I walk into the room and I see a massive spread of seafood… So elegant… It looks amazing. I don’t even know what most of it is, but it just smells rich. Only one problem. I don’t eat seafood. I have been successful at avoiding it for my whole life.
So there I was. Looking at probably the most expensive spread of food I’ve ever seen in my life and my “belief” was that I didn’t like seafood. I remember thinking at that moment… Why do I believe this? What is a belief anyway? I’ve heard this definition of a belief:
A belief is a strong feeling of certainty.
A belief is neither truth nor certainty. A belief is a feeling. Our feelings are affected by our thoughts. So that means that by changing our thoughts consciously we can change our beliefs. I started to weigh the pros and cons of this belief. I decided that not eating seafood is a belief that didn’t serve me any more. Maybe in the past I was able to get some feeling of individuality.. being a Maritimer who doesn’t like seafood… I couldn’t even remember exactly why I decided to believe that.
So I filled my plate… a little bit of everything. I ate it all and it was marvelous.
That day I learned a lesson. We all have beliefs. Some of them are serving and some not. We all have the ability to decide what to believe. I know it sounds too simple, but is that a good enough reason to not “believe” what I’m saying?
If you have a dream and you have not achieved it yet, then you have a barrier. You have a belief (or two) that is standing in the way of your success. Maybe you believe you are too young, too old, no time, no money, can’t afford it… that’s a good one. Either way, it is simply a belief. The reality is that there is someone out there who has achieved their dreams and they have the same “excuse” as you have. That means that they were able to change their belief system and so can you.
So what do you think? Is it time to get your beliefs working for you or do you have a reason to keep them working against you? Fortunately, it is a choice. Choose wisely.
