They look at you and I as their natural prey. They are the lions and the wolves. We are the gazelles and the rabbits, and they look at <span style="color:#808080">[00:37:00]</span> us as truly their victims. And there are a lot of people out there, 3 to 6%, making a lot of noise, doing a lot of harm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> And I don&#8217;t say that to put the fear in anybody. I put that i- in you to say, &quot;Yeah, I should know how to manage risk,&quot; because why wouldn&#8217;t you wanna know how to do that?</p>
<p>To adopt the, &quot;It can&#8217;t happen to me. I don&#8217;t wanna live like that. Why bother? I just trust people,&quot; you&#8217;re just simply functioning in denial, denial is wonderful. Denial is just like this psychological thing that we all possess. Everybody possesses denial, and everybody, to a certain degree, lives to a certain degree in denial, right?</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause denial allows us to not have to worry and, and, and experience anxiety and live in fear. So denial has its value. It&#8217;s great. But I don&#8217;t know that it&#8217;s really effective at all when it comes to managing <span style="color:#808080">[00:38:00]</span> risk. I think we&#8217;ve gone&#8230; The, the pendulum has swung too far towards denial</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> and, um, you know, it&#8217;s causing a lot of people to lose it, l- to lose their access to their accounts, to lose money, to lose their businesses because they&#8217;ve allowed denial to take over their existence when it comes to security</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And,</p>
<p>uh, I mean, some of this stuff might be harder than others, but for the most part, the things we&#8217;ve talked about today, I mean, the, the basics, a password manager, it, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s not gonna affect your life a whole lot. Uh, I mean, in fact, actually, password managers are probably gonna make your life a little bit simpler, &#8217;cause now all of a sudden, you know, your passwords will, will be auto-filled for the most part.</p>
<p>Putting a security system in your house or locking the door, is it inconvenient sometimes? Well, I suppose, right? But you could put some s- s- some systems in place, and I&#8217;m sure that we could probably learn a little bit more about that on your blog then, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Yeah, and I talk about like, you know, in this podcast, those basic, basic things because most <span style="color:#808080">[00:39:00]</span> people don&#8217;t do those basic, basic</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> right. That&#8217;s</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> And so what I teach is a ph- a philosophy, a methodology that I call the strategic human firewall. And the strategic human firewall is I, I, I, I move from I trust by default to I verify everything.</p>
<p>And most people just trust by default. Most people, like receiving phone calls and emails and text messages, they&#8217;re clicking links, they&#8217;re reacting, they&#8217;re responding. Like, they&#8217;re not a strategic human firewall at all. Like, they&#8217;re not seeing the motivation of that inbound, incoming communication.</p>
<p>Whereas like people like you and I, like we&#8217;re seeing, &quot;Okay, what&#8217;s the motivation of this text? Is this really my state&#8217;s, you know, registry of motor vehicles sending me a fine because I didn&#8217;t pay a ticket or I didn&#8217;t pay my toll? So am I really gonna click the link to pay my toll or am I just gonna ignore it because it&#8217;s probably BS?&quot;</p>
<p>You know? <span style="color:#808080">[00:40:00]</span> Most people aren&#8217;t even doing that. So the idea is to become a strategic human firewall so you recognize risk as it&#8217;s coming down the pike, so to speak. And that&#8217;s a relatively easy thing to do. Like I tell my audiences all the time, I can make pretty much all of you the top 10% of secure Americans because the top 10% aren&#8217;t engaging in password managers, changing up their passcodes or using two-factor authentication, never mind locking their doors or installing a home security system.</p>
<p>You do those things, you&#8217;re in the top 10% right there, you know? &#8216;Cause 90% are soft, easy targets, whereas us 10% are strategic human firewalls, we&#8217;re hard targets</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, I think, and, uh, just as a general kind of like mindset too, anybody who&#8217;s, like, putting fear into you and saying, &quot;You need to click on this right now, otherwise something&#8217;s gonna happen,&quot; uh, you <span style="color:#808080">[00:41:00]</span> know, the, the, the thought I always have is like, &quot;Okay, well, I&#8217;m reading this email right now. What if I had read it tomorrow or the next day?</p>
<p>Why is it so important within the next 48 hours?&quot; It just seems obvious to me that, that, that this is a scam. But that&#8217;s how they operate, right? They try to catch you when you&#8217;re, when you&#8217;re, when you&#8217;re panicking.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> So you being a strategic human firewall innately already understand manufactured urgency.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> That&#8217;s what that is. Manufactured urgency is designed specifically to get our heart racing, to get our blood pumping, to get us to react and respond emotionally, right? And so we have this, this human blind spot that I call, that I talk about, and the human blind spot is, like, that we trust by default, that we want to and need to trust each other.</p>
<p>And that trust is, like, every person we meet, every phone call and email and text message we receive, we want to trust that the person on the other end <span style="color:#808080">[00:42:00]</span> has our best interest in mind, that they don&#8217;t want or mean to hurt us. And so we, we wake up every day th- with that as being our baseline. And so when we get that phone call, when we get that email, when we get that text message with that manufactured urgency going into it that I want to and need to trust people, and that ruse has that urgency to it, but it could be probable.</p>
<p>I mean, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s likely that that could be real, right? Or there&#8217;s a possibility it could be real. We don&#8217;t wanna think that evil, the sociopaths and the psychopaths, have targeted us. And our denial, and it can&#8217;t happen to me, and security is a bad thing, prevents us from recognizing risk.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> The physics of this makes so much sense to me, and they should to your audience at this point, &#8217;cause probably nobody&#8217;s ever actually explained it like that.</p>
<p>But once you become that strategic human firewall, all of a sudden you&#8217;re like, &quot;Yeah, I, I, I see what&#8217;s happening. I <span style="color:#808080">[00:43:00]</span> see that and understand that manufactured urgency now. Oh, as my heart begins to pump, stop. Like, stop what I&#8217;m doing. Recognize, okay, so what&#8217;s really happening here? What are they trying to actually do?</p>
<p>Is this really true or is it fake?&quot; And chances are 100% of the time it&#8217;s gonna be fake, especially with manufactured urgency. 100% of the time. I&#8217;m not gonna say 99.9, I&#8217;m gonna say 100.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yep, I agree. Right. Okay, so let&#8217;s talk about music for a second. Who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> So you see what&#8217;s going on behind me? That, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s Led Zeppelin&#8217;s song Remains the Same</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh my. Okay. Well, of course.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Yeah. So, uh, I am a big Led Zeppelin fan. Um, I actually owned ledzeppelin.com from, like, 1995 to 2001. Uh, it didn&#8217;t end so well. Uh, but, uh, yeah, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m a big Zep head. My license plate on my car is Led Zep. <span style="color:#808080">[00:44:00]</span> License plate on my bike is, um, Z-E-P-L-N. License plate on my wife&#8217;s car, because it used to be my plate, is Z-E-P-L-N 2, which is the best album.</p>
<p>And, um, yeah, I mean, I&#8217;m a big Zeppelin fan</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Did you, do you play guitar at all? Ah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> Oh, I am not a musician. My girls are musicians. Uh, they&#8217;ve been playing ever since they were three. So, um, but, uh, I don&#8217;t have the ability, no</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. Well, that&#8217;s awesome. It&#8217;s so awesome talking to you, Robert. This has been a lot of fun. Thanks so much.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#C576A7">Robert Siciliano:</strong> My pleasure. Thank you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#583E31">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome, and to the listeners, make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information, and we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar </p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the Work at Home Rockstar Podcast, Tim Melanson chats with Travis Cormier, CEO of <a href="https://10xtravel.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">10X Travel</a>, about building a remote-first business that continues to feel personal even as it grows. Travis shares how his team transformed a fast-growing company into one of Inc.&#8217;s Best Places to Work by intentionally investing in employee culture, meaningful relationships, and systems that scale.</p>
<p>The conversation explores the realities of managing remote teams, balancing business growth with customer experience, and why founders need to think differently about leadership as their companies evolve. Travis also shares how 10X Travel is reducing its dependence on affiliate revenue while continuing to educate people on using credit card rewards responsibly to save money on travel.</p>
<h2>Who is Travis Cormier?</h2>
<p>Travis Cormier is a travel hacker and lifestyle strategist at <a href="https://10xtravel.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">10X Travel</a>, where he teaches entrepreneurs and remote workers how to turn their everyday expenses into a &#8220;shadow currency&#8221; of free travel.</p>
<p>Travis doesn&#8217;t just preach the &#8220;work from anywhere&#8221; lifestyle—he lives it at the extremes. By reverse-engineering the credit card points game, he has turned operational costs into millions of miles, allowing him to run his business from Emirates First Class suites, Antarctic glaciers, and caves in Mexico without paying the retail price. His mission is to help others build their own &#8220;Life Resume,&#8221; proving that with the right strategy, your overhead can fund your freedom.</p></div>
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<p>One of the biggest lessons is that scaling a business doesn&#8217;t mean sacrificing personal customer relationships. Travis explains how his team distinguished between giving customers personal access to the founder and creating a personalized experience, allowing them to grow without losing the connection that made their brand successful.</p>
<p>The conversation also reinforces that remote work succeeds when leaders focus on outcomes instead of hours. Rather than measuring productivity by time spent at a desk, Travis shares how his team emphasizes trust, clear deliverables, and intentional communication to build both accountability and flexibility.</p>
<p>Another standout insight is the importance of investing in people before problems appear. Regular quarterly alignment conversations help uncover challenges early, strengthen company culture, and create opportunities to support employees before performance issues become larger problems.</p>
<p>Finally, Travis offers an honest perspective on business resilience. By reducing dependence on affiliate revenue and building additional income streams, his team is creating a stronger foundation for long-term growth while staying committed to providing genuine value to their community.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Welcome and Guest Intro<br />00:21 Building a Great Remote Culture<br />02:13 1K Your Way Perk<br />04:38 Scaling Personal Support<br />11:12 Home Office and Remote Work<br />19:31 Managing Performance Quarterly<br />29:20 Emotional Weight of Leadership<br />33:16 Free the Business Goal<br />37:17 How 10X Travel Helps<br />40:38 Points, Debt, and Ethics<br />44:09 Favorite Bands and Wrap Up</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rockstar podcast. I&#8217;m excited for today&#8217;s episode. We&#8217;re talking to the CEO of 10X Travel, and what he does is he teaches people to utilize credit card rewards to save money on travel. Very interested in hearing more about that. But first, hey, Travis Cormier, are you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Let&#8217;s rock</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. So we always start off here on a good note. So tell me a story of success that we can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, uh, when I joined the company, I was the second full-time employee, and we were really just like many small companies trying to figure out moving from being like a solopreneur to operating as an actual company, uh, and doing it while we were fortunately going through a lot of growth. Uh, we managed to make the Inc.</p>
<p>5000 list of fastest growing private companies in the US, and <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> like all of these are great things, but it can cause, uh, a bit of like chaos and turmoil &#8217;cause so much is changing, um, at the same time. But what really made me so proud throughout that was not only did we make the list of fastest growing private companies, but we also made Inc.&#8217;s list of best places to work in the US.</p>
<p>Uh, yeah, so like we managed to not just scale the business, but also just make it a good place to, to work. Um, you know, we, we, we did that by looking at like, what do we do? What do we value? What do we try to deliver for our audience, and how can we also deliver that for people within our company? Um, you know, one of our core values is <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> to help connect dreams with reality.</p>
<p>We said, &quot;Okay, how can we connect the dreams with reality for our employees?&quot; Beyond just like a paycheck, right? Like beyond what you just expect people</p>
<p>to do. Um, so one of the things that we instituted is a, a program that I love called 1K Your Way. It&#8217;s $1,000 every year to just pursue an interest. The only way it gets rejected is if it&#8217;s related to work, you know.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re like, &quot;I wanna use it to go to this conference.&quot; No, no, no. You can go to the conference, but use it for something else. Um, we&#8217;ve had people take scuba diving lessons. We&#8217;ve had employees&#8230; Actually, last year a n- one of our employees in the Philippines bought a motorcycle &#8217;cause he always just wanted to learn how to ride a motorcycle, so he used it to, to buy a small motorcycle and then do a tour, uh, around one of the islands.</p>
<p>So just like really <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> cool to get to, uh, do that for our people, and also it just helps us connect more, especially over such a, such a big distance. You know, I think in the world of remote work, some of that personal touch and personal relationships can be hard to sustain sometimes.</p>
<p>And so when you can bring an element of Personal relations that aren&#8217;t just work-related and encourage it just helps, like, build, build a more fun, fun place to work.</p>
<p>You know your peop- you know everybody more, you know what their interests are, and it just gives you something to talk about that&#8217;s not just the weather or something.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s exactly it. Yeah, you get to know everybody&#8217;s interests through that program as well. Hey, can they learn guitar? Is anybody learning an instrument?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> I, I actually plan to use mine this year. Um, I was a, a band nerd through, through <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> high school. I played French horn. But I always wanted to learn piano, so I&#8217;m actually planning to use mine this year to get a little keyboard and take, take some lessons</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. Oh, and nowadays it&#8217;s so much easier with the, the, the keyboards that you can put your headphones on as well, and you can also learn right directly from YouTube or from various other online subscriptions. It&#8217;s&#8230; A- and now&#8217;s the time to learn an instrument.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, yeah. I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m really excited for it.</p>
<p>Um, I think, I think it will be fun. And actually we did have one employee, uh, buy a guitar and take guitar lessons, so</p>
<p>I, I won&#8217;t be the first</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s brilliant. So now along with the good note, though, sometimes things don&#8217;t go as planned. You know, there are gonna be some mistakes being made along the journey, and I like to normalize those so people can see that you still, you can still live. You can still get through it. And I&#8217;m wondering, can you share with me something that we can learn from and maybe even how you recovered from it?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. Um, one of the biggest <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> unintentional mistakes that we made, right? I think this happens a lot in small business, is you run into things that when you started them was not a mistake, but it became an issue that you needed to, to solve later. Um, what happened to us was we&#8230; We&#8217;ve- we&#8217;ve really leaned into, like, building community and building a personal sense of connection with our, with our audience, which when we were small meant our founder&#8230;</p>
<p>Um, I&#8217;m not the founder, I&#8217;m the, the incoming&#8230; or I&#8217;m the new CEO. Um, but when we were, we were starting, our founder put his email everywhere, and he said, &quot;Hey, you got questions? Just email me.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> email me.&quot; And that&#8217;s a great way to build that personal relationship with people. But then as your audience in this <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> consu- in a consumer-facing business starts growing, and people are still emailing your, your, this one person, like, that burden can become so large.</p>
<p>And I was talking to him once, um, and he said, &quot;I don&#8217;t know how to solve this, because I&#8217;m spending 20 to 30 hours a week responding to emails. It&#8217;s one of my favorite parts of, of my job. I love this connection with people.&quot; But this j- this isn&#8217;t scalable, right? And, and that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s the, the accidental mistake when you&#8217;re, when you&#8217;re small you might have a part of your business that&#8217;s n- doesn&#8217;t scale, but you don&#8217;t</p>
<p>Like, the time and world where that happens might just be a pipe dream then. But if it, if it, if it happens, it, it does. So how, how do you solve this really odd <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> conundrum of we&#8217;ve built a business based off of this sense of, uh, of connection with people, particularly with, with our, uh, with our CEO, and ma- maintain that sense of personal connection but make it scalable?</p>
<p>That was, like, where we, we, we got pretty, pretty stuck. Um, but what we, what we &#8230; How we approached it that ended up working for us was realizing that personal access and personalization aren&#8217;t the same thing,</p>
<p>that what he was providing was personal access and personalization. But people are reaching out because they trust the brand and the business, um, and he just happens to be the point of contact.</p>
<p>So h- so we just need to solve that personalization part, um, to <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> deliver that high-touch intimate experience that people come to expect from our brand. Um, so the way that, that we did this was, you know, we built out a, a small team of people to handle these questions that, that come in. Uh, but we actually empowered them with tools like Loom.</p>
<p>Um, if you&#8217;re not familiar with Loom, it&#8217;s kind of like a screen recording. You can record yourself. Um, and that&#8217;s how we, we answer a lot of them. Not all of them, but a lot of them we record a Loom and send it to them. So now instead of just getting a wall of text, you get someone talking to you over email. So it keeps that sense of personalization and connection with your audience in a scalable way, um, that&#8217;s not tied just to that, to that personal aspect</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s, that&#8217;s a great idea. Yeah, and, uh, it, it would get so overwhelming to have to answer all that. Hey, nowadays you have chat though , </p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> that might save some time</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> In my, in my, you know, it was def- this was definitely pre- pre-AI days. Um, and it, and honestly, it&#8217;s one of the places we, we love AI, but it&#8217;s one of those places where, uh, like that&#8217;s not worth it to us. It&#8217;s not worth it to lose that, that sense of personal connection. Um, you know, if people are reaching out personally, they&#8217;re doing it for, for a reason.</p>
<p>If they wanted the, the, the answer from chat, like, I don&#8217;t know, they could probably just go to ChatGPT and</p>
<p>ask it directly </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, it kind of defeats the purpose, eh? If you&#8217;re doing, if you&#8217;re supposed to, like, actually read the email and respond to it. But I mean, oh my goodness, that would be so much time, you know, especially as that grows. And for the CEO, I mean, that&#8217;s, you, you know, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s a full-time job right there.</p>
<p>And what, how can they run the business now at this point, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Right, exactly. Like, uh, in a small business, as regardless of what seat you&#8217;re in, you&#8217;ve got multiple hats. The CEO does, anyone in the <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> organization does.</p>
<p>And when one of those hats is taking up 75, 80% of your time, how are you leaving enough bandwidth to, to handle everything else?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. But no, with the, uh, the whole Loom idea, that&#8217;s a great idea. And, and I mean, a, a, a benefit that you could do there is that there&#8217;s probably some times when you get the same question over and over again. So if you record that one Loom, as long as you don&#8217;t use their personal name in it then</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> you might be able to be in the situation where you just send the same Loom to, you know, a bunch of people.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s still you talking and handling that question, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Exactly, yeah. And that&#8217;s exactly one of the things that we did. Um, you know, we- you don&#8217;t always get the same question, but the people that tend to be asking questions the most are your newer audience</p>
<p>members who are learning and trying to gather information. So a lot of times they are sending the same, the same questions. Uh, and yeah, by just not saying, &quot;Hey Tim,&quot; <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> saying, &quot;Hey, thanks for reaching out,&quot; like that simple removal means you can send the same one to, to multiple people and still</p>
<p>maintain that, that personal touch</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Totally. So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about The Jam Room. Now, I see there&#8217;s a dog in the background there.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Uh-huh</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So I assume that&#8217;s part of your home office, is it?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> It is. Oh. She, she decided to, she decided to move. Yeah, I decided not to blur my background, you know? It&#8217;s, the theme is, is</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Working from home.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> from home rockstar,</p>
<p>so like w- let me not hide where I work from, from home,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yep</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> and share it. Um, yeah, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s, uh, one of my two at-home coworkers. The other is on the floor behind me.</p>
<p>You can kinda</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, yeah, yeah. Okay, I see. I didn&#8217;t see that at first.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> down there. Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s so awesome. And, like, I, I mean, the thing about it is that nowadays, I mean, since the last five or six <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> years, it&#8217;s been a lot more normal for people to work from home. But before that it was like people didn&#8217;t understand it at all, right? And now it&#8217;s, it seems to be a lot more normalized just because people had to go through it, you know, even in the corporate atmosphere.</p>
<p>And there was a lot of companies that just didn&#8217;t want to embrace it at all, right? Before they realized that, hey, maybe we can still get productive employees, you know, with, with a work-at-home model, right? And, you know, it sounds like you&#8217;ve got a remote model as well, so I&#8217;m wondering, like, how is that working for you?</p>
<p>Are- do you feel like you get just as much, if not more, from, from the productivity of your people</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Uh, I, I think so. Um, I think people knowing that they have a little bit of that flexibility, um, means that they understand when, you know, i- if they need to run an errand during the day. Like, we&#8217;re all adults, right? Like, no one wants to have to ask for a hall pass to go out and ru- and run an errand.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> about understanding that, like, your, your job is to get work done.</p>
<p>So as l- as long as people are are completing their, their deliverables, completing their work. Like, I tell everyone, &quot;I don&#8217;t really care if it takes you two hours or 10 hours.&quot; I mean, I, I do in a sense, but at the end of the day, you know, if it takes you two hours and your work is done for the day, be available, but I don&#8217;t expect you to be sitting there just waiting on something else to come in. Because on the flip side, there&#8217;s gonna be those weeks when there&#8217;s fires and, and extra work that has to get done where you&#8217;re gonna work a little bit more. So it&#8217;s a bit of give and take, and I think when people are working from home, it makes it a little bit more palatable than, &quot;Oh, I&#8217;m at the office and I&#8217;m done, so now I just kinda have to sit here and wait and bide my time and not be personally productive.&quot;</p>
<p><span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> Whereas when working from home, like, you can be personally productive. I can go unload the dishwasher. Uh, I can go do a load of laundry if I need to. And it, at the end of the day, like, it- how is that any different from going to the break room and grabbing a cup of coffee and sitting around chatting with coworkers?</p>
<p>Like, and there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s definitely benefits to that. I don&#8217;t</p>
<p>wanna, wanna downplay that, but, um, like, it&#8217;s just about respecting people, people as adults. Um, and for, for us, w- we&#8217;ve not found productivity to be, to be an issue at all</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And I think that there are people that are more suited for an office, and then there are people that are more suited for working from home too. But I do find that a trend that I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve been noticing, not definitely in the, in the home business area, but even in corporate areas, is focusing a little bit more on <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> maybe productivity and deliverables rather than focusing on time sitting there, right?</p>
<p>And, and I think that&#8217;s an encouraging way to look at it, right? Because it really does reward the high performers. &#8216;Cause now, I mean, if you can get your work done, you know, in half the time, w- well, isn&#8217;t that great? Like, wh- why would you be penalized by having to sit there for the other half of the time and do nothing &#8217;cause you&#8217;re already done your work, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, I mean, I, I think basing productivity on hours worked is just lazy management. It just says, &quot;I don&#8217;t actually know how to manage deliverables and manage my team,&quot; but it&#8217;s the easiest thing to point to, to say, uh, &quot;My team is working 100% of the time assigned.&quot; Like, cool, but how do you know that that&#8217;s actually accomplishing the, the goals and stuff?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s just lazy management, and it&#8217;s just an excuse for, for not <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> knowing how else to, to manage people</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And I think, I think for most businesses, productivity is gonna be the thing. The only ones that would count, you know, for how much time you&#8217;re there is maybe you&#8217;re working a storefront, and you actually have to be present for that specific time, &#8217;cause customers are gonna come in. Um, you know, but that&#8217;s not, that&#8217;s different, and, and that&#8217;s not the same as most businesses.</p>
<p>Most businesses have these deliverables that they have to create, right? And i- it doesn&#8217;t matter how long it takes you to do it. You don&#8217;t have to be sitting there and waiting, right? So I, I like that. I think it&#8217;s encouraging, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. Thanks. Yeah, I, I, I agree. I mean, my former job, I used to be a chemist. I can&#8217;t bring chemicals home. I had to be there.</p>
<p>I </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> There you go</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> if, if they told me to bring chemicals home, I would, I would be a little weary of wherever, wherever I&#8217;m working. So you&#8217;re right, there, there certainly are some jobs and some careers where it&#8217;s necessary, but for the vast <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> majority of office jobs, uh I don&#8217;t, I don&#8217;t see it as</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, a- and even as a chemist too, like, uh, there&#8217;d probably be things you have to accomplish during the day, so even that doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to be, you know, clock in at whatever time, clock out at this time, you have to be there during that time. That would only really apply to a storefront thing or a customer support thing where you&#8217;re actually handling a shift.</p>
<p>Other than that, I mean, if you get your work done and you do it faster than everybody else, I, I thi- I just think it, it, it encourages you to bring on better talent, right? &#8216;Cause now the people that are encouraged to be faster and better, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. Yeah. And it also just gives you better access to talent, right? I mentioned we have some employees based in the Philippines. We couldn&#8217;t do that if we were an in-person company. Um, it&#8211; We don&#8217;t even have two employees that live in the same city. So, uh, like, when we go to <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> hire, we don&#8217;t have to limit ourselves.</p>
<p>You know, I&#8217;m in, I&#8217;m in Houston in Texas in the US. If we were in person, I would limit myself just to Houston, which not a&#8211; It&#8217;s a big enough city. We&#8217;ve got plenty of people here. But I can cast a nationwide or even international net to be sure that we&#8217;re, we&#8217;re getting, getting the right person. And I, I also think it helps with retention.</p>
<p>Like, people really enjoy the work from home, those high performers, especially if they&#8217;ve worked somewhere before that really drove them to, to burnout. Um, the, the work from home life just I think for a lot of people works better.</p>
<p>You know, it can be lonely at times</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> It can be. It can be. But, I mean, there is ways you can get around that. You could go work at a coffee shop or, uh, you know, or if your dog is right there,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> that helps, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> Yeah. Or like, like I go to the gym at 4:30 every day, and it&#8217;s group classes, so I see the same people. I&#8217;ve got friendships. That&#8217;s my</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> coffee shop. Your, your, your, uh, yep, that&#8217;s your water cooler talk</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, exactly. And those times when I&#8217;m like, &quot;I don&#8217;t even wanna talk to people, I just wanna work around people,&quot; like you said, go to a coffee shop, go to a co-working place.</p>
<p>Um, but it gives me that flexibility to, to choose that rather than be forced into it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I love that. Let&#8217;s, uh, you know, let&#8217;s get a little bit more into the band then and the people in your team that have success. I&#8217;m wondering, uh, you know, you- you&#8217;ve got a pretty large organization. You came on to the organization, so you, so you didn&#8217;t necessarily build it from scratch. Um, but you&#8217;re probably very focused on making sure you have the right talent and you also make sure you get rid of the wrong talent, right?</p>
<p>And do you have&#8230; What kinds of processes do you have to make sure that that stays true?<span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. Uh, one of the, the big things that we do, um, that was&#8230; We, we work, we work with a business coach who helped us implement, um, our quarterly alignments, is really what we call them. You know, uh, yes, it is a bit of a review, but part of it is to be sure that we&#8217;re aligning with people on that, that personal level.</p>
<p>Um, so yes, we do review based off of your, your work deliverables. We also measure based off of the culture fit. Um, being a remote company, maintaining that company culture does come with some additional challenges. So we look at both. We look at work performance as well as cultural alignment to evaluate people.</p>
<p>And it all, for, for me, it all comes back to intentionally creating the space for that to happen. You know, we can often let <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> things start to slide, um, and if it&#8217;s not addressed, then It, it can start going too far. By doing it once a quarter, it just creates the opportu- opportunity to have those, those candid conversations with people.</p>
<p>Because sometimes it&#8217;s just we&#8217;re going through different phases of our, of our lives. You </p>
<p>know, your person who&#8217;s consistently an, uh, an A plus, a, a member of your A team, might dip down to the B team, and that doesn&#8217;t have to be a red flag. It should be a warning sign. But by have&#8230; creating the intentional time and space to talk about it means we can&#8217;t avoid it.</p>
<p>And a lot of times when you have those conversations, you just realize, oh, okay, you just have some stuff going on in your life. Okay, like, A, is there an opportunity for us to help you with that? B, like, even if not, it can just be about <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> getting aligned on it. You know, I experienced that myself. My mom got sick during the pandemic. Uh, she lived four hours away by herself. And so days when I wasn&#8217;t working, uh, because I was still a chemist for the first half of the pandemic, I left work, drove to my mom&#8217;s to go take care of her, stayed there, then came back, went to work, back and forth, which meant not a ton of time with my wife, not a ton of time with my dogs.</p>
<p>And that doesn&#8217;t mean that I&#8217;m a&#8230; Like, my, my work inherently suffered because I never really got time to decompress personally, and that doesn&#8217;t mean that I&#8217;m a bad employee or that there&#8217;s a systemic problem that, you know, needs to be addressed through performance management.</p>
<p>But if y- if you don&#8217;t talk about it and don&#8217;t converse about it, like, it can <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> be easy for a manager to look and say, &quot;Your performance isn&#8217;t there, so now we&#8217;re gonna put you on a performance improvement plan.&quot;</p>
<p>And it can just help contextualize the lives that we&#8217;re going through. And as a remote company, creating those intentional moments, uh, for me is, is paramount to, to success because you don&#8217;t have those kind of organic water cooler type moments that you have in person. So it&#8217;s about creating that intentional space to talk with people and determine then, you know, uh, is this something temporary? Sometimes it&#8217;s not. Like, the, the truth is sometimes it&#8217;s not, and people&#8217;s performance just is not keeping up. Maybe their skills aren&#8217;t keeping up. Um, and it does need to be addressed through performance management, but it&#8217;s about having the space to determine what the right approach is rather than just kind of dismissing everything and really, like, recalibrating.<span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And this is one of those things that, um, when you&#8217;re thinking about starting a business, uh, uh, or when you&#8217;re thinking about what&#8217;s important in your business, a lot of people will focus more on the sales, you know, on the, the actual, the transfer of, of income and all that stuff, and these soft kinds o- kinds of things are things that kind of get pushed on the back burner, I imagine, right?</p>
<p>A, a lot, right? It&#8217;s just &#8217;cause y- you&#8217;re like, &quot;Oh, do I need to spend my time doing that right now?&quot; But, you know, as you&#8217;ve probably already discovered, if you don&#8217;t spend that time, then it, it will, like, it- you&#8217;re just in a reactionary mode because things start to fall apart and you don&#8217;t know why. Whereas if you, like you say, have this intentional time set and you put a priority on it, you know, and there&#8217;s probably lots of other examples of things like this that you need to be intentional about, um, and spend your time on it even though it doesn&#8217;t directly relate to dollars in the bank account, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Right. Yeah. And <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> like it, it not only goes towards understanding your employees, but also like, like in what they&#8217;re going through, but for them to talk to you about what they&#8217;re experiencing too. Um, because if they&#8217;re feeling burnt out or they&#8217;re feeling overworked or they&#8217;ve got stuff, stuff going on, and you&#8217;re just dismissing it, not addressing it, like that&#8217;s when people start looking for</p>
<p>another </p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> work, yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> well.</p>
<p>And so then if they leave, well, would you rather have spent two hours once a quarter versus now they leave and it&#8217;s gonna take maybe at least two to four weeks to hire someone, a couple of weeks to get them, them trained up? And that&#8217;s even more time that&#8217;s taking away from your ability to do, to do other work.</p>
<p>Uh, so it, it can be hard to prioritize some of the soft work that needs to be done that <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> it&#8217;s not necessarily moving the revenue or the profitability directly, but it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s securing it more. You know? It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s helping to, to protect it, um- It&#8217;s a give and take sometimes when you&#8217;re scaling. Like, there are some stuff that you choose not to do, and you&#8217;re building up, uh, I call it, like, institutional debt.</p>
<p>You know, you&#8217;re building up s- up this backlog of work that you know needs to get done someday, and you&#8217;re choosing not to. And you&#8217;re, you have to accept that risk. Like, you have to accept that you can&#8217;t do all of it.</p>
<p>Um, someday the bill is gonna come due for that institutional debt. And, uh, like, uh, that&#8217;s okay.</p>
<p>Like, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s okay. That&#8217;s the natural phases of business. You know, I mentioned we were on the Inc. 5000. Very few companies, like, go through growth and just stay like <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> this forever. Everyone would love that. I don&#8217;t know a business owner that wouldn&#8217;t love that. But the simple nature of business is it&#8217;ll probably eventually plateau, and you have to set up for the next stage of growth, and realizing that that&#8217;s when you&#8217;re gonna be able to repay some of that debt.</p>
<p>Um, but it&#8217;s choosing along the way which debt is okay to, to wait on and which ones you can&#8217;t. Um, and I think if you wanna build a good culture with places to work, uh, the, the work around people management is one that you can&#8217;t set aside</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, uh, I, I love this, you know, aspect because one of the things I&#8217;m trying to accomplish with even this podcast is to inspire more people to take better control of this stuff. And because I think that a lot of these very, very large m- monopolies have, have sort of <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> like created these work atmospheres that are not super good for most people.</p>
<p>And so I think that number one, you know, you can become self-employed and take control of that stuff and be a solopreneur and make a living that way. But also, you can create your own business as you guys are doing, and actually do it with people in mind and with culture in mind, and with, you know, a, a really clear focus on making it a good place for people to work to contrast against the many bad places for people to work, right?</p>
<p>And, you know, th- there&#8217;s gonna be people in all of those buckets, &#8217;cause the bottom line is that we&#8217;ve gone through this many times on this podcast, is that not everybody is gonna be super well-suited for running a business, right? There are people that are far more comfortable with working for somebody else, and that is totally cool because there are also a lot of people <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> that wanna run a business and employ other people, right?</p>
<p>So they need people to work, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, exactly.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So we can all get a, get those dreams met, and we can create atmospheres that are really good for people to work in, and we can create this new economy that I think is being created right now</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, definitely. Um, I mean, one, one of the things that I think doesn&#8217;t get talked about enough about running, running a business, owning your own business, um, like people talk about how exciting it is and how cool it is and how freeing it is, and all of those are true.</p>
<p>Like, all of those are true. But too often people don&#8217;t discuss the emotional burden that comes with it.</p>
<p>Um, uh, you know, when it&#8217;s your business and it&#8217;s not just, you know, if you&#8217;re a solopreneur, it&#8217;s your livelihood, and that&#8217;s a very different emotional toll than <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> working for a big company that&#8217;s generally probably gonna be pretty financially secure. Like, you&#8217;re typically not worried about your paycheck bouncing.</p>
<p>Um, like there&#8217;s this emotional side to it that I think many people don&#8217;t expect and aren&#8217;t prepared for.</p>
<p>Um, and it doesn&#8217;t have to be a bad thing, but it applies if you&#8217;re a solopreneur. Then if you grow and have employees, like their livelihood depends on you, and that&#8217;s a pretty heavy burden, I think, uh, to, to carry that- Isn&#8217;t talked about probably &#8217;cause it&#8217;s not the fun side of bu- or it&#8217;s not the side that people who are selling courses</p>
<p>about starting your own business,</p>
<p>uh, want to be, to be honest about.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s the truth is that, like, people are putting their, their trust in, <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> in you and your company to be able to deliver so they can maintain their livelihoods. And, uh, that can be a very different weight that people aren&#8217;t expecting. Um, and some of the hard decisions that, that can come with that. You know, you mentioned it- it&#8217;s easy to talk about keeping good people, but when it&#8217;s about truly people who aren&#8217;t performing and aren&#8217;t delivering and letting them go, like-</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Man, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s tough.</p>
<p>Now, it&#8217;s worse for them. Like, I will always admit that it is worse for the person that, that&#8217;s being let go. But when you&#8217;re in that situation, like, you just became the villain in someone&#8217;s life story.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> And that&#8217;s something you have to, you have to live with, and, you know, those aren&#8217;t the, <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> the fun, sexy stories on LinkedIn that, that help get likes.</p>
<p>Um, but it is the honest truth of the, the emotional burden that comes, whether it&#8217;s personally or the responsibility to other people</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And I will say though that, um, I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s completely impossible to avoid that situation, but, but there are ways that you can improve it. And yeah, I mean, you&#8217;ve mentioned a few of them. If you have really good onboarding and really good hiring processes and, like you said, those quarterly reviews, things that will actually, you know, kinda keep</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause I mean, like what you said earlier, there&#8217;s a possibility that whatever&#8217;s going on, especially if they were a good hire, now they&#8217;re not, there&#8217;s probably something going on in their personal life. And if you don&#8217;t know what that is, then you might end up in a situation where you&#8217;re letting them go and you just don&#8217;t get it.</p>
<p>And it really is just something that they need a little bit of grace on to get through something, and then they&#8217;ll be back, right? Um, but yeah, they &#8230; I mean, that just goes right back to what your m- main point <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> is. If you don&#8217;t spend that time doing those things, then you&#8217;re gonna be a villain, villain pretty quickly, and nobody wants that, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> No, no,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So it&#8217;s worth it to spend the time.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> It is, even, even just for your own mental health.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right on. So let&#8217;s get into your soul a little bit. So tell me what&#8217;s exciting your business right now?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. Um, what I am really excited about, um, is we&#8217;re going through kind of a fundamental shift in, in our business, and it&#8217;s fun, it&#8217;s exciting, it&#8217;s scary. Um- Our current revenue model, uh, pretty heavily relies on affiliate marketing. Um, so full transparency, you know, you mentioned we teach people how to use credit card rewards.</p>
<p>We partner with the banks, and we get a commission if someone opens a credit card through us. We don&#8217;t hide that. We&#8217;re honest with people about it. Um, and what that means, though, is <span style="color:#808080">[00:34:00]</span> that we are always subject to the whims of the credit card companies. Our revenue is not&#8230; It&#8217;s not ours. Um, uh, and what I mean by that is if the banks change policies, if they decide to just not do it anymore, it really impacts our business.</p>
<p>Um, we saw this during the pandemic when our revenue dropped 80, 90% over the course of a, a couple of weeks. Um, so we&#8217;re really working to diversify that. Um, we have, uh, a BHAG, if you&#8217;re familiar with that term. If not, it&#8217;s a big, hairy, audacious goal. It&#8217;s, like, what&#8217;s, what&#8217;s that big goal that you&#8217;re really working towards?</p>
<p>Um, so our, the one we&#8217;re working towards right now is called FTB. It&#8217;s free the business. Um, and it doesn&#8217;t mean we don&#8217;t want our affiliate revenue, but it, it&#8217;s the&#8211; We know that we have accomplished it whenever we can cover 100% of our operating <span style="color:#808080">[00:35:00]</span> costs from non-affiliate revenue. Um, so because then we&#8217;re not subject to, to the banks.</p>
<p>If they change their policies, we don&#8217;t have to inherently react to the way that we operate. And this isn&#8217;t something we&#8217;re doing as a response to anything or from the banks. It&#8217;s about, like, we have a mission to, I mentioned before, to help connect dreams with reality, to educate our audience, to empower them to travel the world and save.</p>
<p>And so long as our revenue is dependent on factors that are outside of our control, that mission is at risk. And so we want to try to recapture as much of that control as, as we can so we can continue providing value for people, um, even if, even if the banks decide they don&#8217;t want to, to do affiliate marketing <span style="color:#808080">[00:36:00]</span> anymore. Um, if they wanna keep doing it, like it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s great, but we want to at least protect it, so that way we can be there in the long run, serving our, our community and our audience. Um, I&#8217;m really excited about it. It means we&#8217;re really having to rethink the value we provide to people. You know, we&#8217;ve always&#8230;</p>
<p>Our value proposition has always been- You don&#8217;t have to pay us anything. Like, if you get value, just use our links and someone else will pay us. Uh, whi- which is a really cool value proposition, right? To, to tell your audience, &quot;You don&#8217;t have to pay us anything to get value from, from our company.&quot; Um, but the truth is, is that that means that the value we provide is going to continuously be at risk.</p>
<p>So we want&#8211; I really wanna be sure that if our audience is providing us directly with, with their hard-earned dollars, that they&#8217;re truly getting good <span style="color:#808080">[00:37:00]</span> value, um, getting more return than what they, they are paying us, so that way it can be just a win-win relationship where they can get more value than what they&#8217;re paying, and they know that we&#8217;re gonna be around here for the long haul, uh, with their best interests in mind</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right on. So how does the program work?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah. Uh, so we typically tell people to start with our course. Um, they can go to 10xtravel.com to, to find it. Um, I know that it&#8217;s a lot to ask people to start with a course, but the reason why we do it is we feel that it&#8217;s important to be ethical and responsible, uh, educators in, in this space. You know, when we&#8217;re talking about credit cards, you and I were kinda chatting before, there&#8217;s definitely some risks to be aware of.</p>
<p>Like, you can easily go into debt. You can easily pay a lot of money. You can mess up your credit. And we don&#8217;t take those risks lightly, and that&#8217;s why <span style="color:#808080">[00:38:00]</span> we ask people to just check us out, start with our, our course. It&#8217;s free. Our c- our introductory course will always be free, um, because it, it sets that foundation to provide you with at least a little bit of baseline information to get started and to make the decision about if this is right for you.</p>
<p>Uh, without that, I don&#8217;t know that I would feel super comfortable telling people to just go open up credit cards. It&#8217;s let&#8217;s be sure that you&#8217;re educated about what you&#8217;re doing first and making the, the right decision for you and, and your family</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, that, I love that. That sounds so responsible too, because, I mean, we were talking a little bit before this, this call, and, and credit cards are so misunderstood and just so thrown out there. Like, people will just go and open up credit cards and open up store credit cards and just, just like nothing.</p>
<p>And okay, might be fine, right? But, but on the other hand, you know, there, there&#8217;s a lot of like, I don&#8217;t <span style="color:#808080">[00:39:00]</span> even know what I wanna call it, fine print, I guess, like, on, on how they work, and you can get yourself into trouble really quickly. And then the other aspect of it too, which just kind of goes through our society, is that we tend to not talk about money, and especially problems with money, with people around us, including our families.</p>
<p>A- and, and so you&#8217;ll end up, you&#8217;ll end up, you know, just struggling silently with this thing that was just pushed upon you with no education at all. And, and now, you know, you&#8217;re kind of in trouble. So i- I mean, if nothing else, I mean, if you&#8217;re offering a course on that, that&#8217;s enough I would think for anybody to just go take the course to understand a little bit more of it.</p>
<p>You could&#8230; I, I, I mean, do you have to&#8230; Like, is this a sort of something you could do anonymously as well? Or, like, how does that work?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Uh, so the, the online, the, like, text-based version of our course, uh, they do have to register for our software platform.</p>
<p>Um, but if you do wanna do it, uh, do it more anonymously, we actually have our own podcast, <span style="color:#808080">[00:40:00]</span> and the first six episodes of our podcast is the course in audio version.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, well, that&#8217;s great. What&#8217;s the podcast? Tell me more.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Uh, it&#8217;s called Take Off!</p>
<p>A Points and Miles Podcast by 10x Travel. So a lotta people kept asking us for an audiobook version of the course for years, and that just &#8230; Something just didn&#8217;t feel right about an audiobook</p>
<p>version. Um, and finally one day we said, &quot;What if we tried a podcast format?&quot; So we did. And, um, now the podcast keeps going, but it let us set that foundation, &quot;Hey, you don&#8217;t have to register.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to, to read it. If you wanna listen, there you go.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So is this something&#8230; Now, okay, I mean, if you don&#8217;t have a credit card yet and you&#8217;re listening to this podcast, go learn about it &#8217;cause it, it could get out of control really, really quickly. But I&#8217;m wondering, is this something that someone could benefit from if they already have credit cards and maybe they&#8217;re already in some trouble?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Yeah, definitely. Um, you know, if, if they&#8217;re already&#8230; I- if, if you <span style="color:#808080">[00:41:00]</span> already have credit cards and you&#8217;re managing it fine, you&#8217;ll learn how to optimize them to get more value from the credit cards you have or maybe change your card portfolio a bit. But also, if you&#8217;re already in trouble a little bit, some of that underlying knowledge and information just about how they work can help you better understand what you&#8217;re, what you&#8217;re dealing with, um, to work on fixing things, um, and just preparing yourself.</p>
<p>Um, in fact, we have an episode as well in our podcast with our, uh, social media manager and our community manager who he had to go through fully repairing his credit, um, before he, he could get started. Um, he had unfortunately, like, just gotten in a rough patch of life and his credit, um, wasn&#8217;t in a great spot.</p>
<p>Um, but it&#8217;s a wonderful story of how he went from rebuilding his credit, understanding it, and <span style="color:#808080">[00:42:00]</span> putting himself in a better position to, to manage it going forward, so that way he then could take advantage</p>
<p>of, of the credit cards</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s amazing. Yeah, because, I, I mean, that&#8217;s the, the flip side of it is that these, the point systems and, you know, all the, the cashback things and all the credit cards, they, they offer all these really good programs in a way. I mean, a lot of it is just free money. And, and that&#8217;s what kind of catches people off guard is &#8217;cause, uh, uh&#8230;</p>
<p>But, but I mean, the, the way I, I always thought about it is that, okay, nothing in this world is free. S- that doesn&#8217;t make any sense. So if they&#8217;re offering you this great, you know, travel pack where you&#8217;re gonna be able to go and take all these vacations and all that stuff, somebody&#8217;s paying for that somewhere, right?</p>
<p>And so I mean, if you&#8217;re, you know, uh, taking Travis&#8217;s courses and learning how to use it, and now all of a sudden you&#8217;ve got a situation where you&#8217;re benefiting from these programs, then that&#8217;s fantastic, but somebody isn&#8217;t, right? <span style="color:#808080">[00:43:00]</span> And, and I think that the, the, the goal really now is to not be that somebody who isn&#8217;t, right?</p>
<p>And, and try to get a little bit more education on that. And if it was easy, if, I mean, if it, if it was something that, oh, you know, it&#8217;s just a little mistake, well then they wouldn&#8217;t be giving free vacations away to people. Like, for&#8230; Like, it clearly is a big problem that people are getting themselves into, otherwise they wouldn&#8217;t have that kind of money to give back to people, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Exactly. Yeah. Um, between that and, uh, you know, if, if you have a business, you- and you take credit card payments, you know you&#8217;re paying, m- m- here in the</p>
<p>US maybe 2% or 3%.</p>
<p>every time someone swipes it. They, they&#8217;re making money there too.</p>
<p>Um, so it&#8217;s like if they&#8217;re taking that away from your, from your business, do whatever you can to, to get some of the pie back for</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Absolutely. Well, and, and that&#8217;s the part that I think probably people are like, &quot;Oh, but that&#8217;s where they make their money.&quot; Yes, that&#8217;s one of the places <span style="color:#808080">[00:44:00]</span> where they make their money, but interest is significantly more, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> those in- those interest rates are a lot more than 2% to 3%.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, absolutely. Right on. Okay, so we&#8217;re running out of time here. I got one more question. This might be the hardest one. Who&#8217;s your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Ooh. Uh, you know, here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ll say. Um I&#8217;m gonna twist it a little bit because I, I have way too many come to mind. The best live show that I&#8217;ve ever been to,</p>
<p>if this is a fair twist, uh, proud to say Lady Gaga,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> on such an incredible performance. We saw her here in Houston, and had so many flames going that you could feel the heat every time that, that it came off.</p>
<p>Um, really just incredible. Um, I&#8217;ll probably <span style="color:#808080">[00:45:00]</span> also give a shout-out to the Foo Fighters, who I saw at Austin City Limits, I think two, maybe three years ago. Um, they&#8217;ve been doing it a long time. They know how to work a crowd. They know how to put on a great show. And part of what made it, uh, extra special was they were performing at the same time as Shania Twain, and my wife really wanted to go to Shania.</p>
<p>And I said, &quot;Shania has her Vegas residency, so we can go see her in Vegas. I don&#8217;t know when we&#8217;ll get to see the Foo Fighters again.&quot; Well, Shania finished 30 minutes before the Foo Fighters and came over and got up on stage and sang Best of You with the Foo Fighters, so, uh, yeah, great. Just great being out there at, like, 9:30 at night. At least getting to see both of them, um, was, was also really, really memorable</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That is so awesome. Thank you <span style="color:#808080">[00:46:00]</span> so much, Travis, for rocking out with me today. This has been a lot of fun.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Travis Cormier:</strong> Thanks, Tim. I really enjoyed it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. And to the listeners, make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information, and we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work At Home Rockstar podcast</p></div>
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<p>What happens when you achieve everything you thought you wanted, only to realize you have lost part of yourself along the way? In this episode of the Work at Home Rockstar Podcast, Tim Melanson sits down with <a href="https://randyvlasic.com">Randy Vlasic</a>, Founder and CEO of LIWMI Logistics, to discuss the lessons that came from building, selling, and rebuilding businesses while redefining what success really means.</p>
<p>Randy shares his journey from struggling in school to becoming an entrepreneur, selling his first company at 29, and navigating the identity crisis that followed. He explains how faith, mentorship, personal responsibility, and a renewed sense of purpose helped him rebuild his life beyond business results.</p>
<p>The conversation also explores sales mastery, remote leadership, market volatility, AI tools, goal setting, family interruptions, and creating a business that supports both your people and your values. Randy offers a grounded perspective on building something meaningful without allowing success to become your entire identity.</p>
<h2>Who is Randy Vlasic?</h2>
<p><a href="https://randyvlasic.com">Randy Vlasic</a> is the Founder and CEO of LIWMI Logistics, a tech-enabled freight brokerage built on disciplined execution, accountability, and people-first leadership. He leads a fully remote team and believes that trust, structure, and responsibility—not physical proximity—create high-performing organizations.</p>
<p>After building and exiting companies early in his career, Randy learned that success without responsibility, faith, and personal growth is unsustainable. Today, he speaks openly about leadership, mastery, fear, identity, and the ongoing work of becoming the kind of person capable of carrying success well in business, family, and life.</p></div>
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<p>Success can become dangerous when it turns into your identity. Randy’s experience after selling his first company is a reminder that entrepreneurs need a purpose, relationships, and sense of self that exist beyond revenue, titles, and business milestones.</p>
<p>Strong leadership is not about controlling every hour of someone’s day. Randy’s remote-team philosophy focuses on clear expectations, accountability, trust, and measurable results, giving people the freedom to work while still taking responsibility for their performance.</p>
<p>Mastery matters more than motivation. Whether the topic is sales, leadership, reading, or personal development, Randy returns to the value of practicing consistently, learning from experience, and improving through repetition instead of waiting to feel inspired.</p>
<p>The tools may change, but clarity still comes first. Randy uses AI to support his business, yet he also relies on pen and paper to define his vision and work through important decisions. The practical takeaway is to use technology intentionally without abandoning the habits that help you think clearly.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Welcome and Introductions<br />00:30 Early Success Story<br />01:53 Lessons from MLM<br />04:13 Hustle Mindset and Payroll<br />06:41 Darkest Moment After Exit<br />07:51 Rebuilding Identity and Mission<br />08:59 Leading Through Market Crash<br />10:30 People First Leadership<br />12:24 Practice and Mastery<br />14:48 Belief and Real Sales<br />17:07 Building Solutions in Logistics<br />17:56 Home Office Upgrade<br />19:52 Family Interruptions<br />22:28 Results Over Hours<br />25:01 AI Business Tools<br />26:41 Pen Paper Vision<br />29:44 Reading With ADHD<br />30:35 New Movement Launch<br />32:39 Where To Follow<br />33:11 Favorite Rock Star<br />33:59 Final Sign Off</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello, and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rockstar podcast. I love this next guest&#8217;s, uh, business name. This is really, really cool. He&#8217;s the president, founder, and CEO of LIWMI Logistics, and what that means is Life Is What We Make It. Love that. That&#8217;s so cool. And what he does is he, he inspires people to take control of their lives and build something meaningful.</p>
<p>Very excited to be rockin&#8217; out today with Randy Vlasic. Hey, Randy, you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Let&#8217;s go. Let&#8217;s rock, Tim. Thanks for having me on the show</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Love it. So we always start off on a good note. So tell me a story of success so we can be inspired by.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Oh, wow. Okay. Um, you know, when I was a kid, I, I wasn&#8217;t a great student. So just, just to give you a brief, um, uh, start of where, where I got started, I, I&#8230; When I was in school, I didn&#8217;t really do well because I didn&#8217;t love what I was doing and I didn&#8217;t apply it. So I, I, I didn&#8217;t really have that curiosity to go and learn it, right?</p>
<p>So as I got older, I kind of had to figure out my way and, um, and I did. So I, I started to get obsessed with trying to find, um, people <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> that were successful and try to, to copy some of their habits and learn from them so that I could do the same thing. So I went through retail and multi-level marketing, but I ended up into, in, in logistics eventually in my early 20s.</p>
<p>Uh, started out in sales, did really, really well, and eventually decided to start my own company. So I started my first company in 2014. Um, I, I, I, uh, was mid-20s at the time. I, I was doing sales for about four years, but I ended up building that company and, and selling it, um, two years later for, for seven figures, um, when I was 29. So it was, it was a wild ride, you know, up to that point and getting to there. It was just a, a whole, a whole, you know, river of different rapids and decisions that came about and, um, you know, I always choosed, always chose the challenging path and wanted to grow as an individual and it, it worked out. So that was probably the biggest success in my early in my, early on in my career</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow, that&#8217;s amazing. I, uh, I went through the multi-level marketing industry as well, and, uh, you know what? You learn a lot through that, <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> don&#8217;t you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> You know, it was probably one, I, I think one of the best experiences that I had because, you know, with the MLM model, like, it, it was about selling somebody a dream, right? And for me as a young kid who didn&#8217;t really have a college education, like, I was always looking for that. So when I found somebody who was making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year that told me I could do that, I was in.</p>
<p>You know, like, there it wasn&#8217;t any hesitation. I was jumping, um, both feet in at the same time, right? And so I got into it and the&#8230; I learned so much from so many of those people that were successful in the MLM model. It also forced me to become really good at recruiting, right? So getting to know people, finding out what makes them tick, trying to in- to, to sell them a dream and help them understand my vision of where I was going and how they fit into that.</p>
<p>And so I think I took a lot away from multi-level marketing in the business</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, me too. And I don&#8217;t think a lot of people necessarily think of that getting into it. I think first of all, they&#8217;re trying to make a, a buck real quick, which is, it isn&#8217;t. <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> I mean, it&#8217;s a, it&#8217;s a course really. It takes you a little bit of time to g- to get through it. And then, and then, um, you know, just, uh, the, the number of people that I know that didn&#8217;t necessarily make a bunch of money in multi-level marketing, although some of them did, and I made some money as well, but were able to just spin off and t- and start a business out of that, that actually did do well, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s crazy.</p>
<p>I mean, you&#8217;d, you know, you, you don&#8217;t hear those stories very often. You hear about the people that failed, right? You know, and, and, and are complaining about it. Mm</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, no doubt. I mean, people made it work. There were people making hundreds of thousands of dollars. I saw, you know, my wife I met in, in that multi-level marketing company. I saw her make, you know, it was insurance, mortgages, and investments, and, um, hence why I got out in 2008. But I saw a lot of people, uh, uh, you know, earn a good living there.</p>
<p>I mean, I was 22 at the time, 23, and I was making, you know, $90,000 in that space. And, um, so at the time I thought I was doing really <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> good and it, you know</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, you did a lot better than most do it, that&#8217;s for sure. That&#8217;s, that&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, so</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> though, um, when you mentioned the guys that spun off, I think almost everybody that was on my team is now running a different company and doing really good</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. It, it&#8217;s one of those things where if you do, if you do take it seriously and you do learn the things that you&#8217;re gonna learn, uh, you can&#8217;t, uh, it&#8217;s very difficult to go back to a job at that point. You know, you don&#8217;t, you&#8217;re, you, you have, like, control of your life, or you at least learn that it&#8217;s possible, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, that was like the first point in my life where I was like, you know, A equals B, right? If I put in the effort, I get the result. And so when there were days where I was like, &quot;Man, I can&#8217;t pay my, I can&#8217;t pay my car payment. I need to go sell something,&quot; like I went and sold something, you know? But that&#8217;s the first time you&#8217;re like, &quot;Man, this really works and I can do this.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and that feels very similar to when you do start your own y- you know, your own self-employed business as well. I mean, it&#8217;s, I, I just remember sitting in that cubicle being an employee, and I mean, if money&#8217;s tight, what do you <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> do? Nothing. You just sit there and wait, I guess, for your next paycheck.</p>
<p>Whereas when you&#8217;re, when you&#8217;ve got your own thing, it&#8217;s just like to your point, it&#8217;s like, &quot;Okay, well, I need some extra money. Well, if I go and hustle today, you know, maybe I can, you know, pull in an extra sale and&#8230;&quot; Right? I mean, it, it,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> There&#8217;s always a</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> of that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, that&#8217;s correct. There&#8217;s always a way, it&#8217;s just, it&#8217;s just finding that way, right? And then going out and being able to execute on that. And sometimes it&#8217;s really weird, right? Sometimes that, that unique scenario that you&#8217;re in, um, you know, I know we&#8217;re gonna get more into this, but, um, when I started this company, LIWMI Logistics, which we&#8217;re a third-party, you know, transportation arrangement, it was in, uh, right after COVID happened.</p>
<p>Well, we had this big influx of inventory that came into the market in, uh, 2022, and then in 2023 the market dropped o- dropped off. There was so much inventory, there was no trucking movement. I&#8217;d just hired a brand new employees and I, I couldn&#8217;t make payroll, and I was like, &quot;I gotta find out, find <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> another way to make some money.&quot;</p>
<p>Well, I had this forum that I was running with other freight broker owners I&#8217;d put together through Facebook Marketplace, and one of them was wanting to start a, a freight brokerage in California. So I actually went, went out to California and launched her company at the same time I was building mine. So I set up a six-month consulting agreement just to pay the payroll,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> so I could get my business back to stable before I went out and, you know, was able to come back to it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. That, that&#8217;s the thing, right? I mean, it really does teach you that problem-solving mindset of like, &quot;Hey, I&#8217;m in control. Hey, life is what you make it,&quot; right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Right. Well, we make it, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Life</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> I don&#8217;t think anything in life we can do by ourselves. It always takes more than one</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, I love that. So now, along with the, the good note, sometimes there&#8217;s some things that don&#8217;t go as planned. So I do like to talk about the bad note because it seems as though that is the number one thing that holds people back from getting started. They think, &quot;What could go wrong?&quot;</p>
<p>Right? And I like to talk about it because, uh, uh, I- there&#8217;s probably something that went wrong, and you&#8217;re still here. <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> So can you tell us, you know, something that went wrong and, and how you recovered?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, I think, um, there&#8217;s two really major times in my career that, that stand out to me. The first one is, is I didn&#8217;t really know myself. Like, my identity wasn&#8217;t really great when I was, uh, s- running my first company because it was all about money and profits and making money, right? And that&#8217;s all I cared about, and I built my entire life, right, my whole identity was built around this business that I created.</p>
<p>It didn&#8217;t have anything to do with anything outside of that. And then when I sold it, you know, I had all this money, but I didn&#8217;t have that business anymore. So it was like I lost it, and I didn&#8217;t know really who I was anymore. So for a year, I was, like, probably in the darkest place I&#8217;ve ever been. You know, I got, I got really depressed at the time, and I started to really look back at some of the things that I did as a, as a leader in that business and some of the lives that I impacted and some of the bad decisions that I made.</p>
<p>There was a lot of people that I reached out to, and I, I apologized You know, but I had to find my identity, and so I, I started to get back into church, and I <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> started to, to find other people in my life that could help me get out of that, that were mentors and that were in, in good places. And, um, you know, there were a couple friends that I made through that journey that really helped, helped get out of that, and helped me get started and build Life is What We Make It.</p>
<p>And so that&#8217;s kind of where this whole concept came from, right? Life is What We Make It. It was about people building each other up, bringing each other together. That was a really dark place in my life, and so I think finding my identity was a, was, um, one of the most important things. Because before I could build anything, I needed to know who I was first, right?</p>
<p>And, you know, at the end of the day, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m a man of God, I&#8217;m a father, I&#8217;m a husband. Um, I&#8217;m a builder. And the&#8230; What my, my concept is is what Life is What We Make It is, is to deliver inspiration, inspire people to take ownership of their lives and build something meaningful. LIWMI Logistics, that freight brokerage company, that&#8217;s the tool that we use to enable everybody to do that.</p>
<p>You know, it&#8217;s not about just profits. It&#8217;s about using that as the tool to help people achieve the lives they want. The, the <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> second one is the one I just told you about, where, you know, the market crashed and, uh, I lost about 60% of my business. We didn&#8217;t lose customers, we just lost volume, you know? And, um, and, and I didn&#8217;t know what I was gonna do.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t know how I was gonna make payroll. And I just randomly, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Hey, you know, maybe I&#8217;ll ask if, if I can start this other company for, for this lady I&#8217;m coaching.&quot; And she was in. And so that was it. I was running two companies at the same time. I&#8217;d have the same meeting schedule, back-to-back meetings.</p>
<p>You know, I&#8217;d run with, with my team, then I&#8217;d run with her team, and I was building her team at the same time I was building mine. I did that for six months, and I was traveling all over the place, and it was, it was wild. And, um, it was a cool thing, too, because, you know, you go back to the MLM model, you know, the people that I had just hired, like, I had just sold them this dream about how awesome this was gonna be and how we were making so much money and where we were going with the business, and they come on board, and then all of a sudden the business tanks.</p>
<p>You know? And a lot of them took a chance on me. Like, they were taking pay cuts to come here because they knew this was a good opportunity, and they, they&#8217;ve worked with me in the <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> past, and they knew what I was about. And so now I had to show up for them. I can&#8217;t just go lay these people off. You know, I could&#8217;ve, but then I went back to being a self-operator, so I had to find another way.</p>
<p>And that, um, was weird, right? Like, trying to come up with an alternative solution. I&#8217;ve never actually coached somebody before. I had to figure out how to coach them. At the same time, like, I&#8217;ve never ran two companies at the same time, so this is kind of scary. But you know what? I gotta do it, and this is a great opportunity.</p>
<p>And then, you know, I just dove in.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Wow, that&#8217;s amazing. Now, is there anything that you do differently coming out of those experiences like that, that you learn from?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah. You know, the, um&#8230; After selling my first company and really thinking about the relationships that I had, you know, I, I, I didn&#8217;t have a lot of relationships from that previous company. Um, I was so focused on the results that I didn&#8217;t really spend enough time on, on focusing on the individual and really getting to know them, and so I realized that <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> afterwards.</p>
<p>And so now, you know, if&#8230; I, I would hope that if you&#8217;d ask anybody on my team, they&#8217;d say that I am 100%&#8230; I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m really a softie at heart and I care, and I always wanna make sure that I am doing everything I possibly can to make them successful before we ever get to a place where, you know, it&#8217;s not working out right and we have to go the other way.</p>
<p>And so getting to know them, um, is really important to me and, and what makes them tick. You know, I like learning about their interests because let&#8217;s face it, like, their job is not what they&#8217;re passionate, uh, their most passionate thing in their life, right? There&#8217;s something else. It&#8217;s being a musician or, you know, running a podcast or having a, a Twitch channel or a stream or whatever that can be, or their kid&#8217;s in soccer.</p>
<p>And so if I learn about those things, then, you know, I can use LIWMI Logistics as a tool to, to help them achieve some of the things they wanna accomplish there too. You know, maybe it&#8217;s sending somebody some nice equipment so they can start their Twitch channel or, you know, giving them a, a, you know, a, a giant <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> soccer net that I had sitting around that we&#8217;re not using because I know their kid loves soccer.</p>
<p>And sometimes those small things just make such a big difference. So I really try to focus in on the, um, just on the person and really getting to know them. I genuinely love people</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and figuring out the why, right? Because that is, that is the reason why people get out of bed. There&#8217;s gotta be a reason, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> 100%, yeah. And everybody&#8217;s different. Sometimes it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s surprising</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, it is. Let&#8217;s talk a little bit about practicing. So, uh, I mean, this can go anywhere, but I&#8217;m wondering what, what does practice mean to you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Uh, you know, I call it, um, mastery, right? It&#8217;s like I- I- for me to learn something, first I have to, I have to be interested in it. I have to generate that curiosity to really want to learn it, right? So just like as an instrument, if I wanna learn how to play the guitar, I&#8217;m doing that because I love the guitar.</p>
<p>I love the way it sounds. I wanna get in there, and I wanna, wanna understand it. So now I&#8217;m watching the YouTube videos. There&#8217;s passion there and excitement. So I have to have that curiosity, number one, but once I have that, it&#8217;s just em- um, embracing it, right? I think <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> mastery comes from stepping into that environment and getting to know that environment, and then putting yourself in that uncomfortable situation and getting comfortable in it, right?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s like getting on a podcast for the first time. You don&#8217;t really know if you&#8217;re gonna say the right things. A lot of times you probably don&#8217;t. But the more times that you&#8217;re in that environment, you know, the more comfortable you get in it, the, and the more mastery or, or, or the better you get at that craft.</p>
<p>I mean, I use sales as an example, too, &#8217;cause I&#8217;ve seen so many people who&#8217;ll be like, &quot;Well, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m struggling in sales.&quot; Well, what do you need? Well, they&#8217;ll say, &quot;Well, I need more training. You know, I need more training. I wish I had&#8230; There was this secret thing.&quot; And it&#8217;s, there&#8217;s no secret sauce to say, &quot;Hey, if you said this, you&#8217;re gonna close 90% of your deals.&quot;</p>
<p>There isn&#8217;t. For m- most of them, I just like to say, &quot;You know what? Practice makes perfect. You gotta be on the phone. You have to be talking to somebody. You have to be in that environment. You have to be getting hit with objections. When you get those, when you get stuck, bring that to me. Let&#8217;s work through some of those things.&quot;</p>
<p>But we can train on everything today, but <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> until you put it into practice, it&#8217;s really not gonna stick, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, and, and I found, I found something really fascinating to me is that when you do that kind of coaching with multiple people in your team, it&#8217;s interesting that there are some objections that are the same that everybody gets, but there&#8217;s also, like, differences as well. And do you find that that&#8217;s, that that happens to you as well, that certain people get certain objections all the time?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, I think it, um, it depends on how that individual&#8217;s delivering themselves sometimes, I think, right? The, the objections, a lot of, lot of objections are similar. Um, but sometimes it&#8217;s just that the way that the person is delivering a certain topic or, or the questions that they&#8217;re asking that they&#8217;ll get at the same objection that somebody else may not be getting.</p>
<p>So sometimes it is that individual</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and it may, it might have something to do with just the belief and that aspect of whatever it is that they&#8217;re offering, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah. I mean, belief is the biggest thing, right? It&#8217;s, if you can believe in what you&#8217;re <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> selling, you know, you&#8217;re gonna be more successful, right? I always, I always use it as this ex- use this example. Like, if you, if I came to you, Tim, and I was like, &quot;Hey, I know you have cancer, and I have the cure for cancer, and I wanna give that to you, but it&#8217;s gonna cost you $100,000.&quot;</p>
<p>Now, cancer is a significant thing, right? You&#8211; if, if, if you had the funds then you, you probably would say yes. But let&#8217;s just say you&#8217;re like, &quot;No, I don&#8217;t, I don&#8217;t really want this.&quot; My, my conviction on this, this, this cure, though. You&#8217;re like, &quot;No one&#8217;s ever done this before.&quot; I&#8217;m like, &quot;No, but I know this.&quot; The way that I feel about selling you this pill, the conviction is so strong that I can&#8217;t s- I can&#8217;t let you say no, Tim.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> You know, you have to say yes, and so I&#8217;ll have to find a way to do that. That&#8217;s always an example I like to use</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yep, it&#8217;s true. Yeah, and, and, and yeah, I mean, that&#8217;s the thing is that if the person doesn&#8217;t want on the other side, then it, it, it&#8217;s really just a mismatch in what they&#8217;re looking for. And then that just probably comes down to more questions. You know, you <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> didn&#8217;t ask the right questions to find out if they actually had cancer in the first place, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yep.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> I mean, that&#8217;s an odd example, but yes.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, I mean, it all comes down to, you know, to understanding the individual that we&#8217;re talking to. Like s- I don&#8217;t think sales is some&#8230; There&#8217;s definitely some technique to it, but most of it is just building a relationship and then getting to know what makes the person tick and what they&#8217;re trying to accomplish, and helping them do that.</p>
<p>So if we can identify that problem and give them the solution, then there&#8217;s a good chance they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re gonna take it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yep. And I do think that o- as time goes on too, uh, I mean, the, the, you know, the, the tricks, I guess, are less effective as more time goes on, I think, because, uh, I think that, um, you know, especially with AI coming out and all that stuff, there&#8217;s lots of, of, you know, tactics and things that you can use. But really people do business with people, and so the more real you are about, you know, yourself, you know, they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re gonna be attracted to you &#8217;cause they like you, you know, rather than the next person over there that can sell them the same thing, right?</p>
<p>And oftentimes that&#8217;s the <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> thing, is it&#8217;s a lot of different people offering the same solution. Why would they choose you, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, so</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> I, even in, in the logistics side of things, I mean, I could give you an example. You know, we roll out LTL as a service, which is less than truckload. It was a new service offering we had, and we&#8217;ve never done it before. And I&#8217;ve, I have done it at my previous companies and managed, you know, $50 million of it.</p>
<p>But, you know, as a new service offering, going to a customer and being able to say, &quot;Listen, I know you guys are doing this. I know there&#8217;s opportunity there. I know I can offer a solution, and I wanna build that for you, and I want you to be the one to help me build that. Help, help me understand what&#8217;s important so that I can build this solution to really meet your need.&quot;</p>
<p>And they love that stuff. You know, it&#8217;s not just like, &quot;Hey, let me sell you LTL.&quot; It&#8217;s like, &quot;Let me- let&#8217;s make this together.&quot; You</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I love that. I love that. Hey, your, uh, your background looks awesome. That, is it, that&#8217;s a real background, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> It is, it is, yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So let&#8217;s talk a little bit about your jam room. So what does your home <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> office look like?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Oh, man, it is a production studio, Tim. I love my home office, um, so much, and I&#8217;ve invested a ton of money into it and, and time. And, you know, when I first started working from home in 2017, I think it was, um, you know, I had a, I had an office room, and it had this big giant desk in it, and it had another desk in it, and it had a, a file cabinet and all this stuff in there.</p>
<p>And, like, I had a standup desk that sat on top of that, and it was just cluttered. And it wasn&#8217;t, um, a place that I really loved because it was like the storage closet, right? My wife would, like, she needed to h- to stick something somewhere, she&#8217;d put it in the office, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> So I got stuff all over the place and I&#8217;m like, &quot;I hate this.&quot;</p>
<p>You know, when I walk into work every day I&#8217;m like, &quot;Man, this environment is just not, it&#8217;s not motivating me,&quot; you know? And, uh, so I&#8217;m like, we had this, this room in the front of the house. I, I called it the museum room. It was the room where, like, we had all the nice furniture but nobody ever really sat in it.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> And I&#8217;m like, &quot;I&#8217;m taking the museum room over.&quot; So I <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> took that over. I have, um, the VariDesk, which is one of my favorite desks. They&#8217;re just super durable. They&#8217;re kind of expensive, but Vari makes them. Um, it&#8217;s a standup desk. Underneath me I have a, um, uh, a treadmill. So I typically like to walk when I&#8217;m working during the day.</p>
<p>I sit down when I&#8217;m doing stuff like this. But I spent a lot of time, you know, in, in getting good equipment, cameras and lights and, and making this a place that I really love to come into, and sometimes I&#8217;ll come in here for fun, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That is awesome.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome, yeah. And, and, and that&#8217;s just it. I mean, if, if your, if your job is at home and you&#8217;re not excited to get into your office, then how are you really gonna get anything done, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> That&#8217;s right. So I, I definitely love this space. You know, my kids love, love this space too, and I like to keep it clean and tidy when I can, and yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Uh, have you, uh, do, do you have an issue with, like, people interrupting you during the day at all, or?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Um, yeah, <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> sometimes. I mean, my kids are&#8230; You know, my son&#8217;s on this e-bike kick, right? And so it&#8217;s like every time he needs something with the e-bike, he just walks in, he&#8217;s like, &quot;I need new tires. I need new brakes,&quot; whatever it may be. And so he&#8217;ll walk in, and sometimes it happens, but for the most part, you know, they can hear me or they see that I&#8217;m on a call, and they know that, you know, when Dad&#8217;s on a call, don&#8217;t bother him.</p>
<p>Um, and then they&#8217;ll come in, and they&#8217;ll sometimes they&#8217;ll just give me a wave and they&#8217;ll walk by, and I&#8217;ll know they need something, and I&#8217;ll go find them afterwards. And sometimes, you know, I just had an example where I was having a conversation with a, an employee the other day, and my son, he just made the honor roll, right?</p>
<p>Comes home from school super excited. He comes running into my office. I can see the excitement on his face, and I know, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Man, this is something I probably need to listen to.&quot; And I, I asked, you know, the employee, I was like, &quot;Hey, man, listen, can you give me a couple minutes? Can I call you right back?&quot;</p>
<p>Had him sit down and tell me all about it. He was so excited. Um, so there&#8217;s times like that, too, you know, where I, I, I will, uh, uh, stop what I&#8217;m doing to give him the time, and I think that&#8217;s the benefit of working from home, right? You&#8217;d have the same interactions if you&#8217;re sitting at a desk in a cubicle.</p>
<p>Someone&#8217;s gonna walk up to you and bother you in the middle of the day, and you&#8217;re gonna <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> stop what you&#8217;re doing and talk to them. So rather it be my kid, you know-</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Oh, absolutely. And, uh, I mean, I think that this kind of thing maybe might keep people from starting a business from home, thinking that, &quot;Oh, I&#8217;m just gonna get interrupted all day,&quot; and I don&#8217;t know how&#8230; And, and number one, I think kids espe- especially more than adults, they get it faster, right? I mean, if you, you know, maybe, um, and I know when I first g- started working from home long before lockdowns and all that stuff, people didn&#8217;t quite understand it.</p>
<p>They thought I could help them move &#8217;cause I was doing nothing.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> That&#8217;s right.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> right? But</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> go golfing?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> go ahead</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> You know, or somebody asks you to go golfing or whatever during the day, I&#8217;m like, &quot;I&#8217;m working.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. They&#8217;re like, &quot;Ah, I got the day off, let&#8217;s go golfing.&quot; And you&#8217;re like, &quot;Oh, come on.&quot; But, but I, I think that for, for kids it&#8217;s like th- they don&#8217;t know any different, so it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s a matter of like, &quot;Oh, Dad works from home, so he&#8217;s working.</p>
<p>Like, okay, I gotta leave him alone.&quot; So you, you do find that. But then the, the next thing you mentioned about when your kid comes in, how do you think that, like, the, the, how did the customer react when <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> you had to go for a second?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Um, it w- it wasn&#8217;t a customer. If it was a customer, I- typically I would tell my son, &quot;I&#8217;ll- give me a minute and I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;ll reach out to you.&quot; Unless it&#8217;s somebody that I&#8217;m really close with and I could say, &quot;Hey, David, you know, we&#8217;ve worked together for a long time. Can I just call you back in a minute?&quot; I think the customer will respond, uh, well to that.</p>
<p>You know, I, I, most people find, like, when it&#8217;s something that&#8217;s really important to you like that, like your kids and, you know, they have kids and they can share in that too, like, they&#8217;ll, they&#8217;ll promote that. I think as somebody who&#8217;s considering to work from home, you know, man, I have kids at home, and is that an interruption?</p>
<p>Like, yeah, I think working from home is the absolute best because it gives us more flexibility than working in an office. First of all, I&#8217;m saving, you know, whatever it is, 13, 30 minutes, half an hour, an hour drive time each single, every single day. If I was working late, I&#8217;m working at the office, so I can&#8217;t just come out and have dinner with my family and go back in.</p>
<p>Here I can do that, right? I can step out, I can go ha- have a meal with my family, I can get them off to school. I can come back in, I can get back to work. And I think that&#8217;s <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> the, that&#8217;s where working from home really is super valuable, and I think that work-life balance that it provides to our employees too is the same, you know?</p>
<p>Like I have, we have people that their kids get off the bus at 3:00. Every day at 3:00, they&#8217;re going to get their kid from the bus. Like it- that&#8217;s great. Go get your kid from the bus. Like I don&#8217;t expect you to sit here from 8:00 to 5:00 and work nonstop and, and ignore everything that&#8217;s going around you. All what I care about is, you know, did we meet the KPIs and the expectations?</p>
<p>Are we getting the results that we need, you know? That&#8217;s all that matters to me. If you can&#8211; If you&#8217;re a salesperson that can deliver exceptional results better than any other salesperson and do it in four hours, nobody&#8217;s pissed off about that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> You&#8217;re leading the sales team, but you&#8217;re gonna do it in four hours.</p>
<p>Everybody else is doing less, and they&#8217;re doing it in eight. Like no one&#8217;s mad about that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah. Uh, well, number one, I, I agree. I, I think that clients and, and team members actually, I think it probably benefits you to show that you&#8217;re a human and you have, you know, y- <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> you love your kids and that kind of stuff, right? Like, I think that that&#8217;s a super benefit. And then the second part that you mentioned too, like, yeah, I mean, there&#8217;s just so many people in the corporate world that are focused on how much time they&#8217;re at the office rather than what kind of productivity that they&#8217;re producing.</p>
<p>And I mean, that&#8217;s really what&#8217;s important. And w- as business owners, we should be more interested in what they&#8217;re producing rather than how much time they&#8217;re sitting at their desk, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> I mean, it all comes down to results, you know? And I definitely don&#8217;t wanna be the person that has to micromanage you. You know, I can &#8230; I don&#8217;t need a software tool that runs on everybody&#8217;s laptop that tells me, you know, what they&#8217;re doing ni- every single minute of the day. I just need to know that our business KPIs are this, you know, maybe it&#8217;s Y, and we need to hit that KPI.</p>
<p>And so as long as we&#8217;re hitting that metric and that metric is, is operating, great. Now, if we&#8217;re not hitting that metric, then we&#8217;re having a conversation about that. But I&#8217;m not sitting there going, &quot;Hey, you&#8217;re, you, you turned yellow for, for 30 minutes. Like, what have you been doing?&quot; Like, I don&#8217;t wanna be that guy.</p>
<p>I wanna give that to the team and let them run with it, <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. So what tools do you use in your business to get you success?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Um, well, I think my home setup is my biggest, my biggest tool. This is a command center, right? From a, from a digital standpoint, I am having so much fun with artificial intelligence.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> So much fun with it. I am, uh, you know, I, I&#8217;m, I am not, uh, a programmer by all means. You know, I&#8217;ve launched a personal branding website.</p>
<p>I just launched, um, lifeiswhatwemakeit.com, which is, is about giving, giving back to, to, to drivers. And so there&#8217;s, you know, gear that we sell and stuff like that, and then we give proceeds to, to the driving community and give them healthy meals. And like, you know, I&#8217;ve built that stuff and, and by myself in a matter of hours.</p>
<p>You know, I remember when I first built my first website for LIWMI Logistics, it cost me $10,000 to build that. You know, when I went to go build randyvlasich.com, they wanted 4,000. Then I found AI, and I was like, &quot;Pfft,&quot; and I built it in three hours by myself, and I never coded a <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> single thing before, right? So I&#8217;m also using AI a lot of times, like, to be my executive assistant.</p>
<p>It sends me an update every single morning in my email. It tells me where the numbers are at. So I&#8217;m us- loving AI in that way. It&#8217;s making me&#8230; It&#8217;s like unlocking superpowers for me. Like, it fills all the gaps that I had, and all the things that I hated doing, it does those great.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Ugh, I can&#8217;t say enough about it as well. All that left brain stuff, right? I mean, it allows you to be creative and it lets all the monotonous stuff, it does it for you, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Time-consuming stuff. Like just, you know, I can come up with the, the, the content that I wanna deliver, it can help me build it, and then I can just do it, or I can have it run an analysis, and then I can just validate it for a customer. From an analog perspective, um, you know, I, I, I like to read a little bit.</p>
<p>Um, I&#8217;m not great at it, but I do like to read a little bit. My favorite tool, my favorite instrument though would definitely be the pen.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Um, I love fountain pens, and I think everything starts for me with the pen. <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> And, you know, when you th- when I- we talk about goals and things like that, like I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m a &#8230; I like to journal every single day.</p>
<p>I like to, to ta- to see how my day went. It forces me to slow down, to, to think intentionally, to write it down. And then when I get into the business side of thing, when it comes to planning, like I like to just un- disconnect from, from the digital world, and, and just sit there and really just write, plan, strategy, mind map.</p>
<p>Um, even like my business, uh, business vision, right? I mean, we all have goals in life. I think vision&#8217;s, the vision of it is the most important, and having a document to me is, is the best because if I can look out three years in my business, and I have it written down on a piece of paper, and I have that in front of me every single day, I&#8217;m always looking at it.</p>
<p>And if I get off track, I can very specifically see where I&#8217;m off track and what I need to fix. And so for my vision, I like to look out three years and then write it in present tense. What do I see in the, ar- around me? What are we doing as a remote company? What are we, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> philanthropic things are we doing?</p>
<p>What are we doing as a, as a community? How are we getting together? How are we helping other people? And I can write that in, in present tense and then have that document to do it. So for me, it&#8217;s definitely a pen and paper.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Wow. That&#8217;s amazing. Yeah, and so you do&#8230; It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s almost affirmations, I guess, right? Where you write it in the present tense</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah. So, um, yeah, just like affirmations, right? I&#8217;m a successful person. I&#8217;m, uh, you know, I&#8217;m a CEO of a $100 million company and, uh, we have a worldwide remote team and, you know, we&#8217;re, we&#8217;re getting featured in, in a lot of different articles, and companies are coming to us and they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re asking us how we, how we run the successful remote team, and they&#8217;re learning from us and operationally how they do it.</p>
<p>Like, it, it puts you in that environment, right? And then you can, you can see that</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And they work. I mean, I know a lot of people think that they don&#8217;t, uh, but it is, it is sort of this magic, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah, I mean, otherwise, you know, the, the alternative is, and I&#8217;ve done it too, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Hey, I got an Excel file that has what I wanna be as an individual, what I wanna be as a <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> business owner, what do I wanna be as a father and a husband,&quot; right? And I got all these, these things that I wanna accomplish. But that sits in a file in a folder that I never have opened.</p>
<p>So the only time that I&#8217;m seeing that is if I&#8217;m doing, you know, intentional reviews weekly, quarterly, monthly. But if I have a document that sits on my desk, I can share that document with somebody else now. So when I interview somebody for a job, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Hey, read this first. Tell me what you think about it.</p>
<p>Where do you see yourself fitting into it?&quot; Now I have something that&#8217;s tangible</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I love that. I love that. You know, the, the physical, there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s something to be said about that, and even physical books, right? Rather than, um, you know, e-books or even audiobooks. I mean, audiobooks are super helpful because you can listen to them while you&#8217;re doing something else. But the physical books, I mean, there is something to be said for it, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> 100%. I, uh, the books that I read, um &#8230; So I have attention deficit disorder, ADHD. So typically when I read a book by myself, I read a book or I read a whole chapter sometimes, and I get to the end and I&#8217;m like, &quot;What did, what did I just read? I don&#8217;t even remember what happened.&quot; I have to go read it again. And so what I&#8217;ve <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> learned is, that works best for me is I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;ll order the book as an audiobook, and I&#8217;ll listen to the book while I read it, and then I just use the book for notes, and I take notes in the book, and I highlight things as I&#8217;m listening to it, but I like to listen to it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s an excellent idea. I never even thought to do that. That&#8217;s a great idea because you just order it in two different formats, and now you can follow along in the book just like your parents read to you.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> That&#8217;s right. And then I have, again, that tangible thing that I, if I wanna m- I&#8217;m like, &quot;Hey, there was that book that I read and I love that spot.&quot; I can just go grab it off the bookshelf, and I can open it up, and I can see it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Love that. So I&#8217;m excited to hear your guest solo. So tell me what&#8217;s exciting in your, in your business right now</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Oh my gosh. Um, so I just launched Life is What We Make It, like the real movement part of it, about a month ago. Um, so the cultures and the values all live in LIWMIlogistics.com, and we&#8217;re doing amazing things. The freight market is absolutely wild right now.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Help companies understand their transportation in such a way that it becomes such a value proposition to them in the <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> market.</p>
<p>But Life is What We Make It, um, the whole goal of it is to inspire men and people to, to take ownerships for lives and build something meaningful. And so I&#8217;m trying to build a following and share some content that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s able to help some other folks that may be be in similar industries, and bring on maybe a couple guests that can share some of their stories.</p>
<p>Um, and then I&#8217;m just using LIWMI Logistics as kind of the tool to, to, to enable m- myself and my team to be able to do those things. So the movement is, is starting. It&#8217;s very new, you know, and, uh, and again, it&#8217;s one of those things just like anything else. It&#8217;s scary, man. I, I &#8230; This is my seventh podcast and I can&#8217;t</p>
<p>You know, every single one I get off and I&#8217;m like, &quot;What was I thinking? Why did I say that?&quot; And then this is the same thing. I&#8217;m like, &quot;Why did I roll that content out? Oh my God, I, I didn&#8217;t put music on or I did something wrong.&quot; And, but it&#8217;s fun and it&#8217;s ins- it&#8217;s exciting for me. And the, um, what it&#8217;s doing for other people is the most rewarding thing.</p>
<p>You know, I have 20-something-thousand TikTok followers <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> on TikTok, right? And I got that through, through a weird video I posted with my daughter that we made together. But now that I&#8217;ve shifted to Life is What We Make It, and I&#8217;m sharing content that has to do with like finding your identity, building your vision, how do you master your habits, what are the people that help you get there, what does m- m- uh, um, momentum look like?</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m having all these kids reach out, and I never even thought about inspiring children, but I&#8217;m having my son &#8230; You know, I&#8217;ve had kids that my sons know or these kids that are reaching out. They&#8217;re like, &quot;Hey, I never even thought about this. This is really helping me in my life.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Wow. That&#8217;s</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> And so yeah, it&#8217;s been, it&#8217;s been a wonderful ride.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m having a lot of fun with it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So how do we find out more?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Um, the best way to find me is just go to randyvlasic.com. Um, it links to all my social platforms there and everything that I&#8217;m doing. Um, it links to, um, our movement site as well. Um, so again, just randyvlasic.com</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> And so where&#8217;s the podcast available then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Right on randyvlasic.com. It&#8217;s hosted on, on <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> all the major podcast networks. So you can find it on Spotify and, uh, I have it on YouTube, um, Apple Podcast, Amazon Music, but all of the links for everything that I do is on randyvlasic.com</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Oh, love that. Right on. All right, so maybe the toughest question of all, and we&#8217;re gonna get into the music side a little bit. So who is your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Oh, God. I think, um, man, I love Kid Rock. I w- yeah, I think from a rock star standpoint, like definitely it&#8217;s Kid Rock, but I love all kinds of music. The only thing I don&#8217;t listen to is hard metal, but outside of that I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;ll, I&#8217;m rap, rock, and, and country all in the same car ride.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Nice. Well, I mean, those, those are kind of like getting mixed together nowadays, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, no doubt it is. It is</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Have you ever seen Kid Rock in concert?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> I did. Last time I saw them was at, uh, Summerfest in, in Milwaukee. I went with my wife.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;d be quite the show, eh?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> oh, it was a great show. Great show</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> that&#8217;s awesome. Well, thank <span style="color:#808080">[00:34:00]</span> you so much for rocking out with me today, Randy. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Oh, Tim, it&#8217;s been my pleasure. Thank you so much for having on me, or having me on the show</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> No problem. And so we&#8217;ll see you next time on the n- on the Work At Home Rockstar podcast, and make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Randy Vlasic:</strong> Take care</p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the <em>Work at Home Rockstar Podcast</em>, Tim Melanson chats with <strong>Curtis McCullom</strong>, CEO and Clinical Hypnotherapist at <a href="http://www.bespokehumanpotentialcoaching.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Bespoke Human Potential Coaching</a>, about the mindset shifts that help entrepreneurs move through fear, failure, and self-doubt. Curtis shares his LEGIT Mindset framework, which focuses on learning, growing, expanding, and transforming as part of the entrepreneurial journey.</p>
<p>Curtis opens up about early struggles in sales, the mentor who helped him turn things around, and why understanding your numbers can change how you see rejection. He also shares practical advice on finding your voice, building a productive home office, setting boundaries, and focusing more on authenticity than expensive tools.</p>
<p>This conversation is packed with real talk for entrepreneurs who want to stop pretending everything is fine, learn from setbacks, and keep building a business that feels aligned with who they really are.</p>
<h2>Who is Curtis McCullom?</h2>
<p><strong>Curtis McCullom</strong> is the CEO and Clinical Hypnotherapist at <a href="http://www.bespokehumanpotentialcoaching.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Bespoke Human Potential Coaching</a>. He helps high-achieving CEOs, founders, and entrepreneurs identify and release subconscious blind spots that quietly limit performance, income, and clarity.</p>
<p>Through his LEGIT Mindset framework, along with tools such as NLP, Mental Emotional Release, and hypnotherapy, Curtis supports entrepreneurs in understanding what may be holding them back so they can move forward with more confidence, focus, and authenticity.</p></div>
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<p>One of the biggest themes in this conversation is learning how to respond instead of react. Curtis makes the point that challenges are going to happen, but entrepreneurs have more power when they acknowledge what is happening and ask what they can learn from it.</p>
<p>The sales conversation is also a standout. Curtis shares how knowing your numbers can turn rejection into part of the process instead of something personal. For a new entrepreneur, that shift can make sales feel a lot less scary and a lot more manageable.</p>
<p>Another strong takeaway is the idea of getting your baseline down before changing everything. Curtis compares it to music: get the rhythm first, then start making small adjustments. That is a simple but powerful reminder for anyone testing offers, messaging, content, or sales strategies.</p>
<p>The episode also lands on a practical work-from-home lesson: your environment matters. Curtis talks about creating a dedicated space, setting clear boundaries, and choosing tools that support the work without letting gear become the thing that stops you from starting.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 Meet Curtis McCullom<br />00:50 LEGIT Mindset Framework<br />02:27 Responding Not Reacting<br />04:39 Subconscious Lessons Loop<br />07:27 Better Questions Not Why<br />09:34 Early Sales Failure Turnaround<br />11:36 Asking for Help and 80 Percent<br />13:14 Know Your Numbers Game<br />16:05 Find Your Voice and Baseline<br />17:53 Bespoke Coaching and Niches<br />20:00 Choosing the Right Clients<br />20:40 Trial and Error Growth<br />22:34 Home Office Setup<br />25:07 Boundaries at Home<br />27:11 Tools Without Distraction<br />29:03 Authenticity Over Gear<br />30:04 Coaching Offer and Calls<br />31:24 Root Causes of Fear<br />32:30 Not Good Enough Belief<br />33:44 Mindset Beats Talent<br />36:29 Music Favorites and Listening<br />38:40 Final Thanks and Outro</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work at Home Rockstar podcast. I&#8217;m excited for today&#8217;s episode. We&#8217;re talking to the CEO and a clinical hypnotherapist for Bespoke Human Potential Coaching. Very excited to hear about this. This is gonna be really cool. What Curtis does is he helps high-achieving CEOs, founders, and entrepreneurs identify and release subconscious blind spots that quietly limit performance, income, and clarity.</p>
<p>Super excited to be rocking out today with Curtis McCullom. Hey, Curtis, are you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Hey, Tim, let&#8217;s go for it, man. I&#8217;m really excited about the fact that, you know, um, you invited me to your show and allowed me to share some things with your audience to make sure that they, on this journey that they&#8217;re on, you know. This is a journey, a lifelong journey, and being an entrepreneur, as you well know, it is a journey.</p>
<p>So yeah, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m ready to rock with it, man</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right on. Well, let&#8217;s inspire some people then today, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Yeah, let&#8217;s go for it. I love it.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> So we always start off here on a good note, so tell me a story that can inspire us</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Well, o- one thing that, that really, what I&#8217;ve learned over the years is, Tim, is that, is <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> that this life is a journey, and if we can ever just harness the power of knowing that that&#8217;s what it is. And I think that&#8217;s why I created what this framework I call the LEGIT mindset, which is learning, growing, expanding, and transforming.</p>
<p>And so when I, I was asking the universe and like, &quot;Wow, God, what is it that this thing is all about?&quot; Because this is a journey. And the thing that really popped up to me after I read this book called Many Lives, Many Masters by, I think, Dr. Bruce Weiss, i- it was like, it&#8217;s all about learning. And if we can ever harness the fact that whatever we&#8217;re going through, whatever we&#8217;ve been through, it&#8217;s just an opportunity for us to learn and to grow and expand and transform</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm. Yeah, isn&#8217;t that interesting that I, I think I heard someone say that the, the, the, the most dangerous words you can say is, &quot;I know.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Became&#8211; I like that. I, I might use that. So I, I might s- I, I might, Tim, I might give you, uh, you know, I might say, &quot;Hey, I got this from Tim on, <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> on, on, on the Rockstar podcast,&quot; but then I forget. After a while, I&#8217;m gonna forget your name, you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s fine. That&#8217;s fine.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> And just use it.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, but it is a journey of learning, right? And, uh, yeah, I think you&#8217;re right. I think as soon as you get yourself into that perspective instead of, like, just reacting to things that are going on, yeah, I think you can be just be a little bit more proactive in the life that you&#8217;re trying to build, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Oh, absolutely. That&#8217;s the whole idea is that we have to understand if we know that going into it, right? It&#8217;s like, so I think Zig Ziglar, we can either react or we can respond. Reaction is more negative. Responding is, look at this, this is it. You have the power to respond. You have the responsibility to actually control your own thoughts and your emotions.</p>
<p>So if we can ever just harness that, says, &quot;Okay, what am I going through?&quot; Get- but this is the thing that people have to understand. It doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s gonna feel good,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> it doesn&#8217;t mean that it&#8217;s not gonna be difficult, but it means that, but I can go through it. That&#8217;s the <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> key</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I agree. And, and you know what, though? Like, we always look back on those situations, right, that were very difficult, and y- y- you look back at them differently than when you were going through them. Sometimes you&#8217;re laughing at them. Sometimes, sometimes you&#8217;re just, you&#8217;re proud of what you were able to accomplish, right?</p>
<p>But a- at the time, it just feels terrible. But, but you know</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> I mean, and you know, I, um, you know, I tell&#8230; One of the things, one of the things I tell my clients all the time is that back in the day when I first got started, uh, motivational speakers used to say, &quot;Hey, um, uh, if it&#8217;s, if it&#8217;s raining outside, just think sunshine, sunshine.&quot; I&#8217;m like, &quot;Come on, forget that.</p>
<p>No. If it&#8217;s raining outside, it&#8217;s raining. Acknowledge the fact that it is raining, and it&#8217;s okay.&quot; And this is one of my thing. It&#8217;s okay not to be okay, but it&#8217;s not okay to pretend that you&#8217;re okay and you&#8217;re not. So if it&#8217;s raining, it&#8217;s raining. Acknowledge it and says, &quot;Okay, now what do I wanna do about the fact that it is raining?</p>
<p>Do I wanna be whimsical and go out and just have fun in the <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> rain and just kind of dance with the rain? Or do I need to put on my rain gear, my, my galoshes, my rain cap, and my umbrella &#8217;cause I need to go in the rain? Or do I decide to just stay home and be productive even though it&#8217;s raining outside?&quot;</p>
<p>Guess what? I have the power to respond. I don&#8217;t have to get all upset about it in the moment. You know, I can just really walk through it with ease.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, right. And, and I mean, I think that the thing is, is that, you know, problems are gonna happen, and the sooner you acknowledge those problems and deal with those problems, the better, because eventually don&#8217;t they always just come back and bite us later on anyway? But-</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Oh, oh, oh. This is one thing about unlearning is this, is that one thing about how the subconscious mind works is that it loves to learn. That means that if you don&#8217;t get the learning from whatever you&#8217;re going through, you have a greater propensity to go through it again, and again, and again until you get the learning.</p>
<p>Like, okay, uh, uh, like it&#8217;s, you know, that&#8217;s, <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> that&#8217;s kind of the, what the thing of insanity. You keep doing the same thing over, thinking you&#8217;re gonna get something different. But the subconscious mind is the same way. It wants to give y- i- if, if you&#8217;re not &#8230; If you&#8217;re feeling sad, it&#8217;s just kind of communicating with you, &quot;I&#8217;m feeling sad right now,&quot; which is okay.</p>
<p>So you can ask yourself, &quot;What is it that, what I need right now in order for me to move forward?&quot; And it&#8217;ll give you something, and you can let it go. It&#8217;s like a feeling is an emotion that wants to communicate with us and leave, but if we suppress it and not get the learning from it, wow, it, it&#8217;s gonna come back.</p>
<p>And it c- my head, my stomach, my back, it&#8217;s like it&#8217;s gonna get your attention some way, form, or fashion</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Uh, I love the angle that you&#8217;re coming at this with, like, the subconscious mind because I, you know, I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve heard this so many times on a spiritual level. Like, people will talk about you keep getting the lessons over and over again, and it&#8217;s the universe trying to teach you something. But, but now you&#8217;re coming at it from a different perspective of this is just how our brains work, right?</p>
<p>Our brains are trying to learn a lesson, and so we&#8217;re just gonna keep on <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> subconsciously putting us into situations that repeat the lesson over and over again until we get it, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Do we get it? And that&#8217;s the whole idea. This is the thing, is like people don&#8217;t understand how this thing works. Like, okay, 5% of our being is conscious. That&#8217;s our, our willpower analysis, you know, s- I wanna set this goal. That&#8217;s the, that&#8217;s the part that we know, right? We see that. The 95% is our subconscious.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s controls all our behavior, and it on- this is the c- crazy thing about it, Tim, is that it&#8217;s controlled by the things that we&#8217;ve learned in the past. And every time we have a new experience, it goes out to search down in the past of what it, what, what it knows. So it needs a lesson in order for you to let that new lesson kinda take hold.</p>
<p>It needs to, it needs something to replace it. And so mo- most people do, they try to suppress it, they try to push it down, they try to push it out, and the subconscious mind says, &quot;I need a lesson.&quot; And, uh, you know, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> third, we&#8217;re gonna talk about the next one, is like, uh, is like if you don&#8217;t get the learning, the subconscious mind will still get your attention one way form or fashion.</p>
<p>Headaches, stomach aches, whatever other type of ache, anxiety. You&#8217;re like, &quot;What the heck is going on?&quot; It&#8217;s because you, you have not learned yet. You just need to stop and ask yourself the question: what is it I need to learn from this? How can I now grow from this? This is the thing I wanna share with your audience what not to do.</p>
<p>Do not ask yourself why. Because of the fact that your subconscious mind will give you every reason in the book on why you are failing, why you are feeling, why you&#8217;re doing what you&#8217;re doing, and you don&#8217;t need any whys. You need whats, and you need to know how. You need to know, &quot;What do I need to do?&quot; So ask yourself what questions and how questions, and then what it does is searches your subconscious.</p>
<p>It searches the universe to <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> now give you the things that you need to kinda continue to move forward.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> I love that. That&#8217;s really cool. Yeah, &#8217;cause the why questions are more or less, uh, what, what are they? They&#8217;re sort of finding blame, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Oh, uh, and it will find it. It&#8217;ll find it. It&#8217;s, it&#8217;s the, &quot;Tim, you remember when you were a little</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> said this. Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> you were on the playground and that kid said you were not &#8230; you can&#8217;t play a g- you can&#8217;t play an instrument. You remember that, right?&quot; And then they&#8217;ll keep bringing up those failures. You don&#8217;t need any failures.</p>
<p>You just need to know the le- the lessons from it. So basically, no why questions, what questions, and how questions to kind of keep you moving forward, and it&#8217;ll come with some great stuff, what I call inspired, inspired actions. It&#8217;ll, it&#8217;ll, it&#8217;ll give you some ins- something inspirational that can kind of move you forward</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm. Now, so for, uh, some people, I mean, I think a lot of entrepreneurs, uh, especially who already have that sort of mindset, I mean, we&#8217;re okay with failure. We&#8217;re okay with, with falling. I mean,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Right</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> w- m- maybe it&#8217;s because we&#8217;ve had lots of them in the past, and we&#8217;ve, we&#8217;ve made it through, and <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> now we know that, hey, I&#8217;m gonna fall.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m gonna get back up, and everything&#8217;s gonna be good. But there&#8217;s a lot of people that, that don&#8217;t, that, that sort of are very, you know, risk-averse we&#8217;ll say, right? And they, they don&#8217;t wanna get into business because they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re, they&#8217;re afraid of failing. And I, I like to talk about the failures, the big ones that, that, uh, we do because I&#8217;m hoping that what&#8217;ll happen is that someone will listen to this and go, &quot;You know what? What, what&#8217;s, what&#8217;s the worst that can happen? If this if this guy can get, can make it, then I can too, so can you tell me something that didn&#8217;t work out for you?&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Yes, yes, yes, yes. When I first got started in sales, I was working as a retail manager. I was getting a salary, and I decided to go into sales. I read every book. I listened to every tape. I thought I was ready for this, right? I&#8217;m ready to do this. I&#8217;m like, you know, Zig Ziglar, Tom Hopkins went and got all these certifications in sales and stuff.</p>
<p>In my first sales job, I remember so clearly, I failed miserably. I mean, <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> all the money that I had saved, I lost in like three to four, five months. And like, &quot;What the heck is going on?&quot; Until, until I found a mentor that, that, that kinda helped me and like he, he said, he go- he says, &quot;Hey, Curtis, if you do X, Y, and Z, you&#8217;ll make this.&quot;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m like, &quot;What? You mean to tell me if I can just do this type of activity consistently, I&#8217;ma make this?&quot; Story changed, meaning like it went from this utter failure. I remember my mom told me when I first quit my job, she&#8217;s like, &quot;What in the world are you doing? Are you crazy?&quot; You know, like, and then after I quit and I lost, I&#8217;m like, &quot;Well, maybe I was.&quot;</p>
<p>But no, that was the beginning of the journey. I needed to understand that lesson that regardless of what I&#8217;m going through, I can make it through. And I, I met my mentor. He taught me how to sell. He, he called me in his office every day. And so I made a goal. When I was going through training and <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> for this company, I stood up in front of my company, in front of the cohort that I was, that I was, uh, going with and told them I was gonna be the number one person in the, in the company.</p>
<p>I gave them my number one speech, and 18 months later, I was the number one, m- number one person in the company. I broke records. I was the youngest person to ever do it. So things can happen when we go through these setbacks. Utter failures that feel like utter failures, but sometimes my wife call it, sometimes we need setbacks to get set up.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> So that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s kinda what my, my biggest, I would m- my biggest failure when I first got started in this business</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and I mean, it was fortunate that you were able to not only find a mentor, but also be willing to ask for help, &#8217;cause isn&#8217;t that a problem? Don&#8217;t&#8230; A lot of us don&#8217;t ask for help, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Ah, ah, yeah, and that&#8217;s one of the biggest challenges with entrepreneurs or, or CEOs, and we don&#8217;t wanna feel weak.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> We don&#8217;t wanna feel like we&#8217;re vulnerable. And even as a professional, I&#8217;ve <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> been doing this now for 40 years, and I still ask for help. When I need help, I ask for help because of the fact that I think we talked about I don&#8217;t know it all.</p>
<p>I will never know it all. I will never be&#8211; I never operate at 100% because that&#8217;s unpossible. So, you know, I tell people, &quot;If we can get you to operating at 80% or more in your business consistently, you&#8217;re gonna be a rockstar.&quot; You know, think about a baseball player is a rockstar when he&#8217;s batting 300 plus.</p>
<p>That means out of 10 times he get at bat, he&#8217;s gonna hit the ball only three times. He get paid millions, millions of dollars. So as entrepreneurs, if we could start thinking like that, meaning like, &quot;Yeah, I don&#8217;t need to hit 100%. I need to get up consistently hit 80%,&quot; and now we&#8217;ll b- then we&#8217;ll become rockstars</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Well, and, and I mean, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s the issue, right? Because I <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> mean, if th- that means that 7 out of those 10 times that you&#8217;re, that you&#8217;re up there, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re failing. And, you know, similarly in business, right? People, people have a hard time with failing 70% of the time. But isn&#8217;t that what&#8217;s necessary for all of us, really?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Well, basically, one, one of the things I teach people when, especially in sales, is understand your numbers Meaning, like I understand, I understand the numbers. The numbers part of it is &#8230; A- and I used to play this game with myself when I was in sales, just purely sales. I was a, I was a certified, certified financial planner and, um, and a, and a chartered financial consultant, and I sold insurance and financial services products.</p>
<p>But w- the thing about in that, you have to understand the game. I th- I call it a game. It&#8217;s a game for me. I look at it as a game. And I knew that espe- back in the day, we used to do cold calling, and I knew that if I dialed 25 people, that I was gonna talk to four and I was gonna close two. That&#8217;s <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> my numbers.</p>
<p>I knew that. I, and, and when you know the numbers going in, the beauty part about it, you know what to expect. You know it&#8217;s not failure. It&#8217;s part of the game. So when I got a no, instead of saying, &quot;Oh, shoot, I got a no,&quot; I&#8217;m like, &quot;Yes, that&#8217;s one out of the way. Give me the next one. Give me the next one. Give me the next one.&quot;</p>
<p>&#8216;Cause I knew, I knew my numbers. I understood that it&#8217;s just a game. And so when we&#8217;re starting as an entrepreneur, when we go into it, when you first start, you won&#8217;t know your numbers. You won&#8217;t know what it takes. You won&#8217;t know all that data. But the more you consistently do it, you&#8217;ll find yourself saying, &quot;Okay, now, so it, now I know that if I talking to 10 people, I&#8217;m gonna close three.&quot;</p>
<p>Two things has to happen in order for you to increase your income. You have to either talk to more people or get better at what you do, and that&#8217;s the key to it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and the, and the, the easiest thing to do is talk to more people, right? Getting better at what you do is gonna take a lot longer, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Right. Uh, well, well, you, right, and then over time you get better what you do, <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> right? Because the more you do it, you say, &quot;Oh, okay, if I said it like this instead of that, I noticed that most people, more people respond to it.&quot; Right? And so it&#8217;s like, it&#8217;s, it, it&#8217;s like this balancing act, but understanding when you&#8217;re going into this new venture that, you know, I&#8217;m gonna have some setbacks, but those setbacks are sometimes the setup.</p>
<p>I understand the fact that everybody&#8217;s not gonna like what I&#8217;m doing. Everybody&#8217;s not gonna like my product or service or what am I doing, and that&#8217;s okay. One of my, one of my things is that I&#8217;m looking for individuals that are looking for me. That&#8217;s one of my affirmations I almost say every day. I&#8217;m looking for individuals that are looking for me, and being Curtis, being authentically myself, is more than enough</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, I agree. Um, now, uh, I mean, that, that&#8217;s another comment really because, I mean, if, if you look at it from music, I mean, if you&#8217;re a country band and, you know, you&#8217;re talking to people that love metal, you&#8217;re probably not gonna have a whole lot of success. <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> So f- so finding the people that are looking for you, h- how do you do that then?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> But basically, and that&#8217;s where it is- that&#8217;s where the magic actually has started to happen. Because when I first started this coaching business that I&#8217;m in now, I started about six years ago, didn&#8217;t know what the heck I was getting into. I was getting out of financial services. I retired from financial services, now I&#8217;m going on a totally different visual.</p>
<p>Now I understand sales, I understand all of this, but this is something totally new. And so I had to start to find my voice, right? And this is the challenge sometimes with finding your voice, is that everybody be, what they call, shitting on you. You should do this, you should do that, you should do this, you should do this, right?</p>
<p>And so you have to figure out what you need to do, what makes it right for you. And what I found for me was it takes a little trial and error. So basically, you try something, oh, that didn&#8217;t work, that didn&#8217;t feel right, and try something new. But don&#8217;t, don&#8217;t&#8230; Get the baseline first down, right? And, you know, I think in <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> music you have to get the, the melody down, and then you can always start to riff and start to do other things.</p>
<p>But if you start changing the whole thing all at one time, you&#8217;re gonna mess up the song, right? So the thing about it is like, get the baseline down. Um, um, um, um. You got the baseline down, right? Now, you said, &quot;Oh, this is not working. Let me change it just a little.&quot; Don&#8217;t change everything, just change one part and see will that make a difference.</p>
<p>So the baseline first and then build on it. And then, you know, once you get it, then you can start to riff. You know, you can start to do what you wanna do with it</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, well, I mean, that, that, that&#8217;s the thing too is if you&#8217;re trying to figure out what made the difference, how would you know if you changed everything at once? You have to change one thing and see what makes the difference, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Right. Change the one thing. So first of all, get a baseline. Okay, this is what I&#8217;m gonna do. This is what feels right for me, for me. Uh, uh, &#8217;cause everybody else gonna have&#8230; This is the thing, too, and that&#8217;s why my company&#8217;s called Bespoke Human Potential <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> Coaching, because I understand that everyone is different.</p>
<p>Now, I have a framework in which I work from, however, my approach with you might be totally different than my approach with someone else. Why? Because you&#8217;re more auditory. You are more musically inclined. So when I&#8217;m talking to you, I&#8217;m gonna talk with language that&#8217;s based on what you already know and understand.</p>
<p>Your world. Your world is music. Why will I talk about, why will I talk about farming with you? You have no idea. Maybe you do, but, but farming is not your thing, but music is. So I can communicate with you because I can talk about music, the rhythm, the baseline, and you be like, &quot;Oh, yeah, this dude got me,&quot; because that&#8217;s what it&#8217;s all about.</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s really those little fine things like that</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. And, I mean, that&#8217;s really good advice for, for anybody &#8217;cause, I mean, whatever business you&#8217;re in, um, finding people that have side hobbies that are similar to yours is a really good place to start because, I mean, if you&#8217;re, you know, providing <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> insurance to people who like farming and you like farming, you know, that, that&#8217;s a, that&#8217;s a niche, right?</p>
<p>I- it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s something that you can focus on, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Right, that&#8217;s something that already&#8230; So like, like f- with you doing what you do, like you told me w- before the show is like, &quot;Hey, I&#8217;ve been doing this like jam session thing like for years.&quot; That&#8217;s your thing, right? You know, so, so it&#8217;s like why would you do something different? You&#8217;re already doing something that you love to do, and now you&#8217;re attracting to people&#8230;</p>
<p>Now you are attracting people who already love what you do. It&#8217;s like, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s the thing. That&#8217;s the sweet spot, and that&#8217;s one of the challenges that most of us have is that we try to sometimes go outside of what we know. If we can just, if we can just figure out what we know, that we&#8217;re passionate about.</p>
<p>Now take that and utilize it in our business and market to individuals that, that have the same interest, that have the same mindset, that have the same&#8230; So that it&#8217;s not very, it&#8217;s not as hard. It&#8217;s not as difficult<span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> </p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, well yeah, &#8217;cause, uh, I mean, i- if, if, uh, I, I think a lot of people sort of have this, especially when they&#8217;re first getting started, they need clients. So it&#8217;s like, &quot;I&#8217;m just gonna say yes to everybody,&quot; right? But then you realize real quick that, you know, some clients are just a lot easier to work with than other clients because you just get along with them, right?</p>
<p>And</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> absolutely.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> why not? Why not focus on them?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> yeah, right. Absolutely. Yeah, trust me. I kn- I&#8217;ve, as we used to call it in, in insurance, we kissed a lot of frogs, you know? And, and when you first starting, I mean, I&#8217;m not saying that that&#8217;s not a bad thing, because you don&#8217;t even know, sometimes you don&#8217;t even know what you don&#8217;t know, right?</p>
<p>So sometimes in order to figure out what you know or what you don&#8217;t like, you know, you gotta, you got, &quot;Oh, I tasted that. Nah, that doesn&#8217;t, nah, that&#8217;s not the one. That is not the one.&quot; Or, or, or like coming to music and says, okay, somebody&#8217;s playing this, this rhythm and you&#8217;re like, &quot;Ah, no, that&#8217;s not it. That&#8217;s, I don&#8217;t feel that,&quot; right?</p>
<p><span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> And so sometimes we have to test out things to figure out what it is right for us. And once we figure that out, then we can really run with it. But some- it&#8217;s a little trial and error. You have to kind of s- be willing to go through that process, and that&#8217;s the key to it, understanding that it is a process.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not, it&#8217;s not gonna be instant. And if it is, if it is instant, watch out, because that could be a big set, setback because of the fact that you didn&#8217;t go through a process yet. You don&#8217;t know what it feels like to have some failures. &#8216;Cause you said like, &quot;Man, I started this business and I instantly started to make da, da, da, da,&quot; and all of a sudden you hit a brick wall, you don&#8217;t know what the heck to do.</p>
<p>So sometimes in the beginning it&#8217;s really nice to go through some, some little heartbreaks and some setbacks because that builds that, that muscle, that builds that strength</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I don&#8217;t think everybody would agree with us on that, but, uh, but yeah, having those initial difficulties growing is better than coming out of the gate <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> real strong,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> uh, man, I&#8217;ve I&#8217;ve had both. I had both. And, and what I&#8217;ve learned is that, is that&#8230; &#8216;Cause I&#8217;m still gotta get the le- lessons,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> and sometimes it&#8217;s more difficult because I&#8217;ve had so many wins. I don&#8217;t know what&#8230; I don&#8217;t even know how to, how to, how to go back to kind of reprogram it. I don&#8217;t know what&#8230;</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know how to troubleshoot that. But trust me, either one, just be prepared, right? Just be prepared. It&#8217;s a, this is, this is a journey. It&#8217;s a lifelong journey, and it&#8217;s all about learning, it&#8217;s all about growing, expanding, and transforming. So yeah, just understand that, and that&#8217;s all</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Now, I&#8217;ve been working from home for a long time, and, and I mean, a lot of f- a lot of people learned how to do it in the last five years, right? Uh, b- you know, because of what, what ended up happening. But I&#8217;m wondering, like, uh, setting up a good home office and, and having a good space to work, it&#8217;s pretty important stuff.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m wondering, what&#8217;s your approach to it? Like, how does your, how does your office work for you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Ah, man, my office is everything. I mean, you know, I talk to people all over the <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> world right from this space right? Most of my coaching, 99% of all of my coaching, one-on-one coaching comes from here. And having a home office that&#8217;s right for you is so important. That&#8217;s your environment. Basically, think about your environment is this conducive area where now I can flourish.</p>
<p>And so even if it&#8217;s just a corner in your house, make it feel like it is an office. Make it feel like you are going somewhere to do something. Because now you&#8217;re separate&#8230; Because you&#8217;re accustomed to doing that, especially if you had a, a job job, you&#8217;re accustomed to getting up and going somewhere. Now, and this is one thing that I would suggest that people do, is that don&#8217;t put it in an area, a living space.</p>
<p>What I mean, like, if it&#8217;s in your bedroom, make one corner of your bedroom your office and not your whole bedroom, because you need some separation. You need a place that you now, &quot;I&#8217;m in this area, this is for sleeping. I&#8217;m going to this corner, that&#8217;s <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> for working.&quot; So now, because one of the things that people fail to do is look at it, at it like it is a job.</p>
<p>And it is, and it is a job, so you have to still have a conducive environment to, to do the work that you need to do. So I always say create this space. This is your space. Knowing when you go into that space, &quot;I&#8217;m going to get something done. I&#8217;m going to work.&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, I mean, I, I&#8217;ve even heard people say that they&#8217;ll put on a shirt and tie even though they&#8217;re working from home, right? Why not?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Um, r- right now. A- and that&#8217;s one thing about it. Now, what- do that work for everybody? Maybe not, you know? B- but you have to test it out and find out what works for you that&#8217;s gonna put you into that mindset of, &quot;Now I&#8217;m at work.&quot; Because if not, you&#8217;ll get&#8230; It&#8217;ll, it&#8217;ll, it&#8217;ll get to the point where, you know, sometimes I do work inside in my house.</p>
<p>I have a big kitchen counter. But most of the time, I, I come out to my office, because here&#8217;s why: it&#8217;s quiet, it&#8217;s more conducive for <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> me, I can just really focus on what I&#8217;m doing, and it&#8217;s a much better environment to get things done</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay. Are there other people in your house? Like, is it difficult to get them to understand that you&#8217;re working and, and, uh, to give you that time?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> One, that&#8217;s one of the things, you know, I, um, um, m- it&#8217;s just me and my wife. Uh, all of my kids are grown, and so it&#8217;s just me and my wife here. And so the way my house is designed, I&#8217;m fortunate, and the way my house is designed is that I have to go, literally go outside my front door and walk another 10 to 15, 20 feet to this space, right?</p>
<p>This space that you everybody see. So, so basically it&#8217;s private. Nobody&#8217;s here but me, and that makes it very easy for me to do. Now, back when I was first starting many, many years ago, I just had a corner. I just had one space. But being an- b- being an s- entrepreneur or this, this home business type thing practically all my life, my wife know and understand what it takes for <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> me to actually succeed, and she&#8217;s always giving me that space.</p>
<p>So when other people are in your space, you need to have that conversation with them to let them know when you are working so that they, they understand that, so that they&#8217;re not actually impeding your progress. If not, uh, ju- just same thing, though. Think about it. When you go into a office office, people will come to your desk.</p>
<p>People&#8230; When I was in the office, I didn&#8217;t get much work done because everybody keeps coming into my office, you know, bugging me and, and same thing can happen at home. You gotta set boundaries. That&#8217;s the, that&#8217;s the word I&#8217;m looking for. Have to set really clear boundaries where if you do have kids, if you do have a dog, if you do have a, a wife or a spouse or whatever it is that you have, just make sure you have clear boundaries to let them know, right this time I&#8217;m at work</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah.</p>
<p>Yeah, I agree. And, uh, sometimes it can be difficult to get kids to understand, but, but they learn quickly though. C- i- you know, especially if they&#8217;re very young, they, they, they get it, <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> right? They probably learn better than some adults do, &#8217;cause adults just don&#8217;t understand what you&#8217;re talking about. What do you mean you&#8217;re working from home?</p>
<p>Can&#8217;t you help me? Like, know? Right on. So, like, let&#8217;s talk a little bit about the tools that you&#8217;re using to get success in your business. I mean, hey, there&#8217;s tons of them nowadays. Like, how do you, how do you, you know, keep the shiny objects away and just use the things that you need?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> And that&#8217;s one of the thi- that&#8217;s, but that&#8217;s one of my weaknesses, uh, Jim, is like I, I, Tim, I, I love, I, I love shiny stuff. You know? So like I was telling you before, you know, like you don&#8217;t need, you don&#8217;t need&#8230; I mean, I was telling you about the camera setup I have right now, right? You know, I have two lights.</p>
<p>I have a light here coming down. As you can see, the background lights. What you see behind me, that is actually my office. That&#8217;s not a filtered background. That&#8217;s my office. That was a TV. So basically, do you need&#8230; For my business, part of it is being an authority, right? And so I want to make people feel when they come into my office like, hey, Curtis <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> has a feeling, or he has, uh, that his office feels like he knows what he&#8217;s talking about, &#8217;cause I do.</p>
<p>But I want them to feel that. So I think whatever, if, if you&#8217;re doing something like this, you need something that&#8217;s conducive that you don&#8217;t want it&#8230; I, I&#8217;ve seen it where I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m going into other people&#8217;s rooms, and they&#8217;re in their bedroom, and the bed is not made up, and there&#8217;s clothes all over. That&#8217;s not cool.</p>
<p>You wanna make sure that you&#8217;re in a conducive area. So for me, I like equipment. I like toys. So y- you talking about me, like I said, I got a, what, a $3,000 camera body, a 2,000, $3,000 lens there, and all this kind of&#8230; I love that kind of stuff. I love sound. I love&#8230; So, you know, I have Adam Studio. What is that? Yeah, yeah, the, the Adam Auto, uh, audio monitors and a- all this stuff.</p>
<p>So y- do you need that? No. But you need something that it is that&#8217;s gonna give you what you want to make sure that you are successful</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, I agree. And then you can, yeah, I mean, <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> you can upgrade that stuff as time goes on,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Yes. Yes. Yeah, yeah. Oh, man, if&#8211; I didn&#8217;t start here now. Trust me, I didn&#8217;t start here . I didn&#8217;t start here. That&#8217;s where I am now. When I started, you know, whatever I could do. I could use the, the, the camera on the computer. That&#8217;s all I had. But wherever you are, don&#8217;t let that prevent you from starting.</p>
<p>Because at the end of the day, people don&#8217;t buy that stuff. They don&#8217;t. They don&#8217;t care. They don&#8217;t ca- They want&#8211; Th- they don&#8217;t care what type of camera I&#8217;m using. Only thing they care about, can I solve a problem? And that&#8217;s what people really want. They want somebody that&#8217;s authentic. So work on you being the authentic being that you can be.</p>
<p>Work on yourself becoming the best version of yourself, and all the other stuff will come. So you&#8217;re talking about what&#8217;s really important. What&#8217;s really important is your mindset and who you are, being authentic, a being, being an authentic being. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s the most important thing</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> So this is probably a per- <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> perfect time to give you the solo then. So tell me what&#8217;s exciting in your business</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Basically, look guys, this is the deal. You know, I can help you, and the best way to get in touch with me is come and visit my website. It&#8217;s at, at Bespoke Human Potential Coaching. That&#8217;s one, the long way to get there, or you can come there from curtismccullum.com. Either one. And when you get there, you&#8217;re gonna have an opportunity to either do a free 15-minute, uh, uh, clarity call with me, and then I also have a couple of things on that site that kind of&#8230;</p>
<p>some tools that you can utilize to see where, where you are on your journey so I can actually help you best. Maybe I can or not. It&#8211; This is the thing about it, though. If I can&#8217;t help you, I&#8217;m gonna let you know, and I&#8217;m gonna point you into the right direction. And this is the thing. I don&#8217;t work with people who are not ready to work.</p>
<p>You know? So it&#8217;s like one of the things I, I tell people all the time, &quot;On a scale from one to 10, how bad you wanna change this?&quot; And you tell me a four, <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> I&#8217;m like, say, &quot;You know what? You&#8217;re in a great place right now. I don&#8217;t work with fours.&quot; The reason I don&#8217;t work with fours is because of the fact that I don&#8217;t wanna mess my track record up.</p>
<p>When I come&#8211; when you come to me, you gotta come ready to get results. And if you&#8217;re ready to get results, come and visit me, get the free consultation, and let&#8217;s get&#8211; let&#8217;s do some work together</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s great. Well, and, and that&#8217;s it, right? It&#8217;s the win-win. If you&#8217;re both winning, then</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Oh, yeah. I mean, a- and that&#8217;s the whole idea is that because it, it&#8217;s like change and wanting to have, wanting to become the best, wanting to increase your income, wanting to figure out what is it that&#8217;s stopping me, because we have a lot of talented people out there, but then there&#8217;s this fear, this something that&#8217;s driving their behavior that&#8217;s preventing them from actually breaking through.</p>
<p>What I do, I help you figure that out so that you don&#8217;t have that problem anymore. And this is the c- crazy thing about it, Tim, is that most of the time it&#8217;s not something that you think it is. You know, uh, sometimes people think, &quot;Oh <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> yeah, I had a bad breakup six months ago, and I&#8217;m still suffering from the bad breakup.&quot;</p>
<p>Usually that&#8217;s&#8211; the subconscious mind stores information based on what we call a gestalt, feelings that are similar. So that&#8217;s not the root cause. And most coaches and most therapists, they basically go with that one incident. I don&#8217;t do that. Basically, I go back to figure out what is the root cause of this feeling or emotion, and let&#8217;s pull up the root so that we can get rid of the thing for, for good.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. I, I don&#8217;t know if, if this is something you would answer, but what, what is the most common issue that you, that you come across?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> I&#8217;m not good enough. I&#8217;m not good enough, I&#8217;m not worthy.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> That&#8217;s the biggest lies that, that, that, that people have to overcome. I mean, because that&#8217;s a big one because of the fact that&#8230; A- a- and this is the thing, because subtle things that we experienced when we were, when we were small <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> children, and, uh, it could have been an offhanded remark that a parent, a sibling, or, you know, y- your brother, sister, nephew, somebody said to you, but you took it as being true,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> and you continue to replay that.</p>
<p>So when, when, when you, when you come up against things, that&#8217;s still feeling I&#8217;m not good enough, I&#8217;m not worthy, and that kinda drives fear. &#8216;Cause I&#8217;m&#8230; The reason I&#8217;m fear because I&#8217;m feel like I&#8217;m not good enough. The reason I&#8217;m fearful because I feel like I&#8217;m not worthy. So basically those are, to me, that&#8217;s the overarching thing of most of the challenges that we have, is that, that, that feeling of, of I&#8217;m not good enough</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. That&#8217;s crazy. Uh, you know what&#8217;s funny is that, uh, when I was first starting to play music, I learned late. I was 22 when I first started playing guitar. Yep. And, uh, about 24, so two years later, was my first gig. And, uh, if, if you can imagine that, <span style="color:#808080">[00:34:00]</span> how good could I have been two years later than that? Not super good.</p>
<p>But I was having fun, and someone asked me to play, and so I went out and played. And then people just kept on hiring me. And I remember thinking, &quot;I&#8217;m definitely not good enough.&quot; But, but I also remember thinking, &quot;People keep hiring me, so I&#8217;m just gonna keep on doing it,&quot;</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> There you go. I love that. I love</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> you just keep on doing it.</p>
<p>But, but I mean, imagine if, like, uh, I, I imagine there&#8217;s a lot of people that have that thought, but they don&#8217;t get that, that opportunity of someone saying, &quot;Well, I&#8217;m gonna pay you for that,&quot; right? And, and if they don&#8217;t, well then you&#8217;ll never know. Like it&#8217;s just luck of the draw for me for that one</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Well, it&#8217;s not, basically you still had a positive mindset. I mean, you still had something in you. That&#8217;s, that&#8217;s rare that regardless of what&#8217;s coming up. Because think about it like this. W- you, as you well know this being in the business, the best singers are not the m- <span style="color:#808080">[00:35:00]</span> s- are not sometime the most successful people in the business.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> I agree with that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m right. I mean, the, the best players are not the most successful. But they have a mindset of regardless of what, I&#8217;m gonna do this, hell or high water. I&#8217;m gonna invest all of my time, energy, and effort, and I see myself as being successful. And the most talented sometimes can&#8217;t see themself being successful.</p>
<p>They have that mindset of, &quot;I&#8217;m not good enough. I&#8217;m not worthy.&quot; And it&#8217;s, you know, I, I&#8217;m looking, I&#8217;m like, what? You hear those people on, on, on recordings and stuff like, what the heck? Who&#8217;s paying them? How do they get a following? Because</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> I</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> gonna like you. You just got to put yourself out there, man</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I agree. That&#8217;s, uh, that&#8217;s amazing. All right, well, so how do we, uh, w- how do we find out more? You s- you mentioned your website earlier. C- tell me again what that was</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Basically, it&#8217;s at Bespoke Human Potential Coaching,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Mm-hmm.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> or you can go, uh, <span style="color:#808080">[00:36:00]</span> .com and- or you can go to curtismccullum.com. You can also reach me on, on, I&#8217;m on all the m- um, major platforms. I&#8217;m on LinkedIn, I&#8217;m on, um, I have a podcast on Spotify, I have YouTube channel, Curtis McCullom, I have Instagram. So you can reach me on any of those platforms.</p>
<p>I got a lot of content out there that people can kinda listen to, to kinda get to know me a little bit. And, um, yeah, so they can find me out there for sure</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Right on. Okay, before we go, let&#8217;s talk a little bit about music. So tell me, who&#8217;s your favorite rock star or band?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Uh, I, I&#8217;m a old school boy, and m- my favorite probably, Earth, Wind &amp; Fire would be p- one of my favorite kind of bands, right? I mean, because of the sound and the, the instruments and the&#8230; Oh my God, it&#8217;s just like, I like musicality, right? I like to hear every sound. And so when I, when I buy, uh, a headsets or something, I wanna hear, <span style="color:#808080">[00:37:00]</span> I w- I, I wanna hear the distance between the music.</p>
<p>I wanna hear the symbols make the sounds and all this kind of stuff. So Earth, Wind &amp; Fire was big with music, meaning like they had a band. They had a true band with instruments and stuff, and most of these bands these days don&#8217;t do that. Um, as far as the greatest, the best singer, um, I love ballads, and so Luther Vandross was probably one of my favorite, you know, of all time.</p>
<p>I went to, every time he came to Southern California, I went to his concerts. And man, man, you&#8217;re talking about, uh, music too because he had, I mean, the, the instruments and the things that he had. Live music was something powerful and the separation of the sounds and stuff. So that would be my, my two</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, isn&#8217;t that amazing? So w- what do you like better, live or on, on your headphones?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Hmm, that&#8217;s a good one. If it&#8217;s, if, if it&#8217;s, if it&#8217;s a good live show, because I did go to a live, I think, um, I went to a live show and I was in a, the, the, the, the <span style="color:#808080">[00:38:00]</span> vibe wasn&#8217;t there because the crowd wasn&#8217;t there. So you know, it&#8217;s like even on, he was, it was, uh, John, John Legend. I went to a John Legend concert when he came to Ca- when he came to California, and he sang great and everything was good, but the people around me was like, &quot;Ah.&quot;</p>
<p>They were just there. They were not true fans, and so you really couldn&#8217;t really get into it. So it&#8217;s a cardi, man. I mean, I like to crank up, crank up the music and just like listen to it with the headset or live, either one. I mean, I, I like both, but if it&#8217;s, like I said, when I went to Luther Vandross concert it was great.</p>
<p>Uh, and so yeah, I like both though</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Amazing. Thank you so much, Curtis. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, man, I, I, I appreciate the opportunity to come to speak to your audience. And if they need some help and support, hey, I&#8217;m here for them. Uh, and if I, if I don&#8217;t have the answer, I&#8217;ll definitely point you into the right direction. Um, that&#8217;s what it&#8217;s all about, &#8217;cause I&#8217;m looking for&#8230; Like I told you before, I&#8217;m looking for people who are <span style="color:#808080">[00:39:00]</span> looking for me.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> We&#8217;re all looking</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Curtis McCullom:</strong> and being authentic, right, being authentically me is more than enough. And if I&#8217;m not your guy, that&#8217;s okay. I want you to help- I wanna help you find your guy or your gal, whoever, who you ever need to actually help you move forward</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. Well, thank you again. This has been a lot of fun. And to the listeners, make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information. And we&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar podcast</p></div>
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<p>In this episode of the <em>Work at Home Rockstar Podcast</em>, Tim Melanson chats with <strong>Fernando Angelucci</strong>, CEO of <a href="https://www.ssse.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">SSSE</a>, about leaving corporate life, going all in on entrepreneurship, and building a self-storage private equity company. Fernando shares how a fear-setting exercise helped him make the leap, why focus mattered more than keeping one foot in both worlds, and how he turned a bold start into a business built around scale, systems, and freedom.</p>
<p>Fernando also opens up about burnout, delegation, masterminds, mobile work routines, cash flow, profit-first thinking, and keeping a simple tech stack while traveling most of the year. It’s a practical conversation for entrepreneurs who want to think bigger, protect their energy, and build a business that does not depend on doing everything themselves.</p>
<h2>Who is Fernando Angelucci?</h2>
<p><strong>Fernando Angelucci</strong> is the CEO of <a href="https://www.ssse.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">SSSE</a>, where he specializes in using creative deal structuring to purchase cash-flowing assets and build ground-up institutional-grade self-storage facilities.</p>
<p>Fernando has built a self-storage private equity company that has completed more than 55 transactions across 26 states, totaling over $240 million. He works remotely while traveling much of the year and shares practical lessons on entrepreneurship, capital raising, systems, delegation, and building a business around intentional freedom.</p></div>
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<p>One of the biggest themes in this conversation is the difference between building a business and building yourself another job. Fernando talks honestly about burning out when he was doing too much himself, and how systems, processes, advisors, and delegation helped him move into a more scalable model.</p>
<p>Another strong takeaway is the importance of thinking bigger without ignoring the risks. Fernando challenges entrepreneurs to question whether they are aiming too small, especially when larger opportunities may require similar effort but better structure, support, and strategy.</p>
<p>The episode also delivers a powerful reminder about work-from-home discipline. Fernando’s mobile office setup shows that productivity is not just about where you work. It is about routines, boundaries, mindset, and creating a reliable rhythm wherever you are.</p>
<p>Finally, his focus on profit-first thinking gives entrepreneurs a grounded financial lesson. Revenue alone does not make a healthy business. Taking profit seriously, setting clear goals, and watching cash flow are key parts of keeping the business sustainable.</p></div>
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<p>00:00 — Welcome and Guest Intro<br />00:26 — Fear Setting Leap<br />02:24 — All In Entrepreneurship<br />05:06 — Burnout and Systems<br />07:31 — Finding a Partner<br />08:17 — Think Bigger Scale Faster<br />10:24 — Masterminds Mentors Network<br />15:25 — Travel Work Setup<br />19:43 — Profit First Cash Flow<br />22:47 — Simple Tech Stack<br />26:15 — New GP Fund Launch<br />28:06 — Who Benefits Tax Savings<br />29:47 — How to Connect<br />30:58 — Music Rapid Fire<br />32:52 — Final Thanks Outro</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_toggle_content clearfix"><p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> <span style="color:#808080">[00:00:00]</span> Hello and welcome to today&#8217;s episode of the Work At Home Rockstar podcast. Today&#8217;s guest, we have the CEO of SSSE, and what he does is he specializes in using creative deal structuring to purchase cash flowing assets and to build ground up institutional grade self-storage facilities. I&#8217;m super excited to be rocking out today with Fernando Angelucci.</p>
<p>Hey Fernando, you ready to rock?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> I am, Tim</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. We always start off on a good note. Tell me a story of success that we can be inspired by</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. So, um, I think the, the biggest success I had was leaving the corporate life and deciding to chase my dream. Um, I read a book by Tim Ferriss called &quot;The 4-Hour Workweek,&quot; and it had a very interesting exercise in it, which was called the fear setting exercise. You know, I was so afraid to leave my engineering job.</p>
<p>Um, I didn&#8217;t know what would happen. You know, what if I would fail? And basically what the book said is put basically two lines on a piece of paper, number them from zero to <span style="color:#808080">[00:01:00]</span> 10. The top line is, what is the worst thing that could possibly happen? Zero is nothing changes. Uh, 10 is you die. Nine is you go to prison for life.</p>
<p>So there, there&#8217;s your range. Now score it. Then go to the second line, also zero to 10. This is what is the best possible thing that can happen? Zero is nothing changes. Ten is you&#8217;re living your, your absolute dream life. And so I had ended up doing the, you know, the mental gymnastics, and really the worst thing that could happen was I put it as a three.</p>
<p>I, I still had my degree. If it didn&#8217;t work out, I could always go back into the job market. If I was tough on cash for a little bit, I&#8217;m sure I could, you know, stay with friends or family, et cetera. But on the positive line, it was a nine. Uh, I should have put a 10 knowing what I know now, but it was a nine.</p>
<p>I said, &quot;Hey, three to nine, that, that makes the most sense.&quot; So I ended up quitting, um, basically jumped out of the plane and built the parachute on the way down. I cash advanced almost $100,000 off of 12 different credit cards to <span style="color:#808080">[00:02:00]</span> start the business, and then, uh, never looked back. Um, today, uh, I run a, a self-storage private equity company.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve done over 55 transactions across 26 states, over $240 million. I travel nine to 10 months out of the year, uh, working from virtual offices, if you will. Um, and it&#8217;s&#8230; I&#8217;m living my dream life.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. So you didn&#8217;t, uh, burn the candle at both ends and keep it, keep the job and work at the same time? You just went all in</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. So, you know, I started just a little bit, so maybe a couple months doing that, and I r- I realized how much output that I was being able to achieve just in the nights and weekends. And I realized that the longer I keep this up, either I&#8217;m gonna get burned out from the business that I wanted to create or the job or both.</p>
<p>And that was not a healthy strategy. So instead of trying to keep my foot in both sides, I figured the best thing w- to do was just focus <span style="color:#808080">[00:03:00]</span> 100% of my, my attention on the one thing that I wanted to do that I think would move my life forward, and that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s what I did. So I, I did some real estate on the side for a couple months and then decided to quit.</p>
<p>And the way I quit was a way that made sure that I&#8217;d have no way to come back to that same company &#8217;cause I, you gotta, you know, you gotta set, you gotta set the ability to, to hold yourself accountable. And if you always know that there&#8217;s a way to go back, um, you&#8217;re not gonna really try as if it&#8217;s the last possible thing that you can do.</p>
<p>So I had to make sure that, um, there was no other option but success.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. That&#8217;s awesome. Well, I mean, that&#8217;s a really cool exercise that you got into. I, I&#8217;m wondering, uh, how did you find the book?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> I&#8217;ve, you know, since I was a teenager, uh, I never thought I liked to read, um, but then picked up a book called Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert <span style="color:#808080">[00:04:00]</span> Kiyosaki, and then that&#8217;s when I discovered the kind of, I hate this word, but kind of self-help books. Books that are not fiction or, you know, things that you can actually apply in your life to make your life better.</p>
<p>Um, maybe sales psychology, personal psychology, mindset, et cetera. So I just started going down that, that rabbit hole of, you know, buying one book, reading it, finding it fantastic, and a lot of these books, they usually reference other books. The authors will reference other books in their books. So then I start buying those, and then all of a sudden in a couple years I have multiple bookshelves filled and, uh, Tim Ferriss&#8217; was one of the ones that I had gotten early on.</p>
<p>I think I was 19 when I read his first book</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Okay. Wow, that&#8217;s awesome. Yeah, I was in probably my early 20s, so just a little older than you when I started getting into the self-help stuff, and I just remember, like, people, like, thinking I was so weird, &#8217;cause I was always reading these, like, business books instead of the fiction that they&#8217;re reading, right?</p>
<p>And they&#8217;re like, &quot;Uh, when you say you like to read,&quot; they&#8217;re like, &quot;Yeah, but <span style="color:#808080">[00:05:00]</span> that doesn&#8217;t count.&quot; I&#8217;m like, &quot;It, it counts, I think,&quot; you know?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> I agree.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> That&#8217;s awesome. Now, okay, so, uh, along with the good notes, sometimes there&#8217;s some things that don&#8217;t go as planned when you&#8217;re, when you&#8217;re setting up your business, when you&#8217;re getting moving, and I don&#8217;t like to call them failures, &#8217;cause, I mean, they&#8217;re all, all learning experiences, but</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Right</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> they are what keep people out of the game a lot of it, a lot of times, right?</p>
<p>They&#8217;re just scared about that stuff happening. So I like to, I like to bring a couple of them up or one of them up that might be a bad one that might scare somebody, but you can&#8230; You&#8217;re still here, right? So can you share a, a story with me?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. Um, you know, I think the, one of the biggest challenges people have when they go into, you know, business, working from home, being a business owner, is thinking that they should do everything themselves because they wanna keep the max amount of profit that, that, that they can. And the problem with that is as you start scaling, you start <span style="color:#808080">[00:06:00]</span> burning out, and now that thing that usually made you excited to wake up in the morning, the thing that, that got you out of bed, becomes something that you don&#8217;t look forward to doing anymore.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s usually because you&#8217;re overworked and you&#8217;re not using systems and processes and procedures in your business to either, you know, automate, eliminate, or delegate tasks to people that have, uh, lower per hour, uh, value on their time. So one of the, the first times I burnt out, uh, I was in the single family home space and, uh, buying, fixing and flipping, wholesaling single family assets, not, basically not building up the team like I should have, and I was working too many hours.</p>
<p>You know, I, I went from working a 60 hour per week corporate job to working 80 to 85 hour per week. Basically, I built a job for myself. It wasn&#8217;t&#8211; I couldn&#8217;t call it a business because I wasn&#8217;t an owner. I was basically just the, the main <span style="color:#808080">[00:07:00]</span> employer, one of the main employees. And then I got burnt out, and it, it, it really made me want to quit and go back into the corporate world.</p>
<p>Um, but luckily did a reassessment, got, um, got some third party advisors into the business, showing us what we&#8217;re doing right, what we were doing wrong, where we can put systems and processes, procedures in place. And from that point on, we started to scale pretty heavily until we decided to finally, uh, get into the commercial real estate, um, space or self-storage spec-specifically</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm. When you say we, who was we at the time?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, so when I started the business, it was just me, and every time I would get a quick win, you know, a small check here or there, 6,500, 10,000, I would take a picture of it and I would send it to my best friend that, uh, was my random, uh, randomly assigned roommate in college freshman year, uh, Steven. So eventually, you know, s- Steven was being a g- good guy about it.</p>
<p>He didn&#8217;t like his <span style="color:#808080">[00:08:00]</span> job. He wasn&#8217;t making a lot of money, and, uh, he eventually said, &quot;Listen, you either gotta stop sending me pictures of these checks or you gotta show me how to do this business.&quot; And I said, I, you know, &quot;I thought you&#8217;d never ask.&quot; So finally brought him in w- and since then we&#8217;ve been, um, we&#8217;ve been 50/50 partners all the way</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Okay, that&#8217;s awesome. And so w- uh, if you were to do it again, like would you do it any different or did you need to get to that, to that burnout mark before you could hire?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> No, no, I would have done it. Knowing what I know now, you know, a decade or more later, I would&#8217;ve started larger. So a lot of people think that you have to start small and then bank, you know, a l- a little bit of cash here and there to eventually get to the point where you can go to the next level, and then do the kinda the same thing.</p>
<p>That takes a ton of time. And when you look at, you know, our lives, people don&#8217;t realize kinda how finite it is. One of the things that I like to do is break down what your life expectancy is into weeks, <span style="color:#808080">[00:09:00]</span> and then see what you&#8217;re doing on a weekly basis, and you really don&#8217;t have a lot of time. So why put the same amount of effort in going after, let&#8217;s say, a $100,000 payout when you can put the same amount of effort into going for, for a 10 million or a $20 million payout?</p>
<p>So what I realized in the beginning is that I should have just started adding zeros onto what my goals were and what type of deals I wanted to do, and then realized that I don&#8217;t&#8230; Again, uh, going back to the previous, the previous no- uh, point, I didn&#8217;t need to do everything, and that includes my money. I didn&#8217;t have to use only my money.</p>
<p>I could have s- from the beginning, started raising capital from external, you know, third parties to help build the dream, and then give them a great return along the way. And that&#8217;s how we&#8217;ve been able to scale so quickly over the last, you know, seven to eight years, is by focusing on the point that doesn&#8217;t need to be my cash equity, it doesn&#8217;t need to be my debt.</p>
<p>You know, someone else can, can sign on the debt for me, as long <span style="color:#808080">[00:10:00]</span> as they&#8217;re properly compensated. You know, as long as I have the, the operational wherehow, the opportunities, the deal flow, um, I can put that all together much faster. So I w- I just wish f- for&#8230; You know, in the beginning, I was flipping $40,000 houses on the south side of Des Moines, Iowa, when I could have already just been building 10 million, $20 million assets from the get-go</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow. Well, was there some people that came into your life that helped you, to help you teach this stu- or to teach you this stuff, or?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. So this is one of the things that I always tell kinda new real estate investors is, you know, s- surround yourself with people that are successful in your field. Um, there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s a great saying, I forgot who said it, but you&#8217;re the average of the five people you spend the most amount of time with.</p>
<p>So, you know, if you&#8217;re spending time with a bunch of people that are making minimum wage, you&#8217;re probably going to be making minimum wage. But if you have the ability to surround yourself with people that <span style="color:#808080">[00:11:00]</span> are, you know, at the next level or the next two or three levels of where you wanna get to, that will start rubbing off on you.</p>
<p>So easy ways to find this, there&#8217;s always local meetup groups, um There&#8217;s also, you know, paid membership groups. So if you wanna get really serious about your craft or your trade, you know, you gotta go to the places where, you know, most of the masses aren&#8217;t allowed to go because there&#8217;s some type of paywall.</p>
<p>Um, and in most cases, that paywall makes sense because then, you know, the, the guys that are doing 100 million a year, they&#8217;re not gonna go to the, you know, the community center free meetup on a Wednesday afternoon or Wednesday night, right? They&#8217;re gonna go to the 35, $50,000 a year paid, you know, once quarterly, once a, a week-long trip.</p>
<p>So these masterminds are super important. Um, I have always been parts of masterminds g- going through the business, uh, you know, life cycle. I, I learned this from, uh, Napoleon Hill&#8217;s Think and Grow Rich, where he talks <span style="color:#808080">[00:12:00]</span> about masterminds and how important they are. So I&#8217;ve always had a general business mastermind.</p>
<p>Didn&#8217;t have to necessarily be about my, my asset class or industry. Uh, and then I would also be a part of a, a, a mastermind that was specific to what I was trying to do at that time. And, you know, you don&#8217;t have to start at the $50,000 level. What I always tell people is set aside a number of top-line revenue for educational purposes.</p>
<p>So, you know, start with 1% or 5%. I think 5% is pretty aggressive, but if you wanna scale faster, that&#8217;s how you do it. And then that money goes into a special education account. And in the beginning, it may only be a couple hundred bucks, but a couple hundred bucks can buy you some really awesome books, right?</p>
<p>Then all of a sudden you maybe get 1,000 bucks or 2,000 bucks, and that&#8217;s a great three-day weekend course that you could pay for. And then very quickly that starts growing, and then all of a sudden you have 10,000 in that account or 20,000. Now you can start paying to get into those higher level rooms, those higher level groups where you <span style="color:#808080">[00:13:00]</span> really&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s crazy how fast you can compress learning. Something that took somebody 20, 30 years to learn how to do, just by being next to them and, and going to these, these masterminds, you can compress all of that knowledge, all the, the successes and failures that they&#8217;ve had into a period of one year for you.</p>
<p>So now you&#8217;ve&#8211; you&#8217;re getting to catapult and almost, you know, skip over all of that pain and heartache and discovery that someone else had to go through. So I always tell people, you know, you can learn from other people&#8217;s successes, but you can also learn from other people&#8217;s failures. But to learn from people&#8217;s failures, you have to be in a room where people are willing to be vulnerable and share those true failures.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Well, I mean, and then that&#8217;s the next question. Like, h- uh, what do you think is in it for them to be vulnerable and share those failures and, and, and help you?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> You know, they&#8217;re in the room for the same reason. They&#8217;re trying to grow and, and level up. Um, there&#8217;s that old adage that, you know, two heads are better than one. Sometimes all it takes is a fresh <span style="color:#808080">[00:14:00]</span> perspective for somebody to see something that you have been stuck on for one, two, three years, and sometimes it comes from somebody in a different industry than yours.</p>
<p>Because in their industry, they do things a little bit differently. They look at problems differently the, than the way that you look at problems in your industry. That&#8217;s why I always say it&#8217;s important to not only be in a mastermind that is industry specific, but one that&#8217;s just general business, &#8217;cause then you can learn how other industries are tackling problems.</p>
<p>So they&#8217;re there to, to learn as well. It&#8217;s not like these are people that aren&#8217;t getting anything out of the groups. The people that go to these groups, typically the structure is you go&#8230; It&#8217;s multiple days. They&#8217;re broken into rooms, and then each person has to present anywhere between 30 to, you know, 50-minute presentation on a give that they&#8217;re giving to the group, something that they learned, something that they think is valuable to the group.</p>
<p>And then at the end of that presentation, they have maybe 10 minutes for an ask. Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;m working on. Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve been struggling on. You know, q- Q&amp;A. Let&#8217;s, let&#8217;s figure it out together in this room. So it&#8217;s kinda like a sounding board, <span style="color:#808080">[00:15:00]</span> almost like a, a board of directors that you don&#8217;t have to pay for their insurance and healthcare, et cetera.</p>
<p>So it, it&#8217;s, it&#8217;s super awesome structure</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, and sometimes you can learn from somebody who is even at the beginning of their journey because, uh, maybe you might have gotten away from some of the fundamentals, right? And you&#8217;re like, &quot;Oh, geez, I used to do that, and I got success, and now I&#8217;m stuck,&quot; and maybe that might be the kind of the aha that you get from someone who&#8217;s just getting started, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> 100%. 100%.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> So now you do a lot of traveling. H- how do you, how do you set up your, your, your jam space, your, your home office if you keep on moving?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. So the, the key is to have a, an office that is easy to set up and take down on, on a moment&#8217;s notice, but then also to have kind of processes and procedures in place to make sure that you&#8217;re always in a reliable space or reliable mindset. So for example, anywhere I&#8217;m traveling, I do a lot of podcasts.</p>
<p>I always find podcast studios to rent. So this is not in my office. This isn&#8217;t a virtual <span style="color:#808080">[00:16:00]</span> screen. This is a real podcast studio that I rent on a, you know, on an hourly basis. Uh, the other thing is to kinda&#8230; For me, because I try to travel as light as possible, I travel around with just one backpack. It&#8217;s a travel backpack.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s 45 liters. Um, so my workspace has to be super refined. So laptop, phone, um, a Wi-Fi- uh, satellite Wi-Fi, uh, just in case I, I&#8217;m in an area where there isn&#8217;t reliable internet. Or like we were talking before we started recording, you know, there was a period of time where I worked from a Airbnb that I rented in the middle of the, of the, the tropical rainforest, so there was no internet connection there at all.</p>
<p>Um, and then, you know, making sure that you have a proper work hygiene. So just because you&#8217;re working from home, I mean, and this is just my opinion, so I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s a lot of people that would disagree with this, but just &#8217;cause you&#8217;re working from home doesn&#8217;t mean that you should be working in your pajamas, you know, rolling out of bed.</p>
<p>Treat it like I at least like to treat it <span style="color:#808080">[00:17:00]</span> like I&#8217;m going to work. I get up, I take a shower, I brush my teeth, I eat breakfast, I put on work clothes, and then I go into my work space, wherever I set up that space to be. Typically, it&#8217;s not in the space that I&#8217;m relaxing in because that mental separation is not only good for when you&#8217;re trying to get things done on the work side, but then also when you&#8217;re on the, you know, the, the balance side, the work-life balance side.</p>
<p>You know, when you&#8217;re done working, when are you actually done working? F- and for me, it&#8217;s I put away all my stuff, I take off my work clothes, I put on my chill clothes, and I&#8217;m done for the day. Um, because, like I said, you want&#8211; Uh, for people that have been business owners for long enough, burnout is a real problem, and if you lose your passion for what you&#8217;re doing, all of a sudden you&#8217;re in a nightmare of your own making.</p>
<p>So you gotta make sure to set boundaries, just like you would set with someone else paying you. You know, you&#8217;re not gonna answer phone calls and emails on the weekend when you&#8217;re with your family. Why would you do it in your own business, <span style="color:#808080">[00:18:00]</span> right? So just making sure that you have that, that proper hygiene is super important.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Wow, that&#8217;s, that&#8217;s really good. I remember actually when I was first starting to do, uh, cold calls, I, I actually did put on a suit and tie to make phone calls, and it, it actually did help. I, I was, I was more confident on the phone. It, it just was, it is what it is, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Look good, feel good. You know what I&#8217;m saying?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Now, uh, I, I imagine that, uh, it might be a little bit weird for the people around you.</p>
<p>Like, what are you doing sitting in your office with your, with your suit on? But I mean, hey, if it works, it works, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, exactly. There&#8217;s a ton of books on, on, uh, the psychology of this exact aspect of working from home and how do you separate work-life balance that I&#8217;ve read, and it&#8217;s&#8211; I think it&#8217;s super important. It may seem weird, it may seem cheesy, but it really does have awesome results, uh, both from stress levels and from, you know, being laser-focused when you are in work mode, and then being super relaxed when you <span style="color:#808080">[00:19:00]</span> go out of work mode into, you know, chill mode or, you know, I&#8217;m at home.</p>
<p>You know, &#8217;cause y-you&#8217;re in the same space usually. You&#8217;re in your home, you just move from, I don&#8217;t know, your kitchen or your office to your, to your living room, or in some cases, like when I first started, I was in a st- a studio apartment. So there was no different zones, if you will. You ha- I had to, like, make my own zone.</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s why I forced myself to, you know, put away all my things, put them out of sight, &#8217;cause just even seeing my laptop would, would start making me think about th- work again when it was 9:00, 10:00 PM. It just started disrupting my sleep. That&#8217;s not healthy. So making sure that you have proper work hygiene, I think, is one of the most important things, um, for your kinda jam space if, you know</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Now I don&#8217;t, uh, I don&#8217;t remember, um, I, I don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s going on in, in, uh, school systems today, but I know when I was going to school, I don&#8217;t remember a real big, um, curriculum on cash flow and, and that kind of stuff. And I, I&#8217;m wondering, like, uh, is, you know, how do you learn <span style="color:#808080">[00:20:00]</span> that? How do you keep that going?</p>
<p>H- how do you make sure that you&#8217;re making more than you&#8217;re putting out? Like, do you keep an eye on those numbers every day? Do you have somebody</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. So, you know, there&#8217;s obviously levels to this. So at the beginning it was, it was just me. Now I have a full, you know, bookkeeping team and an accountant to handle that stuff for me. But in from the beginning, you know, for your listeners that are thinking about taking the plunge, you always gotta focus on your profit first.</p>
<p>I know this sounds kinda backwards. Most people think, &quot;Hey, here&#8217;s the revenue, pay all your expenses, and then whatever&#8217;s left over is what I&#8217;m gonna take home.&quot; But what you end up realizing is expenses start growing as the business start growing. So if you don&#8217;t take profit off the table, you have problems.</p>
<p>So there&#8217;s a really good book, I&#8217;m, I&#8217;m s- blanking on the author, but the name of the book is called Profit First. I really recommend people take a look. I not only use that system in that book for the business and the, the multiple businesses that we have, but then also for my personal life. I created a profit first flow that makes sure that I&#8217;m taking <span style="color:#808080">[00:21:00]</span> chips off the table all the time because I&#8230;</p>
<p>You know, in these masterminds, I&#8217;ve met guys that, you know, that they had successful businesses for a decade, two decades, and all of a sudden they f- they file for bankruptcy. How can that be? Right? How can you be successful for multiple decades and then have nothing to show for it at the end? And it&#8217;s usually &#8217;cause they were never taking chips off the table.</p>
<p>They just kept reinvesting into the business and then all of a sudden, once the business was no longer viable because either the economy changed or we had a p- global pandemic or whatever happened, they had nothing to show for 20 years of work. So I think that&#8217;s a huge mistake that a lot of people make right off the bat.</p>
<p>So definitely read Profit First. I think it&#8217;s Mike Michalowicz, I think is the name of the author. Super cool guy. I saw him speak in person, really animated dude. Um, so go out and ch- and check out that book. And then the second thing that I&#8217;d, I&#8217;d tell people to focus on is when you&#8217;re&#8230; You know, you gotta have clear goals.</p>
<p>So when you go into business <span style="color:#808080">[00:22:00]</span> being extremely vague, um, you don&#8217;t really go anywhere. It&#8217;s like getting into a car without a GPS or a map, and then just driving hoping that you&#8217;re gonna get to your destination. That doesn&#8217;t work. So the other book that I tell people to read is, uh, Traction by Gino Wickman, Gino Wickman.</p>
<p>Traction: Get a Grip on Your Business by Gino Wickman, and it basically shows you how to set up a operating system for your business with very clear and concise goals on a 10-year, three, five or three-year, one-year, 90-day, one-week, and daily level. So you know exactly where you are and ha- you have a scorecard that you can easily look at to see, am I on track or am, am I not on track, and why?</p>
<p>So those are two books I really recommend for as far as cash flow management goes.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> I love that. What other tools do you use? I mean, you&#8217;re, y- I mean, you probably have a pretty good tech stack, right? Be- being, with doing all your traveling. What, what, what do you use?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, now it&#8217;s been getting a lot easier, but when we first started this business over a <span style="color:#808080">[00:23:00]</span> decade ago, um, the&#8211; we&#8211; you had to be very, um, nimble, and you had to be able to kind of MacGyver things together. Uh, now there&#8217;s a lot of full tech stacks that are kind of all, all-encompassing. But then what I found out is, you know, that the KISS method, keep, keep it simple, stupid, is still a really great adage to keep in mind because you can get, you know, over your skis and all of a sudden decide that this, you know, this Salesforce massive package that costs $10,000 a month that&#8217;s gonna solve all your problems will solve all your problems, and then it doesn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>So what I found is that, you know, e- I l- I live on Excel. I love Excel. No, no reason to migrate from that. Email, email client is great. Um, I do have a, a CRM that I use. It&#8217;s kind of&#8230; It&#8217;s called Asana, but there&#8217;s many similar to like ClickUp and Monday, and there&#8217;s a ton of them. Just kinda helps keep projects-oriented tasks, and the great <span style="color:#808080">[00:24:00]</span> part about it is those tasks also have deadlines that they start pinging you via email or even text message if you allow it to, um, so you can kinda stay on track.</p>
<p>So, you know, as far as total tech stack goes, we have, um, Asana is where we live kinda most of the time &#8217;cause that&#8217;s what keeps the rest of the team and the rest of the company oriented towards their specific goals for their specific departments, et cetera. But then also it flows up to the company-wide goals and what we as the owners are setting for everybody.</p>
<p>Um, and then, like I said, just kind of super basic stuff, keeping it simple. Excel, uh, G- we use Gmail. We use the, the corporate version of Gmail, but it&#8217;s still a Gmail account. Um, pretty, pretty basic. And then, you know, with, uh, with all the AI stuff that&#8217;s coming out nowadays, um, we, we do dabble a little bit into, you know, some of these LLMs that help reduce the amount of time it takes to produce certain deliverables like presentations <span style="color:#808080">[00:25:00]</span> and, and summaries of financial data, things like that.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, I love that. Um, and, and that&#8217;s the thing. I mean, sometimes these all-encompassing sort of tech stacks might be kind of mediocre at everything rather than picking something that&#8217;s, like, really good at what it does type thing, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, and then not only that, but then it&#8217;s also a single point of failure. So we saw recently when there was like a massive outage, I think it was the Cloudflare, C- Cloudfla-flare, something like that outage, took down something insane like 23% of the internet. So if you had everything in your business housed on one of these CRMs that was a do everything for you CRM, and now you have no access to that CI- CRM for gosh knows how long, that could be a huge problem in your business, especially if it, your business deals in kind of very tight deadlines and large money transactions, things like that</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah, and you see a lot of businesses running their, you know, their whole marketing on Facebook or whatever happens to be their social media platform too, which is super <span style="color:#808080">[00:26:00]</span> dangerous, right? I mean, something could happen. You could lose your profile, right?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. Sing-single point of failure. You always want at least two to three vendors for every, every thing that you need, every vendor that, that, that you&#8217;re looking at to use, so</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah, I love that. Let&#8217;s get into your guest solo. So tell me what&#8217;s exciting in your business right now</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. So, uh, up until recently, how we&#8217;ve raised money for every one our deals were what are called single asset syndications, which means that when I need money for a deal, I go out and tell people, &quot;I need money for this one deal.&quot; And the hard part about that is before I can raise the money, I have to get everything else lined up, the financing, the deal, everything.</p>
<p>Which mean- meant that I usually only had couple weeks, three to, three to eight weeks to raise all the money I needed for some of these projects that were pretty large, you know, $15, $16 million build that I had to raise $3 to $5 million on. The cool thing that I&#8217;m super excited about now is we have launched our <span style="color:#808080">[00:27:00]</span> first fund, and it&#8217;s actually a general partner fund which offers kinda higher returns than what a limited partner fund would offer.</p>
<p>So now we have kinda like this, this, you know, this track record from the single asset syndications. All these investors are coming into the GP fund, which now means that we have cash to play with before we actually need the cash, which allows us to do some very creative things. So for example, when we&#8217;re negotiating, um, a purchase on a property, we can say, &quot;Hey, here&#8217;s the regular price.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a severely discounted price, but we&#8217;ll pay you in 10 days. We&#8217;ll give you your entire purchase price,&quot; and it could be a couple million dollars, right, in 10 days. And usually there are some people that are willing to accept that because time is money to a lot of people. So super excited about the GP fund.</p>
<p>It is our first fund. It&#8217;s a $25 million fund, um, and it invests alongside me and Steven as the owner on a lot of these single asset syndications that we do. So, um, super excited about that. I know it may sound a little bit like gobbledygook to some of the <span style="color:#808080">[00:28:00]</span> people that are out there, but in the syndication space it&#8217;s a, it&#8217;s a huge milestone.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hmm. Cool. Now, what is the type of person that would benefit from that?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, so we help, um, you know, a lot of high income, um, business owners and W2 investors. So a lot of what we do is focus around tax advantageous structuring of deals. So for example, we closed on a deal in Rochester, New York, uh, at, uh, on New- uh, literally on New Year&#8217;s Eve. Um, and every investor that invested into that project, for every dollar they invested in, they got to write off 90 cents on their, uh, tax returns, uh, for any passive investments on their K1.</p>
<p>So that was huge, and it helped a lot of our investors out that were trying to, you know, plan taxes. They, maybe they didn&#8217;t, uh, hold tax money in a reserve account as they were working throughout the year, which I know has happened to a lot of new business owners. <span style="color:#808080">[00:29:00]</span> It happened to me when I was a new business owner.</p>
<p>You know, because now no longer it&#8217;s being taken out of your paycheck ahead of time, you&#8217;re just getting all that money and then you forget to set things aside. So then they come scrambling to me and say, &quot;Hey, Fernando, I have a $300,000 tax bill. I have $50,000 to pay this. What am I gonna do? Can you help me out?&quot;</p>
<p>I said, &quot;Actually, I can. I have these deals that you can invest in that will lower your tax burden.&quot; So, um, y- you know, typically high, high income W2 earners, uh, business owners, especially if you&#8217;re a business owner that you have passive gains that you need to offset, we&#8217;re very good at offsetting those</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Hey, interesting. All right. And, uh, I mean, that leads to something that we could have talked about earlier, which is the tax issue, right, in, in your business and making sure that you save enough money for the taxes, right? Wow. So now how would someone f- what&#8217;s the process of someone finding out more information about this?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, so there&#8217;s, there&#8217;s&#8211; I always tell people there&#8217;s kind of two ways to reach me. So if you&#8217;re more of a active outreach guy, you&#8217;re a cold <span style="color:#808080">[00:30:00]</span> caller, you&#8217;re a sales guy, you&#8217;re, you&#8217;re listening to this right now and you&#8217;re just like, &quot;Fernandez, just give me your number. I wanna call you right now,&quot; here is my cellphone.</p>
<p>My, my real cellphone number is 630-408-8090. So for all my extroverts out there, 630-408-8090. If you&#8217;re somebody that&#8217;s more of an introvert, let&#8217;s say, or a little bit slower to, uh, reach out when you have questions or, or interests, you know, I always tell those, those folks to go to our website. It&#8217;s www.ssse.com, and there you can find out all about us, what we do, uh, the 100-plus podcasts I&#8217;ve been on, um, a f- a FAQ page with video responses to every question.</p>
<p>I think we got like hundreds of questions on there. Uh, and then if you want to schedule a call on your own time and terms, there is a link that you can go right to my calendar, and you can schedule a time that works for you</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Okay, awesome. All right, so before <span style="color:#808080">[00:31:00]</span> we go, let&#8217;s talk a little bit about music. Who&#8217;s your favorite rock star?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> It&#8217;s a tough,</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> a tough question. Um I mean, I know we were talking about this before. I don&#8217;t know if I can pick one of the guys in the band, but my favorite band of all time is Umphrey&#8217;s McGee. It&#8217;s a jam band. They are pretty rock heavy for a jam band. So I&#8217;d say if, if you&#8217;re allow, allowing me to answer with a whole</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> fine. Yep.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Okay. Umphrey&#8217;s McGee</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Awesome. Right on. And so y- you like, w- what do you, have you seen them in concert? Or like, how, how, do you follow them?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah, I&#8217;ve, I&#8217;ve probably seen them more than 40 times live. I go to the, you know, I go to the music festivals that they headline. I, I camp out in a, in a tent. Nowadays I&#8217;m getting a little bit older, so it&#8217;s more of a, I rent an RV and then rent an RV space to g- camp out instead of just being on the ground like I used to.</p>
<p>But yeah, I, I follow them around all the time. I love the, I love the music <span style="color:#808080">[00:32:00]</span> festival culture and the food and, uh, exploring new music that you hear just from walking from one stage to another stage. So really love that</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. Yeah. Have you ever played an instrument?</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> I have. So, uh, piano, guitar, I sing. Um, nowadays it&#8217;s more of a hobby than, than something I spend a lot of time on. But, you know, high school, college days, I, I was playing guitar a couple hours every day. Piano when I was at home. My parents have a piano in their house. And now, uh, like we were talking before we started recording, uh, because I travel a lot, I go to countries sometimes where I don&#8217;t speak the native language.</p>
<p>I found that one of the easiest ways to connect to people that don&#8217;t speak your language is to go up onto the stage and sing some karaoke, and you end up making a lot of friends for life real fast.</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> Yeah. That is an awesome, awesome tip for sure. Rayon, well so, thank you so much for rocking out with me today, Fernando. This has been a lot of fun</p>
<p><strong style="color:#9C5DE1">Fernando Angelucci:</strong> Yeah. It has been a lot of fun. Thanks for having me on, Tim</p>
<p><strong style="color:#DC7D3E">Tim Melanson:</strong> No <span style="color:#808080">[00:33:00]</span> problem. And to the listeners, make sure you go to workathomerockstar.com for more information. We&#8217;ll see you next time on the Work at Home Rockstar podcast</p></div>
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